She masturbates in a less usual way, crossing her legs. Which is better? Her way or sex with a partner?
Q. Hey all I appreciate any advice. I have been with my gf for 10 months I'm 21. So this is why I'm posting: Basically she masturbates using the method of crossing her leg and squeezing. She never masturbates with fingers. When I ask what she prefe...
A. 6 October 2012: dylan: Just a bit of a hint from an old guy who really has been close to (one or more) women in the past.....
You write: "Also quite selfishly I don't know if I'd want a girl who can give herself much better orgasms than I can."
HINT: ... (read in full...)
She masturbates in a less usual way, crossing her legs. Which is better? Her way or sex with a partner?
Q. Hey all I appreciate any advice. I have been with my gf for 10 months I'm 21. So this is why I'm posting: Basically she masturbates using the method of crossing her leg and squeezing. She never masturbates with fingers. When I ask what she prefe...
A. 2 October 2012: If I had a nickel for every time I learned that a girl did something/anything else to avoid having sex with me.... I'd be a VERY WELL-TO-DO man.....
P.S. Tell your girl that crossing her legs may lead to vericose veins!!!.....
P.P.S. It wi... (read in full...)
Do good looking people stay single for longer because people are afraid to approach them?
Q. Is it true that good looking people will stay single for a longer time periods than 'average' looking people, because other people (who are more insecure) won't approach them thinking they won't stand a chance anyway? I read this in an article a ...
A. 1 October 2012: That hasn't been my experience. The girls are usually ALL OVER me, trying to get my attention......... (read in full...)
Should I send the evidence of his cheating to his wife? I wasted a year of my life with him and want revenge....
Q. I met a guy on a dating site who told me he was seperated, he told me he loved me after 2 weeks, he then told me he was still with the wife and begged me not to finsh it with him, he left her the week after, we had been seeing each other for over a ...
A. 1 October 2012: tabby: Sorry you ran in to one of us "uber-player" men...
Consider the relative merit of passing along your info to wifey... She gets to have her heart broken - yet again - and this idjit gets a tiny "speed bump" in his road of philande... (read in full...)
Its been three months so why he doesn't go further than a normal kiss?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for three months, and we live about two and half hours away. We see each other on weekends. We have a lot of fun together and get along great. Just barely recently we had our first kiss. I'm just wondering why he ...
A. 1 October 2012: "Sounds" to me like this guy is using the classic "act slowly to get her so horned-up that she jumps on you" technique..... and it is clearly working....
Just be patient........ (read in full...)
Her Mom has agreed to keep it secret. But do I tell my new Gf that I had sex with her Mom in the past?
Q. I have been dating a woman for a few months now and all is going really great. Recently she introduced me to her mother and immediately we recognized each other. A few years earlier we were in a bar and started talking to each other. She is was o...
A. 1 October 2012: Remember that old "Morton" salt slogan? "When it rains, it pours!!!!"... (read in full...)
How can I be sexy to the opposite sex?
Q. So I guess I can illustrate my issue with an example. I'm standing in this hip dive bar I like with some friends, and as we sit at a table cracking jokes and making pop culture references, as is the way with most of my social engagements, I see a ...
A. 30 September 2012: If you'd like to come by and spend a few days with me, you might be able to observe (me) and pick up a few pointers........ (read in full...)
Can't believe he spoke to me this way! Should I forgive him?
Q. Me and my boyfriend were having a disagreement tonight, and it ended with him saying 'f**k you you little piece of s**it' then he hung up on me - in the 2 years we've been together hes never spoken to me like that, I can't get it out of my head he ...
A. 30 September 2012: I'm assuming that he had been drinking alcohol prior to that outburst.....
Nonetheless.... You'd be OK if you tell him that you never want to see or speak to him again.......... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend's behaviour normal?
Q. I just wanted opinions to see if my boyfriends behaviour is normal or not. so I left his house around 12 this morning to meet my best girlfriend for a coffee and I told him that i MIGHT go to a shop to look for bridesmaid shoes as my friend a...
