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writes:I am going out with this guy who is 2 years older than me. The other day we told each other that we loved each other and that we never want to lose each other. because he made me happy, i gave him a blowjob, 3 times. He said that i was really good, but he pushes my head so i go down a bit further, but it makes me want to gip. What can i do?He tells me that he wants to have sex with me but i am only 14. What do i do?could i have gotten any disease from giving him a blowjob as we didnt use a condom. He did not come. Please help
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (23 December 2007):
 Blowjob:Although he didn't come he could have 'leaked' a little bit, Hun i would get checked out maybe in case you'r unsure, cant hurt.About him pushing your head, tell him not to do that. He should respect you and make it enjoyable for both of you. xSex:First of all wait until you 16. Secondly if he loves you as he says he does he wont pressure you into anything, if he does then loose him hun before he hurts you.Message me if you need more advice hun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): You are not going to like my answer, because I'm saying you are way too young to be doing this. But then, this old man lost his virginity at 14. lol That was such a very long time ago. Nevertheless, this is just too damn young for a nice girl.
That being said, if he was shoving his prod forcefully into you, and gagging you, you may have someone who is demonstrating a very unpleasant tendency in my opinion. I know you think you "love" him, and you won't like this opinion either, but I doubt that you will still be dating him a year from now, and you may have done things you may regret. You have the opportunity for a long life ahead of you, please take your time and stop rushing into being an older woman so damn fast.
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reader, Dangly +, writes (23 December 2007):
Blow job:
yes you could have gotten a disease but i wouldnt worry about it, i doubt you have one
Sex:
Just say no if you dont want to do something, if your ready for sex then do it, the fact you have said:
"He tells me that he wants to have sex with me but i am only 14. What do i do?"
tells me that you dont want sex, so dont have it. He cant force you to do anything you dont want to, just have a firm hand and say how you feel
IF he does love you, then he wont force you to do anything you dont want to. he wont pressure you.
I recommend you really think about what you want because i dont want you to do something you will regret, but i dont know you or what you want.
what you want to do is up to you and only you
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