Should I text him or do nothing?
Q. This guy texted me about two weeks ago, wishing me a belated Happy Birthday. He had previously invited me out to lunch, so in this text he said he would be in touch soon to see when we can both get together for said "lunch". We are both very bu...
A. 15 September 2012: P.S. All that "means" the answer to your question is: Do nothing........ (read in full...)
Should I text him or do nothing?
Q. This guy texted me about two weeks ago, wishing me a belated Happy Birthday. He had previously invited me out to lunch, so in this text he said he would be in touch soon to see when we can both get together for said "lunch". We are both very bu...
A. 15 September 2012: Here's a lesson in guy-talk:
"Be in-touch soon"... really means: "I find you interesting, and would be quite OK with joining you in bed.... BUT, you don't make my blood boil enough so that I'm actually going to give you that "hot pursuit"... (read in full...)
I got along great with my boyfriend's sister, until I found out she has gotten an abortion and doesn't seem to care about it.
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. In that time of course, I've got to know his family and the person I've always got on with the most is his sister. Most of my boyfriend's family are quite rough (swear a lot, drink etc) but his ...
A. 15 September 2012: If you think it's all right to pass judgement on someone (anyone) else... and if you think that this woman would like for you to not speak to her.... then have at it!!!!... (read in full...)
She doesn't want sex anymore and says she has no desire. What can I do?
Q. me and my girl have been together for a year when we first started dating she wanted sex all the time now it's been a year and she don't want sex no more she is 48 years old she tells me she has no desire what can I do...
A. 15 September 2012: Been there; done that.....
IF you libidos don't match, THEN, it's over....
YOU can stay and torment yourself as long as you choose.... but, the long-and-short of it is that if she ain't interested... you're wasting your time.....
Goo... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has been having sex with another girl behind my back.Am I a fool for wanting to stay and make this work?
Q. My boyfriend has always treated me like a princess. He is one of my best friends; we have the same friends, the same beliefs, and have known each other for a little over four years. We've been dating for 3 months short of two years. We moved into a ...
A. 15 September 2012: Let's address the pertinent phrases in your submittal:
"... We have such an amazing relationship..." HE does. What YOU described sounds like a NIGHTMARE of a "relationship" for you....
...I'm so confused." You needn't be, any more...
"... (read in full...)
Is it true that a girl forgets her first love or the one she gave virginty to? Does my Gf miss him?
Q. Is it true that a girl forgets her first love or the one she gave virginty to ....???? I'm in relation wid her from one year ago She loves me to bits. Sometimes I feel bad that she had an awful former boyfriend who took my girl friend's virgin...
A. 15 September 2012: If I had a nickel for every girl who "gave" her virginity to me and then rued the day that she dumped me.... I'd be one VERY WELL-TO-DO man!!!!!... (read in full...)
Don't know when or if I should tell this guy I'm a virgin.
Q. I've been reading a few questions people have asked on here about telling a guy their with that they are a virgin, well thing is i'm stuck on whether I should or even when. Because IF some guys see it as a conquest, then how do I know that he isn't ...
A. 15 September 2012: If he's a real "guy" then you represent a conquest. There's no getting past that.....
The REAL ISSUE is.... do you want to be "conquered" (the first time) by a real A-hole? ... or by a real NICE GUY?
If the former..... then offer yourself t... (read in full...)
An old friend is back in town and I'm feeling something for him, but I'm in a relationship. Is this infatuation or something more?
Q. Hi there, this is my first time writing here- and this has been bothering me for a while. I have been living with my boyfriend for quite a long time, but for the past three months, an old friend of ours began to spend time with us again because ...
A. 13 September 2012: Let's focus on the REAL "guts of your question... which are contained in THIS phrase: "..I've been having dreams of just kissing him and nothing more and it just feels wonderful...."
Hine (from a guy who has been there, MANY times!!!... (read in full...)
He is looking to move out behind my back and I'm afraid he's cheating on me again!