A. 30 September 2012: One of my favorite sayings is this one (tailored for you conditions):
When your boyfriend isn't talking to you, DON'T INTERRUPT HIM!!!!!!
Good luck....... (read in full...)
How do I make her feel comfortable about having sex with me again?
Q. long story short, i pressured my gf into sex because i wanted to catch up to my buddies that had all done it. i felt left out so i pressured my long-time gf (2 years) and she gave in, even though i knew she wasn't ready (hence 2 years without any). ...
A. 30 September 2012: Well... at least you're asking a real MANLY question.... as in: "Gosh, she put out for me once.... WHAT IS THE MATTER (WITH HER) THAT SHE WON'T CONTINUE PUTTING OUT FOR ME????"
You'll be lucky if she ever TALKS to you again.... You don't deserve ... (read in full...)
An overprotective mother, how can I get her to be reasonable?
Q. Hello. My question deals with an overprotective mother. I am 22, going on 23 in 3 months. I never dated in high school because of how she over reacts about boys. It was just easier to not date then to constantly argue with her. So yesterday, I ...
A. 30 September 2012: When you live under your parents' roof, then THEY set the rules... AND that means (as you know) that they get to see the intimate details of your life.....
IF you don't care to have that... then get your own address....
As for your Mother and ... (read in full...)
She is very down and I worry about her, should I tell her?
Q. Hi. I have a female friend who has recently separated from her husband. I have made it clear that I am here for her if she needs me to be but have tried not to smother her. She has other close friends. The problem is that she will send me a message ...
A. 30 September 2012: I suggest that you stay away from her and let her endure the turmoil that is going on between her and her hubby... and let that play out WITHOUT you in the picture...
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I really fancy her, and she said she'd want to lose her 'V' to me, but now what?
Q. hi, added this girl on FB a while ago and after a lot of chatting and stuff i managed to get her number (she is 16, i am 19) so we have been texting and flirting hinting to each other that we should meet up and stuff, i went away for the weekend to ...
A. 30 September 2012: She wants you to take her VODKA???? Why? Do you need a drink of alcohol?????... (read in full...)
I found a lot of disturbing things on his pc and I'm worried about my children
Q. Hello i really need help with this its killing me. Ive just moved my boyfriend in and he bought his pc wellni looked at it and found loads of lolicon on it. It was horrible and my head is so messed up, we have been friend years then i started dating ...
A. 30 September 2012: MY GAWD... how many different ways can we Aunts and Uncles say it to you unwitting girls??..... GET THIS CREEP AWAY FROM YOUR HOME and KIDS.... GET HIM AWAY FROM YOU!!!!!
You say: "I just moved him in..." Well.... now, move his perverte... (read in full...)
Why is he lying to me if he isn't doing anything wrong?
Q. I am in a new relationship, have been with the guy for about ten months now. It has recently turned into a long distance thing which is fine as I have done it before. I trust him.. or at least I did. He is gud friends with a girl, which is fine, ex...
A. 30 September 2012: This guy has two girlfriends..... you and this other one. YOU can choose to be in a two-girls-one-guy relationship... OR, you can say, Geeesh, (his name here) I really don't think you're committed to either of us, and I don't want to be the spare ... (read in full...)
He said if I dislike his pot smoking I can leave
Q. Ok! So me and my fiance have been together almost 9 years. When I met him he did not smoke, we've broke up and got back together in between that time, but here we are together again, and now he smokes weed. I have a serious problem with it. I mean...
A. 30 September 2012: You don't need our permission to dump this guy who CLEARLY doesn't give a darn about you........ (read in full...)
Why do I feel so sad with this kinky hookup? The sex wasn't that great!
Q. I am confused about my emotional reaction to a lovely guy I recently met by chance. It was on of those rare encounters where the physical attraction is so strong and obvious. We are both in our 30's and turns out to be single. To make a long story ...
A. 30 September 2012: The sooner you part ways with this character, the better...
Good luck....... (read in full...)
I can't believe anything my husband says anymore. I just want the truth!
