She masturbates in a less usual way, crossing her legs. Which is better? Her way or sex with a partner?
Q. Hey all I appreciate any advice. I have been with my gf for 10 months I'm 21. So this is why I'm posting: Basically she masturbates using the method of crossing her leg and squeezing. She never masturbates with fingers. When I ask what she prefe...
A. 6 October 2012: dylan: Just a bit of a hint from an old guy who really has been close to (one or more) women in the past.....
You write: "Also quite selfishly I don't know if I'd want a girl who can give herself much better orgasms than I can."
HINT: ... (read in full...)
Should I have just said nothing at all? Her erratic behaviour on the vacation was too much for me
Q. should i just not say anything at all I went on a vacation with one of my husbands former co worker. Its not like she was my friend or anything like that. I just knew her and because we saw each other very seldom, she seemed ok for me to travel...
A. 4 October 2012: You answered your own question. To wit: "Its too high of a price to pay to be accompanied by someone like her."
Next time, go with someone else, or alone....
Have fun....... (read in full...)
He's my ex and now he's married. So is he just looking for a booty call with me? Based on his actions?
Q. My ex dumped me a few years back. We were together a long time. It got really bad at the end. He ended up getting a restraining order against me because i would follow him, (not proud of that). Anyway, we bumped into each other last year. It was n...
A. 4 October 2012: OF COURSE he's looking for a booty call!!! Are you content to go through the heartbreak of hanging with this guy (again).... and then having you and him "found out" by his new wifey.... and going through another "break up"... when he has to tell ... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose her, but we have some trust issues. But could it be that I don't satisfy her sexually?
Q. I'm 45 shes 31 - dating a month. On every other level we have a blast - we click, but when it comes to sex lately I think there are some trust issues that arise. I'm use to doing the pleasing but I'm not seeing that in her, its more shes trying t...
A. 4 October 2012: YOu can talk about it all you want... I believe that is known as "oral sex...."
BUT, you and she need to figure out how your going to accomdate one-anothers' sexual preferences and intents....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has started holding my head and staring at me during sex. It's weird and makes me uncomfortable, how do I get him to stop?
Q. This is a bit embarrassing but... My boyfriend of four years has started doing something really strange when we have sex. He started doing that close to six months ago and I don't know why he started. When we are...in the act...he holds my head i...
A. 4 October 2012: Are you dating Norman Bates? I believe that that's how HE behaves during coitus......... (read in full...)
How realistic is it for me to want to date only uncircumcised men?
Q. I know this may make me shallow, childish, immature, but it's how I feel: Three years ago I was engaged to a man from Europe. He was uncircumcised; it was not my first experience with an intact man. I loved it so much, and he was so gentle wi...
A. 4 October 2012: I'd love to be a "fly on the wall" when you quiz guys about this......... (read in full...)
How can you trust someone enough to share all your flaws and secrets?
Q. I've been talking to this guy for a few weeks and we're really connecting. I really like him and I think this might turn into something. But here's the thing, I haven't been in a relationship in three years. He just got out of a long-term one (a...
A. 4 October 2012: One time, a girl I was dating agreed that we could/should SHARE all our flaws with one-another....
As it happened, she was able to give me her's in just a few minutes (She didn't vacuum her car very often. She failed to tip her newpaper boy, one... (read in full...)
Is it normal to not want sex at all one week? Yet another week Sex is all I can think of?
Q. Is it normal to not want sex? Last week, it was all I could think about. And this week, I have no desire for it. I mean, sometimes people go through a dry spell, where they don't have sex for a long period of time. This is almost the same, I gues...
A. 4 October 2012: One time, I went several HOURS without a craving for s*x...
THEN, that movie (Saving Private Ryan) was over and the cravings came right back... when I was exiting the cinema and saw the cutest little thing in short shorts and a crop-top... (read in full...)
I am financially supporting my boyfriend and it's getting to be too much. What should I do or try to resolve this?
Q. I've been a relationship with this guy for almost a year and, he does not have a job. When we first met, he was working at his dad's company but, he quit because, he wanted to branch out on his own. Well, since then he has not been actively loo...
A. 4 October 2012: I know EXACTLY what he is not telling you....
He's not telling you, "Gosh, (your name here), you sure are a gullible and accomodating girl to believe that you should be responsible for me... even tho' I am not responsible for MYSELF..... and I SU... (read in full...)
