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*atrickthesyrup
writes:Well I try to talk to most girls, some just ignore me, some turn me uninterested.I believe it is my facial expressions or the way I look, or what I say sometimes... I understand that everyone has a busy life and don't get time to meet, and stuff. whats sad is that I'm autistic where I still have feelings for someone and I can't get over them. I know I'm never going to get a GF because I'm antisocial no matter what good happens. I tried to be gay (because I think I'm 10% bisexual) but thats not working out for me. but I know this is not a good place to ask for a psychiatrist to erase these feelings as I don't want them anymore.I'm 20 years old, and I honestly tried. I think its too hard to try hard enough, I just want to be happy to be single for the rest of my life, and not lonely ever...I hate myself....
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reader, muffy +, writes (24 December 2007):
 ok,dont feel bad about yourself.hating yourself isnt gunna help.you could go to counceling or a phsychiatrist.if you wanna be happy being single for the rest of your life then you should.get some of your friends together and go to movies,the mall,carnivals and a whole bunch of things.you can still have fun and be single.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2007): Hey, don't hate yourself. You don't have to be autistic to feel the way you do. We all feel like that and you are still young. I know it seems like everyone is out there having sex and experiencing love. I haven't had a boyfriend since mine left me in June and I envy the happy people too. Look, no one can truly love you until you love yourself. Just be patient and hold your own until someone comes along that accepts you for who you are. Maybe another cute autistic person is out there thinking the same thing you are. I'm not sure if autism affects mostly boys, which increases the odds a bit, but just hang on, you'll find someone. Don't get down on yourself in the meantime. I am sure there is something wonderful you have to offer the world. Good Luck!!! :)
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