Q. My (gay) boyfriend and I have dated for more than a year and have been living together for one. Last month I found out accidentally that he has been looking for a room (he wanted to move out). I actually found that he has been looking for a room ...
A. 13 September 2012: "AGAIN????" C'mon, Jason, you KNOW the "answer" to this...
Good luck...... (read in full...)
Is it my insecurity or is my boyfriend being mean to me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for one year. Usually, the relationship is pretty great. But I'm having a problem with him right now, and I don't know who is to blame- him or me. He just started back at school which takes up his entire day, ...
A. 13 September 2012: Once a guy runs in to a hot little co-ed... who expresses even a tiny bit of interest in that guy... ALL that guy's previous like and love encounters go "on hold" until he sees if that little coed is serious about getting in to bed with him.....
... (read in full...)
After some rough patches and fighting he says he's done with us. How do I save this?
Q. I feel like my world was just ripped out of my fingers!! My boyfriend told me 4 days ago that he is over us. Im lost and need to know what to do to prove to him its not theus he is over itsthe fighting! We met five years ago in december and by ...
A. 13 September 2012: You've written quite a wordy submittal.... Yet, no matter how many times I've read it, I can't get past this "answer" to your question:
Why bother????
Good luck...... (read in full...)
My husband no longer loves me or wants to live with me. I still want to be together even with him feeling this way. Is it worse to live with us both unhappy or to lose the love of my life?
Q. Here's the situation. I'm totally in love with my husband and I'm desperate for us to get back together. He has fallen out of love with me and cannot bring himself to be with me sexually. We're still friends and see each other nearly everyday. We ...
A. 13 September 2012: I suggest you put this in perspective....
Imagine that, in the Spring, you tilled the soil, and mixed in fertilizer, and planted corn seeds....
Through May and June, you watched - quite contented - as your efforts began to reveal success, ... (read in full...)
He wants to be with me but also wants to be with his ex. He says its to help her move on. What?
Q. ok, so… I'm starting a relationship with this guy we've been friends for almost 2 and a half years. He has this huge amount of trust with me which makes me feel kind of guilty because I'm not that kind of people who talk about themselves a lot. A...
A. 13 September 2012: You should make SURE that you DO NOT put out for him until he's done with "... "give him some time" to help this girl..."
Cuz, if you DON'T wait..... he'll have just what EVERY GUY covets.... a "regular" G/F (you!) who is putting out for him... P... (read in full...)
Need some suggestions on toys/lube. Help!
Q. What is the best brand of silicone based lube to buy? Opinions? Also what is the best/most reputable brand of vibrators or toys to buy and what should i look for when buying one? I have a hard time acheiving orgasm and have never rly bought good ...
A. 13 September 2012: Unless your putting a machine together, do NOT us silicon based lubricant..... and I ASSUME that you are talking about lubricating your body!!!!
Use a WATER-based lubricant, like K-Y or Astroglide!!!....
Good luck, have fun, and don't slip a... (read in full...)
How can I make myself more approachable to women?
Q. Hi, there everyone. I recently asked a question a couple of weeks saying that I was 22 years old and a virgin. to be honest I worry about attracting girls and how to be approachable. when I'm in college, there are so many nice girls who I would to...
A. 12 September 2012: P.S. I believe that I forgot to tell you.... that you should keep your paper money in a roll, in your pocket.... with all the $1s and $5s on the inside... but be sure to have a $20 (or, a $50 would be better!) wrapping the outside.... THAT ... (read in full...)
How do I flirt with a girl I've just met?
Q. I was just at the hospital picking up my cousin. While I was roaming around the gift shop, an extremely beautiful girl came in to buy something. We instantly locked eyes for like three seconds. She gave a friendly smile that seemed to say "I like ...
A. 12 September 2012: SVC and EWO: It's clear that you don't know women as well as I do.....
Note my remark: "....Works every time....." I'm quite sure that - IF I HAD EVER USED THIS LINE - it would have worked.....
Otherwise, of course, I'm clueless,.... as... (read in full...)