Q. My husband has problems telling the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. We've been married 21 years and the amount of lies he's told is astounding. Sometimes it's about stupid things like if his dog used the bathroom in the house, ...
A. 30 September 2012: Let's look at the most-important sentence of your submittal. To wit: "How can I get him to understand it's ruining our relationship and my feelings for him?"
You can't. HE has made it perfectly clear that he doesn't give a darn if his dallianc... (read in full...)
Does he want more than FWB?
Q. About a year ago I started uni and met a whole lot of new people, I got in an awesome friend group and everything was good. One of the guys from the group was a bit of a slag and hooked up with tonnes of girls, but he was still a great guy. After ...
A. 30 September 2012: I doubt it....... (read in full...)
Her Mom has agreed to keep it secret. But do I tell my new Gf that I had sex with her Mom in the past?
Q. I have been dating a woman for a few months now and all is going really great. Recently she introduced me to her mother and immediately we recognized each other. A few years earlier we were in a bar and started talking to each other. She is was o...
A. 30 September 2012: You don't know if WHAT will slip out????.......... (read in full...)
Her Mom has agreed to keep it secret. But do I tell my new Gf that I had sex with her Mom in the past?
Q. I have been dating a woman for a few months now and all is going really great. Recently she introduced me to her mother and immediately we recognized each other. A few years earlier we were in a bar and started talking to each other. She is was o...
A. 29 September 2012: How many of us guys DREAM of being in this predicament?????
I suggest that you 'fess up....and tell the young thing that you want to live with her and her Mom... and you (all) can sort things out in the morning.....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
It feels like he's rushing things -- is he a player?
Q. Hi everyone,i am a bit nervous these days and i thought of asking for any advice,there is a guy wich i like and i have known him for three years now,we have been in high school together,we started dating and only after three weeks he wanted to have ...
A. 29 September 2012: YES.... he's a player. And YOU need to make sure that he doesn't get a chance to "Play" you.....
Good luck..... (read in full...)
Feel like I married both my husband and his sister -- and she doesn't like me
Q. I have been married for two years and was blindsided by a problem that he has: his sister. She was very friendly before the engagement and wanted to be my best friend. My husband and she are very close. They talk every day on the phone, lived ...
A. 29 September 2012: This sounds like the roots of a TV "reality" series....
Title: "I'm not sure who is my hubby's wife: Me or his sister"
You should make a fortune on the royalties from it........ (read in full...)
I have an athletic body, but no boobs. Are my friends right about the comments, I'm now self conscious guys will be put off!!?
Q. I feel really self conscious about my body after the comments from people I live with at uni, now I think they're right that a guy wont like my body or maybe I should get surgery, or gain weight, anything to change myself. I'm not that tall, only ...
A. 29 September 2012: STOP, STOP, STOP worrying about what OTHER people think of your appearance!!!!
Cripes!!! You're healthy, strong, fit and smart..... ask someone who struggles with MD or MS if they would change places with you......
I hope you develop enough s... (read in full...)
How do I get this balance right between wanting to be myself and neither be a doormat or too much like his ex? I want to be appropriately assertive.
Q. Hello Everyone, I've asked for help before about a relatively new relationship and it was so helpful - but I have another question please... my confidence is still a bit low in regard to relationships because I had a very difficult one for a ver...
A. 29 September 2012: I would focus in on the word "freedom".....
I think that YOU believe that "freedom" means that two partners remain "who they are" in much of their lives.... and SUPPLEMENT who they are with the great relationship that they are fosterin... (read in full...)
Should I tell my husband the real reasons why I left?
Q. I feel so confused and lost about my marriage. I separated/cleverly ran away from hubby 6months ago, went back to my country, and i never told him the real reasons for my leaving. He knows i'm in my country to manage a skin condition and i should ...
A. 28 September 2012: Give him as much of the "answer" as you think he deserves... then tell him that you found he was an as**ole and that you needed to get away from him... AND that you are not coming back..... EVER.... Then, get on with your life....
Good luck..... (read in full...)
How do I talk to boyfriend about having children?