I love my sister but I don't know if I can live with her because of the way she is
Q. My sister and I aren't particularly close. I'm the oldest by one year, but we are so very different. She's sociable and i like my alone time. I have two very close friends, that i trust with my life, when she has a multitude of friends and ...
A. 4 October 2012: I suggest that you print a copy of this submittal.... hand it to your sister.... and ask her, "I wrote this. What's your take on it?"
If she sez, "Yep, you're right... we'll probably kill or maim one-another if we are roomies...." then you can ... (read in full...)
I am SO in love with this girl who is my Ex Gf. But what do you guys think? She says she can't say how she feels.
Q. Hello again, my name is E.and there is this amazing girl. She is my ex Gf. Her personality is amazing we got together the day after my birthday and we stayed together for 6 months and she was 100 percent with me. she didnt lie, she didnt cheat ...
A. 4 October 2012: Looney: Are you unable to "see" this delightful young lady for the drama queen that she is???? You and she... and new/ex-.... you make up and break up.... HOW MANY times??? THAT's not mature, adult behaviour. That's "kids' stuff."
IF yo... (read in full...)
Is physical pleasure the most important thing about sex and does sex turn men into horny, unthinking animals?
Q. I feel alienated from people because I don't believe in casual sex and favour intimacy over physical pleasure. I've been told that my views come from immaturity and that once I have sex everything will change and I will become nothing short of a sex ...
A. 4 October 2012: You ask: "....does sex turn people, men in particular into horny, unthinking and unremorseful animals?..."
The short answer is "Yes." The rest of your question/submittal is all about the enigma of s*x...... (read in full...)
Married to a Serial Cheater. Our baby will be born in January. And your advice about what to do about this situation would be?
Q. I am married to what I think is a serial cheater. We have been together 7 years married for 4 years. Once caught him on sex dating websites, with hidden email accounts and we put an end to it and communicated on what and why he did it and some of h...
A. 4 October 2012: Let's look at this phrase in your submittal: "...he has always hated lying and his word was always good to trust ..."
If you are gullible enough to actually believe this... then you ARE prepared to live your life in despair and futility with thi... (read in full...)
Why is it so hard for him to make his decision if he knows his happiness is only with me?
Q. I have been attached to this guy for a month plus now. And he used to be working in Singapore, whereas I'm a born-Singaporean. I had broke up with my ex-boyfriend a few months back at the start of 2012, and so I went online Facebook to search for ...
A. 4 October 2012: We guys HATE to make decisions.... ESPECIALLY when the decision that we must make requires that we go away from a woman who we think (or, KNOW!) will be a s*x partner with us..... We NEVER want to let one of you (women) go.... and do just about ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's outgoing personality is causing some trust issues with me. How can I deal with this, or should I even deal with this?
Q. Hi there, I am in a big mess and I need some good advice! My boyfriend and I have been together for around 7 months now. He has a very friendly nature and is able to have conversations with almost anyone and everyone. He makes friends with fem...
A. 4 October 2012: There are appropriate levels of "controlling" and "possessive" and you don't seem to have gone beyond them.... You could use a more mature and dedicated B/F... Look around....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Boyfriend does what he wants without considering my feelings
Q. My boyfriend and I have had a rocky relationship to say the least. The first year of our relationship he had an emotional affair with an old girlfriend. He even kissed her once and even though he told me about it, I have never fully trusted him ...
A. 4 October 2012:
WHY would you put up with a guy like this???? You can do better...
Good luck...... (read in full...)
My husband is constantly putting me down.
Q. My husband who is in denial has been putting me down for years for one reason or another. I will point it out to him as he is doing but he sees NOTHING wrong with it. I have question his love for me, but im so sure that he is NOT nor has ever lov...
A. 4 October 2012: Great hubby you've got there. Tho' I must admit, I think he'd be a FAR BETTER EX-hubby, for you!!!!
Good luck.... and don't stay (with this idjit) so long that you are permanently scarred and unable to adjust to life with your self-res... (read in full...)
Is it wrong of me to be irritated when my ex wants to show me pics his ex took of him while they were on vacations together.