My fiance isn't telling people that we're getting married. Is something up?
Q. Back in August, my boyfriend and I decided that we will get married this October. We're both have been divorced in the past (no kids), so we're keeping it small and simple (family only). I'm not the type that fusses over engagement rings, big ...
A. 12 September 2012: I like when you write this:.... "...This suddenly sounds really alarming to me..." because this all SHOULD be alarming to you.....
If you were my Sister, I'd suggest that you put this whole affair on "HOLD" until YOU feel much more certain ... (read in full...)
Some days I get a lot of male attention and other days nothing
Q. Same dress, same hair, same make up, same place. One night guys are all over me askin for my number, buying me drinks. Went out with same girlfriends yesterday night there, no attention whatsoever. One asked my friend if I'm having fun. I was act...
A. 11 September 2012: Do you get attention when you are by yourself, and NOT when you are with your girlfriends????
'Cuz guys KNOW that we have to "cut a girl out from the herd" (get her alone) to put the moves on her. AND, if she's by herself, we get to bypass a... (read in full...)
How do I flirt with a girl I've just met?
Q. I was just at the hospital picking up my cousin. While I was roaming around the gift shop, an extremely beautiful girl came in to buy something. We instantly locked eyes for like three seconds. She gave a friendly smile that seemed to say "I like ...
A. 11 September 2012: Here's what I would have done.....
Say to her, "Excuse me Miss (pause, to invite her to tell you her name).... I'm looking for a new brassiere for my Mother, who appears to be about the same size/endowment as you. Would you please try this one... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is clingy, obsessive and he's driving me mad
Q. Iv'e been going out with a guy i met at uni since april now and weve been on holiday together,hes met my parents and stayed with us and ive stayed with his parents. im 21 and hes 20 but sometimes i feel like we are soo different in how we view ...
A. 11 September 2012: Then, trade him in on a boyfriend who doesn't exhibit these traits that you find so annoying.....
There are - after all - about 3+ BILLION men in this world!!!
Good luck........ (read in full...)
How can I make myself more approachable to women?
Q. Hi, there everyone. I recently asked a question a couple of weeks saying that I was 22 years old and a virgin. to be honest I worry about attracting girls and how to be approachable. when I'm in college, there are so many nice girls who I would to...
A. 11 September 2012: I think that I can advise you - from my many years of successful womanizing - that the best thing you can do to get women to notice and approach you, is to NEVER button the top two buttons of your shirt.....
IF that fails (to get their attentio... (read in full...)
What would you think of an otherwise decent woman having a one night stand in the distant past?
Q. If you were dating a woman of good standing, moral fibre and integrity.... what would you think of her if you found out she made one big mistake several years ago in the form of a one night stand found from the internet? Would who she is today be ...
A. 11 September 2012: She probably should have had a large "A" tatooed on her forehead when she wandered, that time in the past....
HOWEVER, since she has dodged that bullet (by not being found-out) I think you should grant her a "pass" and wait until the NEXT time tha... (read in full...)
Do opposites really attract? How do we stop arguing so much?
Q. Okay I will make this shorrt. Me and my long term boyfriend are arguing way too much. Yes I know everyone argues but its over very small things! And ofcourse we both love each other and we also live together. We are total opposites but we I wonder ...
A. 11 September 2012: Some people seem to believe that constant - or regular - arguing is part of a "normal" and "healthy" relationship...
It's not........ (read in full...)
We keep bumping into each other and having one night stands, should we keep it this way or should I ask him to meet up and talk?
Q. Hey everyone, So when I was 20 I had a one night stand with a guy I met at my flight actually,he was sitting next to me we spoke we had a stop at a place for 5 hours and we had sex..and that was it.. When I turned 22 my girlfriends took me to cabo ...
A. 11 September 2012: P.S. Is it reasonable to believe that if you have ONSs with him on consecutive nights, you'll think that you and he have a "long term relationship" going on?????... (read in full...)
