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30-35,
*ooney
writes:Hello again, my name is E.and there is this amazing girl. She is my ex Gf. Her personality is amazing we got together the day after my birthday and we stayed together for 6 months and she was 100 percent with me.she didnt lie, she didnt cheat on me,she never kept anything away from me.but we was on AND off but everytime we broke up she didnt move on or try.she loved me and i loved her so.The 5th time we broke up i called her 3 days later and she told me she didnt want to talk to me and hung up. So i later found out she's going out with one of her ex.He doesnt even treat her right they broke up 3 times in a row and i through all that time i didnt move on.me and her was still talking so they broke up for real she didnt care about him any more.So my former Gf and I started getting close again she'd call everyday but than it was a month she was single.She told me she met this guy. and they start talking more and he starts going over her house and she gets with him instead of me.Thats the 4th time and i stay by her side through everythingSo they break up and now she's been single 5 months and shes sending me signs that she only wants me, but she's having this huge party thats for her in 3 months and she said she wants to wait till her party is over then she says she will get with meBut i dont know, because i really do love . can you guys please give me some advice?I tell her my feelings a lot and she told me she cant tell me what she feels cause she doesnt know how she feels.i cant move on because i see her everyday because i have college with her and i am basically forced to see her. but please guys be 100 percent with me . give me some advice on what you guys think i should do .
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 October 2012):
 Looney: Are you unable to "see" this delightful young lady for the drama queen that she is???? You and she... and new/ex-.... you make up and break up.... HOW MANY times??? THAT's not mature, adult behaviour. That's "kids' stuff."
IF you like "kid stuff" then go after this girl, again, for another dose of her shenanigans and YOUR angst....
IF you've had enough of (her) childish behaviour, then bid her "Adieu" for the last time, and get on with your adult life....
Good luck...
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reader, AuntyAunt  +, writes (4 October 2012):
 I'm sorry to tell you this, but I really think you're wasting your time on something that just isn't meant to be. She obviously is never going to be able to settle down with you for long. If I were you i'd move on. Obviously it's going to be very upsetting and difficult but it will be worth it in the long run for both of you. You're young and will fall in love again. I would say that the two of you could remain friends, but I don't think it would be good for the healing process(should you choose to take my advice).
You need to find someone who will stick with you and who returns your feelings.
Best of luck!
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reader, Serpico +, writes (4 October 2012):
She doesnt want to be with you dude. No other way to put it. You need to stop throwing away good money after bad. Trust me, if you continue chasing her, you will live to regret the fool you are making of yourself.
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reader, SensitiveBloke +, writes (4 October 2012):
 If she was interested in you, she wouldn't wait 3 months to get together with you, she'd do it now. You need to accept she doesn't want to be with you and move on. It will be hard but you have little choice.
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