Q. Is it wrong of me to be irritated when my ex wants to show me pics his ex took of him while they were on vacations together. He has them downloaded on his computer and will show them to me talking about the place they were at. He even uses one of ...
A. 3 October 2012: Well, this certainly qualifies as "insensitive"....
Is it typical of his behaviour toward you? If "yes," then consider if it is giving you a preview of the future. Most guys are content to let the ex- go....and NOT wave her (the ex-) in the f... (read in full...)
Guys, if you're not interested in a girl, would you still talk to her every day online for long hours?
Q. Hey,guys,if you're not interested in a girl on a romantic level,would you take the initiative to talk to her EVERY DAY for long hours(6-7 hours) on facebook chat or msn or even hang out with her one-on-one? If you're not interested in her,would you ...
A. 3 October 2012: If she were a "phone sex" operator I'd talk to her endlessly......... (read in full...)
Is his eye contact with other women a red flag?
Q. me and my friend were talking about how her new boyfriebd would be some where with her and she would catch him exchanging eye contact with women. she told me thats a red flag. so recently I have watched my long term boyfriends eyes (been to...
A. 3 October 2012: If eye contact is any measure... then that cute little gal who takes tolls at the bridge between here and Ft Myers is in SERIOUS LOVE with me......
This is a "non-question"..... Making eye contact is often just polite interchange.... AND.... ... (read in full...)
How do I tell this man that is bi-polar that I don't want a relationship with him?
Q. The guy I am seeing has bi-polar stage 6 and has Schizophrenia. He claims he is in a mexican gang as well, but he is as white as can be. He calls me his wife and is trying to get me pg. how do I tell him that I don't want a relationship with him? ...
A. 3 October 2012: Unless there are complications and ties that you are not revealing in your submittal.... the way to discontinue matters is to say to him: ".... You know, (his name here), I think that any "relationship" that was going to take place between us is ... (read in full...)
Is a 6-7 year age gap really that big of a deal in dating?
Q. I've recently started dating this girl. She's really nice, I get along with her really well. But there's a slight age difference. I'm 22 (23 soon), she's recently turned 30. I've only told a few of my friends about her (we've only been on a ...
A. 3 October 2012: How izzit that "...people start to openly judge me..."????
WHO and HOW is this "judgement" being made available to you????? WHY do you give a darn about those who are "openly judging" you????? HOW did they get in to your life... and close en... (read in full...)
We broke up and I said things I didn't mean but why did he treat me the way that he did?
Q. Hello, I have broken up with my boyfriend for just over 2 months now. He was 47 and lived with his mother and the relationship was on and off for about 8 months. All together we got back together 4 times, but on this occassion he does not want to ...
A. 3 October 2012: I was surprised when I went to the top of your submittal and saw that the person who entered it was "age 41-50". I thought it was by someone who was "age 14-16"......
Good luck........ (read in full...)
Is he using me? We never date, just have sex in the woods!
Q. Iv been seeing this guy for 2 months now and we meet up once a week, he seems nice but he never takes me out on a proper date. We only meet up for sex or heavy petting. He doesn't book a room up, we do it in the woods, Im feeling a bit used. He does ...
A. 3 October 2012: I think you are "spot-on"...that he is using you for sex.
Are you not happy with that? IF not.... then all you have to do is close your legs and tell him that you aren't going to be his convenient and available soft/warm/moist lady-place wherein ... (read in full...)
My husband contributes and so does my Mom. Is my boyfriend contributing enough to live most of the time in my home?
Q. I've been separated from my husband for over 2 years. I have a boyfriend and we have been dating for 2 years. I live in a house with my three sons and my Mother. My ex husband presently pays $3500 per month for the mortgage and taxes He also gi...
A. 3 October 2012: You're screwing your ex- for bucks that he could probably get the courts to reduce or eliminate.... You're getting "new B/F" to pay for all your's and his socializing.... and YOU have the audacity to come on this site and ask ANYTHING about this ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with this? My Bf is constantly implying how much better things would be when we go all the way
Q. hello everybody. i'm in a great relationship for about eight months now - thing is, i'm a virgin, and my boyfriend, who is older and more experienced is not exactly sensitive about it. i mean, he doesn't do anything i'm uncomfortable with, but he's...