We keep bumping into each other and having one night stands, should we keep it this way or should I ask him to meet up and talk?
Q. Hey everyone, So when I was 20 I had a one night stand with a guy I met at my flight actually,he was sitting next to me we spoke we had a stop at a place for 5 hours and we had sex..and that was it.. When I turned 22 my girlfriends took me to cabo ...
A. 11 September 2012: This guy "sounds" like a warm and fuzzy "keeper" to me....... (read in full...)
Is this relationship love or just plain old good lovemaking?
Q. Morning all um I have been with a guy on and off for some years now .We both went our own way, but now we want to come back to each other we have certain things in common we even have a child together.When I look in to this man's eyes I see ...
A. 11 September 2012: It will probably become clearer if you remember that - for guys - the words "love" and "sex" are interchangeable....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
I'm sleeping with a guy who has a girlfriend. I want a bit more but not a relationship, I don't know how to tell him without scaring him off. What do I do?
Q. I just got out an 8 year relationship about 6 months ago and I cant separate my feelings from sex. Ive always considered myself to have a high sex drive, but majority of the time I was in relationships, so I didnt have to have casual sex but I have ...
A. 11 September 2012: Perhaps you could spend a lot of time trying to understand the differences between/amongst: Sex/intercourse/copulation/coitus and plain old FU**ING!!!
After you've studied - and come to grips with the subtle variances amongst them - I think yo... (read in full...)
My fiance isn't telling people that we're getting married. Is something up?
Q. Back in August, my boyfriend and I decided that we will get married this October. We're both have been divorced in the past (no kids), so we're keeping it small and simple (family only). I'm not the type that fusses over engagement rings, big ...
A. 11 September 2012: He's holding off, to make sure that he doesn't get a better off before the date of your nuptials....
Yes, it's a "guy thing"... as we like to keep all options open until we're completely (and irreversibly) pinned down!!!!!... (read in full...)
How do I stop gay guys from hitting on me? I'm straight!
Q. I don't know whether I should address it at other guys, gals, or perhaps gay men. The problem is that I keep getting hit by gay men. The thing is that I am in no way undecided, I am into women, point. And I'm not exactly the warm, romantic t...
A. 11 September 2012: To preclude just the type of incident that you've described,.... when I am introduced to someone (man or woman) the first thing I do is extend my hand to them and say, "Pleased to meet you (their name here).... I'm straight, you know...."
I nev... (read in full...)
My wife is more like a room mate
Q. I guess I'll get right to it... I have been married for 6 years and have a 4 yr old daughter. I have known my wife for 18yrs. We started dating when we were both young (21 me, 23 her) and broke up 4 yrs later. Then 6 years after that she was passing ...
A. 10 September 2012: "Sounds" to me like it's "all about YOU!!!".... as you don't say there's ANYTHING "wrong" about you and your wifey... ONLY that YOU have found someone to stray with...
Do you want us to VALIDATE your dalliance???? IF so, then please come up with ... (read in full...)
How do ask or find out if I'm wasting my time?
Q. Well there's this girl I really like. She is rather shy. I have taken her out once and we both had a good time. She's been rather quiet recently but theres been a lot going on in my life and her life. What I would like to do is get some ...
A. 10 September 2012: DON'T ask a NEGATIVE question... such as you suggest. Instead, ask a POSITIVE question... such as: "Say, have you got any plans for the next 25 or so years? 'Cuz I'm sweet on you, and would like to spend a lot of time together...."
DON'T... (read in full...)
What can I do? Does she start these arguments to hide that it's SHE who is cheating, not me?
Q. OK, so I have never tried anything like this before. I just don't know what to do. I have been with my gf for 12 years. Living together for 11. I would have asked her to get married. but she was married previous to our relationship, and reminded...
A. 9 September 2012: Damn!! How deep does the excrement have to pile up on you before you realize that it's there???????
Dump her and move on in your life. This girl doesn't give a fig for you.....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
How do you all feel about "the other woman" when it comes to a relationship or marriage?
