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writes:We are a group of three friends...2 guys 1 girl...problem i like this girl, my friend(other guy) knows it...we all hang out a lot...i like it when i am with her only because she notices me....but when we are all three together...it just seems she pays more attention to him a bit..they touch each other(pokes and tickels) and she puts her hand around his sometimes(i tend not to notice) but it just kills me, IDk IM JUST LOST! i guess i am jelous..i relaly dont know what to do...to be honest i dont know what i need help on i just know i need help.but i need more help then just..."tell them how you feel"..there must be other ways to deal with the jelousy.I feel like i should try to make her think of me more...fight for her attention or something but my friend is the one in the group that is like a puppy...looks good in anything, nice, funny, hugable, its hard to describe him but i guess puppy is the right word...how can i compete with that...i mean CMON!!He looks sad but in a cute way...everything he does looks "cute"...while i do it just either wierd or funny.... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): Don't fall in love with him too. I mean stop focusing on his looks and qualities and focus on yours. Just try to do it. I know it's hard for teenagers to develop good self esteem but you can do it. Just repeat to yourself everyday that nobody is better than you and that no man deserves her more than you. Then invite her to go out alone with you. Use any excuse but don't let your buddy know. Maybe he likes the idea of you envying him or worst yet he has fallen for her too. You have to imitate grownup relationships. Have you ever seen three adults going out romantically? Lose your male friend and that's the only way you can make her fall in love with her. AND!!! Never ever talk about him when you are with her. If he is that cute he doesn't need anymore promotion. If she brings him up do not give it importance and always change the subject. If he interferes tell him to stop. He is supposed to be your friend and knows you like her so he should not be making you jealous or competing with you. If you think you can trust him tell him to get lost. That you want to be with her alone. Hope everything turns out good w/her.
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reader, danielle rudolph +, writes (22 December 2007):
 If it really bugs you that much, Try to hang out with a different group.
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