A. 3 October 2012: Here's the problem with trying to slow down a guy who is driven to dip his man-parts in to your lady-parts:
If he does a poor job - as you have described - then you need to have some means by which to get him to understand that he's doing a lousy ... (read in full...)
How long do I wait? He had an affair. Now he's returned to me, his wife of 40 years. But claims he no longer has any sex drive.
Q. My husband has had an affair with a woman at his work for the last 8 months. I found out throught his text messages. He confessed everything(almost). He won't give me the details.)he thinks they will only hurt me more). He has ended it but he ...
A. 3 October 2012: HE needs to get a thorough physical exam.
YOU and HE need to seek professional counselling.....
IF you and he can find a "solution" to your (collective) untenable situation.... by the above.... then, go for it.
If the above does NOT uncov... (read in full...)
What is right? My wife is saying she has no problem if one of our unmarried daughters chooses to have sex in our home with a Bf. The thought bothers me.
Q. I have kids. In particular, I have daughters. And in particular I have a daughter who is 19. She took a year off after high school and travelled the world. Now she's back home and is trying her hand at university. OK, so she's "of age", so if ...
A. 3 October 2012: This submittal begs for a reminder of the only detail which is germaine to the discussion: It's YOUR house, and she (daughter) lives in it, so YOU make the rules.
IF she doesn't like it, she can take another address....
P.S. Wifey needs to s... (read in full...)
Will I be taken seriously in a business professional environment or in interviews because of my less-than ultra-femme appearance?
Q. okay, this isn't actually a specific relationship question, so much as it's just a general question i really need advice about. it's something that is really stressing me a great deal. i am a 28-year-old college grad with great interpersonal re...
A. 3 October 2012: You will find a whole spectrum of "appearance-consciousness" in the business world. From the extremes of those (businesses) which have little or no concern about the "gender" appearance that you show... to others which will be uber-sensitive to ... (read in full...)
Interested in a guy in class, but I'm getting mixed signals from him.
Q. Hey everybody. So, I recently had a drunken hookup with a guy I met in one of my classes. Before this thing happened, I could tell by the way we interacted with each other, he was somewhat interested...which probably explains how we ended up...
A. 3 October 2012: There are two key phrases in your submittal:
1. "...he was somewhat interested...." and,
2. "...I've been trying to come up with excuses...."
The "long and short of it" is that he was interested JUST ENOGH to have s*x with you..... AND, y... (read in full...)
I cheated on my workaholic wife -- now what?
Q. I have been married for 10 years and have two kids under the age of 10. My wife recently was made an executive at her fortune 200 firm and has not been home much since. She leaves for work around 7 AM and most evenings she gets home after 10 PM. ...
A. 3 October 2012: I think the irony of your submittal is that you and your wife have worked your butts off for so long.... and now have all the trappings that come with financial success.... and you are miserable.... whilest wifey is, apparently, still enjoying the ... (read in full...)
His ex has nothing to lose and won't go away
Q. What do I do about a completely insane psychopathic ex girlfriend of my boyfriend? She is the type they make movies about. She is worse. He warned me when we first started dating of everything she would do and he was right. It seems like no ...
A. 2 October 2012: WHY, oh WHY do you and "boyfriend" have ANYTHING to do with this - what you describe as a - wretch of a person?????
IF you and he can't figure out how to get, and keep, her out of your lives.... then you are cursed, forever, with reacting to her..... (read in full...)
How can I control myself around this guy?
Q. I need help with my self-control. The thing is that I'm usually pretty calm girl. whenever I'm with friends and family and strangers I like to keep my wits about me and not go overboard, as in getting all hyper, chattering excessively. I can keep ...
A. 2 October 2012: I could name oodles of girls who react the VERY SAME way when they get around me..... and, quite honestly, I don't know just WHAT to tell you....
We guys who have this "animal magnetism" are unaware just HOW disabling it is to you girls...... (read in full...)
Should I confront him about what he is looking at on the computer?
Q. My husband and I recently just got married a little over 2 months ago, but have been together for over 3 years now. We just moved into our first place together and are getting adjusted to living together. For about the past week now though, I have ...
A. 2 October 2012: Moving in together is such a BITCH.... because all the mystery and aura that existed when you had separate addresses will, necessarily, not be available, and will evaporate....
