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writes: Okay,Well, my ex of 5 yrs. and I are working right next door to each other. I often stand in front to get some air, and we have run into each other at least 7 times now, in the last 3 weeks...today i saw her....she doesn't run off and cut it short, but she will talk to me...she is seeing someone, as well I, but i still feel a bit for her...when she stops to talk, she will stay awhile...the conversation is light and upbeat, and today i saw her get flusstered a bit, like nervous, but not in a bad way...so we have gone from not seeing each other at all for quite awhile, to running into each other almost every other day...today, i said, "well, if i don't see you have a nice christmas " she said, "i'm sure i'll see you" before then....and then she said my lips were chapped and offered me her chapstick....so, is she being friendly and polite, or is she curious? and if so, which i do care for her, how do i get her to go out for a drink? i said, "we should get a drink one night" and she said, yeah, after x-mas....what to do???
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2008): Hi Hunny,
If you still care about her then you will just have to ask her for that drink and ask her can you talk with her, Remembering the fact that you both have partners now so hunny things could get sticky, You really need to find out how she feels and that this is just not a pull on the old heart strings from the past. TAKE IT EASY TRY NOT TO GET HURT OR HURT ANYONE AND GOOD LUCK WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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