Q. Ive just learnt that my bf would want me to have an abortion if i were to fall pregnant now as he doesnt want a kid For at least a few years. He was serious. We've had this talk before but it has never said that. We have been together for 3 years....
A. 28 September 2012: I suggest that you CLOSE your LEGS.... and tell "Boyfriend" that his "fun" is over until and unless you and he come to grips with this issue......
We guys are all-too-willing to dip our manhood in to a soft, warm place when we are so-incli... (read in full...)
We're getting married in a few weeks and something seems off with my fiance. What should I do?
Q. My fiance and I are getting married in a few weeks. Everything's been great, until a couple weeks ago. I started sensing something was off with him, so I brought it up. He explained everything's fine and normal, but my instinct is feeling like he's ...
A. 28 September 2012: I would ALWAYS encourage a woman to trust her instincts more than "the facts" (as laid out by a man who will be affected by those "facts")....
The good thing is.... you can cancel or postpone your wedding at the "drop of a hat".... and NOT plun... (read in full...)
He played me and tore out my heart. How could he do this to a good hearted person?
Q. Hello everyone. I hope you can help me because I have never felt more down or heartbroken in my life. I have been married for ten years and my husband left me about a year ago. I do not have a lot of experience with men. I have only had my hus...
A. 28 September 2012: You write: "But why is it that so many men do this to women?"
You could write this on behalf of oodles of women who fall for mens' lines and actually believe that those men LOVE them.... as evidenced by the fact that they (those men) will exp... (read in full...)
I'm finding my long distance relationship very difficult. Am I doing the right thing by staying with him?
Q. Hi, I have been dating a man long distance for 6 months now. The first 4 months were great, bliss actually but since then some things in his life have happened that have caused him absolute stress and grief. He was ordered by the courts to hand o...
A. 28 September 2012: Let's cut to your questions: "Am I doing the right thing by staying with him? If we can get through this tough time will our relationship be stronger? Or is this damaging the relationship?"
1.""Am I doing the right thing by staying with him?" ... (read in full...)
Am I overreacting to my boyfriend spending so much time taking care of his parents?
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and half. We are both adults. We both love each other and he has given me a ring. I have not met his parents yet, but I have met two of his siblings and his family is aware of our relation...
A. 28 September 2012: I hope that, when I get to be an even-older codger, I have a son like him and not a daughter like you.....
It's not at all surprising that - with 5 siblings in the mix - one of them becomes the "doer" in tending to the parents.... AND, it's not... (read in full...)
I need a way of telling my boyfriend that I want exclusivity and a serious relationship without him feeling like he has to give up his freedom
Q. I have been seeing this guy for about 5 weeks and one week ago we had a talk about where our relationship was going. He said he "cant commit" until college finishes up in one or so months because everything is so busy etc. and asked me what I would ...
A. 28 September 2012: The key to your submittal is this: "...I need a way of telling him that I want exclusivity and a serious relationship without him feeling like he has to give up his life (freedom etc.) because I think that is what he is worried about."
You c... (read in full...)
Is it weird that we talk on the phone so much?
Q. Is it normal that my boyfriend and I talk on the phone constantly when we're not together, busy, or working? It gets to the point his mom comes on the phone in the middle of our conversation and says "Okay it's time to get off the phone you two!" ...
A. 28 September 2012: I suppose it's (being on the phone) better than being off running drugs across the Mexican border.... or being an "escort" in Las Vagas....... Keep it in perspective...... (read in full...)
I like my friend, I don't like his uncle tagging along
Q. Ok, so I have a male neighbor, younger than me, that I have been spending a lot of time with since I moved up the street 6 months ago. Before I became a neighbor, we were casual friends, as he brings his grandmother into the beauty shop where I ...
A. 27 September 2012: I can't begin to imagine why you and W can't simply say to Uncle J: "Dear Uncle.... We are going together - and by ourselves - out to do (whatever you (two) wish to do. You don't have to explain what you do to ANYBODY!!!).... "
If Uncle J sugges... (read in full...)