Q. How do you all (ladies AND gentlemen) feel about "the other woman" when it comes to a relationship or marriage. SERIOUS REPLIES ONLY. I'm not talking about "the other woman" who has no idea that the guy has a wife/girlfriend. I'm talking about...
A. 9 September 2012: EVERY guy would like to have a few "other women" - on the side - so he isn't beholding to "the Missus"....and, if she (the Missus) puts him out in the dog house, he has someplace to go and SOMETHING TO DO!!!!!
What is your question, again?... (read in full...)
First time dildo users. How do I get over the fear of using one?
Q. I have been married for bout three years we like to try new things in bed. The topic of him using a dildo on me kind of scares me. I do not understand why i have given birth but can not for the life of explain y. How do i get over the fear of ...
A. 9 September 2012: You could get a copy of my CD titled, "Mr Dildo is your friend"..... it has many songs and poems that you can listen to.... and they will relax you and prepare your for the euphoria that you are about to experience (ASSUMING you use your dildos ... (read in full...)
Now that we are not together anymore he wants my picture!
Q. Hi everyone I had going through a really tough situation my fwb and I decided to try make a go of having a proper relationship but a few weeks later I founf out he had been sleeping with another woman and he always accused me of seeing someone else ...
A. 9 September 2012: He wants the picture for his fantasies when he mast**bates...
Good luck....... (read in full...)
How do I break this to her without her thinking it's about her?
Q. I've been in a relationship with a 17 year old for about a month and a half. Its long distance so we only see eachother once a week and for me, its a 5 hour round trip. She is in a big exam year so I feel guilty asking her to come to mine, but the ...
A. 9 September 2012: Just use the classic, "It's not you; it's ME" line... and dump her as you would any other girl....
Good luck........ (read in full...)
My marriage is failing mabye its because I left my ex for another woman?
Q. Hello everyone, I realized that myareiage is in trouble and she won't talk about it. I know we all have problems in relationships how ever I'm dreaming of my ex and I miss her. My dreams are hurting me because I followed love and it blew ...
A. 9 September 2012: Sounds to me like you have a "non-married" marriage... and you are desperately trying to believe that you should get out of it....
Here's what you "need" to hear: "Get OUT OF IT!!!!"
Good luck....... (read in full...)
He has never had children and I can't have any now. I worry that someday he'll want them!
Q. I have been in a relationship with a man for 2 years. He is 40 and I am 50. We love and care about each other but there is a problem. He is not sure if he wants kids and I am unable to have kids. I have one child from a previous marriage. He told ...
A. 9 September 2012: I love to "go through the motions" of starting a family... and have dated a couple of women who, also, enjoy going through the motions.... and we have all/always known that we weren't going to be going for pre-natal care anytime soon...
BUT, ... (read in full...)
Don't trust him, I'm ready to GO!
Q. I have been with my bf for five years now, and like most couples we have had to deal with various issues, in our case it is the issue of infidelity and trust, me being the one who doesn't trust him. He has stepped out on me several times, and each ...
A. 9 September 2012: Why keep yourself in this purgatory of life?
Just dump him and get on with your life,... and plan on finding a real, honest, trustworthy B/F....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Is my wife losing interest in me what is going on?
Q. I'm married almost a year to my wife , I am 44 and she is 21 . For the past 3 to 4 weeks I am noticing a dramatic change in her and I'm wondering is there something wrong or is she losing interest in me or what.? For the past few weeks she has been ...
A. 9 September 2012: "Sounds" like you've knocked her up.... Why not get a pregnancy test (from the pharmacy) and have her take it?... (read in full...)
B/f on dating site saying he was single, we've been dating for 3 years!
Q. Hiya, I'm in a bit of a pickle. My boyfriend and I have started sharing his email account and he left his laptop here for me to use as mines broke. Basically I went to send a email and I found that he had dating matches so I had a look. It said ...
A. 9 September 2012: I wouldn't bother confronting him..... I'd DUMP him!!!!... (read in full...)
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