A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hiya, i am 21 and have a problem . I met a guy when i was 15 and was seeing him since for the last 4 years. He left me when i was 19 because i did notr sleep with him due to religious reasons. He then slept with someone else...realised that he is not happy with her, he came back to me and becasue i love him i took him back but 6 months after getting back he found out that his ex is preganant and he wanted to be aresposible father so he went back to her and married her. They now have a 7 month old daughter. 7 months has passed since we last spoke and he called me again last week saying he missed me and wants to see me..but doesnt want to leave his wife because if his baby. i am rather confused about his behavoiur...why is he doing this. Does he still love me? I still love him.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 December 2007):
 I'm with the anonymous agony aunt. Whether he loves you or not, he can't (maybe he won't) offer you what you need. You don't need this sort of problems. Find yourself someone who will be able to commit fully.
I have a suspicion that perhaps he thinks he could succeed now where he failed in the past.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): He sounds very confused and mixed up emotionally and unfortunately for some men they become 'left out' from their partners affections after a baby arrives (in their mind) and start to look elsewhere. I generalise but this may be happening. All I would say is stay clear of him. If you had his baby and he started wandering straight away you would be devastated. You don't need to get involved with this man.
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