Should I let go and move on or fight for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. He is an Anglican while I am a Catholic. Met his parents on three occasions and they looked forward to having family lunch/dinner with me to also get to know me better and more. The problem is ...
A. 27 September 2012: "The subject" is your boy's being tied to his parents' apron strings. The "clouding" comes from trying to decide if it's important (or, if it makes any difference) how it happened that he (your boy) attended another house of worship and whether ... (read in full...)
Messed up real bad! Need help and advice.
Q. Hello! I am new to this but I am trying to get all the help that I can get at this point. Well here it goes. Four days ago my fiancee and I got into a little fight at a wedding and left there right away which turned into a bigger fight down the ...
A. 26 September 2012: Let's address this detail of your submittal: "....What I am asking for is advice of what should I do to prove to her that it was a mistake and I will never do it again."
What you DO is cow-tow to her for as long as necessary in order to indicate... (read in full...)
Should I contact the girl I'm jealous of?
Q. Hi, I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over 6 years now. After all this time i am still incredibly in love with him and the feeling just doesn't seem to fade away at all. we have moved in together a few months ago, i us...
A. 26 September 2012: Go back to "ground zero" and recognize that, when you and he agreed to share an address, HE got all the power, and YOU ceded to him all YOUR power....
NOW... he's "tipped his hand" and shown you just what an A**hole he is.... and it then falls to... (read in full...)
Is he being honest or is this his way of trying to end things?
Q. Over a month ago I met this guy in a bar. He seemed like a nice guy but I was not particularly physically attracted to him and I was only recently out of a six year relationship at the time and only looking for superficial relationship (so hot guys ...
A. 26 September 2012: It's his way of saying, "Thank you for putting out for me.... I'll be in touch, in the future, if I need some more nik-nik...."
THAT is what some guys are all about....and you girls need to protect yourselves from guys like that.... Sorry...... (read in full...)
What's the best way to tell him you like him?
Q. okayy, peeps--this question is gonna be short, sweet, and to the point. i'm mainly looking for male opinions here, but females...feel free to put your two cents in as well. ") what is the best way for a girl to tell a guy that she likes him? shoul...
A. 26 September 2012: I suggest that you get him in private, say to him "I've got something to tell you...", then, look him straight in the eye and say, "(his name, here), I want to bear your children. What say you?"
That should make your interest perfectly clear to... (read in full...)
Should I let go and move on or fight for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. He is an Anglican while I am a Catholic. Met his parents on three occasions and they looked forward to having family lunch/dinner with me to also get to know me better and more. The problem is ...
A. 26 September 2012: OP: You're clouding your own issue by picking out details to dispute...... IF you stick to the subject, maybe you can get a grip on the "answer" to your query........ (read in full...)
Is it odd that I can only contact my BF via facebook?
Q. Is it strange that the only way i can contact/speak to my boyfriend in the evenings is via facebook? We've been together for 4 years. I dont think he is cheating but i dont understand it. When he gets home from work, he puts his phone away and d...
A. 26 September 2012: He's probably talking to his "other" girlfriend(s)on his telephone and doesn't want to have to explain an unidentified incoming call to that girlfriend (or: wife)...
Good luck...... (read in full...)
How to figure out men in their late 50's?
Q. I've been seeing someone in his late 50's and I have no idea what sort of mind games he is playing. Sometimes when I tell him I miss him, he would reply my text with a smile icon. Sometimes even though he read my "I miss you" text, he wouldn't reply ...
A. 26 September 2012: As a guy who has recently left his "late 50s" for his "early 60s" I believe that I can shed some light on this issue.....
IN his "late 50s" a man is beginning to understand that he is NOT the young stud that he once believed that he was.... ... (read in full...)
Should I let go and move on or fight for him?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year now. He is an Anglican while I am a Catholic. Met his parents on three occasions and they looked forward to having family lunch/dinner with me to also get to know me better and more. The problem is ...
A. 25 September 2012: It's difficult to understand the intensity of feelings that some people have about their religion if YOU don't share that intensity relative to YOUR religion....
I'd interpret that this guy's parents see their son's attending a service at another ... (read in full...)
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