Now, YOU KNOW just what went on in your "B/F's" private time... ... (read in full...)
Because of an open relationship I may lose my gf
Q. a year ago, i asked my gf for an open relationship. i really wanted to experience more sexually from different types of women. We had been together for three years before i asked her, and after five months she told me she would give a try, though s...
A. 2 October 2012: Have you ever heard of "tickling the dragon's tail?"....
In the early days of the nuclear age.... laboratory scientists learned that they could take pieces of enriched uranium (like that used in bombs) and if they put two pieces of them on a lab... (read in full...)
Why would I want to pull out of the share?
Q. I am in love with a casanova. He has a girlfriend and another female friend. And when I say friend, I mean a woman who invests her feelings on him too. What makes me think is how all three of us fall in love with him and care so much for him, it ...
A. 2 October 2012: Why would you want to be part of the "harem" of a "casanova"?????? It can ONLY lead to questions of your own worth.... of self-esteem..... and jealousy that you have sold your soul to a guy who isn't entitled to it!????
Get a better "boyfrie... (read in full...)
How can I get my girlfriend to show anger like a normal person?
Q. My girlfriend never gets mad. She just never gets impatient or annoyed or frazzled or frustrated. It's come to the point when I just want to instigate fights to get a reaction out of her. I push her, and push and push, but she nevers gets angry. W...
A. 2 October 2012: WHY would you want to push to upset someone who is so "together"??????
YOU need the therapy,.... and SHE is entitled to a "boyfriend" who wouldn't make such a posting on this site....
Really... think about it........ (read in full...)
They say I am being selfish. I love my brother but giving everything up to care for him for the rest of his life seems too much.
Q. Little bit about myself first. I am 46 years old and the youngest of 4 siblings also i am gay. The only one in my family and my family history. Unlike my brothers i was quick to get out of school and left at 16. Unlike my brothers i have never ...
A. 2 October 2012: You "sound" like a terrific brother... More people should have (a) sibling, or siblings, like you.....
As for tending to your brother who has such problems.... it's clear that you would never abandon him.... BUT, now "the issue" is to put HIS life... (read in full...)
Need to tell him I've got feelings for some-one else, but how? What should I say? I feel terrible.
Q. How the hell do you tell a guy you've been on a few dates with that you have feelings for someone else? I've been out with this guy a few times and I do like him so much, but the problem is that this guy who I met much before the one i'm seeing now, ...
A. 2 October 2012: You needn't tell your latest squeeze anything about your attraction for "old" squeeze....
You simply say that you don't think things are ideal between the two of you... that you don't want - or expect - to take things any farther... and let him ... (read in full...)
Attracted to my fiancee's older brother.
Q. My fiancee and I have been together for almost three years now, and we have a 1 1/2 year old daughter together. I'm about to be 20, and he just turned 19 in August. We're going to get married here in the next month or so. Now, my problem is, I've...
A. 2 October 2012: I can't believe that you know this... understand how destructive it would, certainly, be if you acted upon it... and you can't convince yourself to stifle your primative urges and let this drop!!!!
C'mon!!!! You're 20 years old - NOT 14!!!!! ... (read in full...)
Now that myself and the guy I like are single, what can I do to make him want me?
Q. Hi guys. I'm a twenty year old girl and I really like this guy who is in his 30's (so much so that I think I love him). I've always liked older men; it's just who I am. Anyway, I have known this guy for three years now and when we first met we h...
A. 2 October 2012: Let's address: "What can I do to make him want me?"
All you have to do to make a guy want you is to give him the slightest hint that you are prepared to put out for him..... Honestly, that's all it takes....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
She masturbates in a less usual way, crossing her legs. Which is better? Her way or sex with a partner?
Q. Hey all I appreciate any advice. I have been with my gf for 10 months I'm 21. So this is why I'm posting: Basically she masturbates using the method of crossing her leg and squeezing. She never masturbates with fingers. When I ask what she prefe...
A. 2 October 2012: If I had a nickel for every time I learned that a girl did something/anything else to avoid having sex with me.... I'd be a VERY WELL-TO-DO man.....
P.S. Tell your girl that crossing her legs may lead to vericose veins!!!.....
P.P.S. It wi... (read in full...)
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