I don't want to die without trying anal sex, so is it cheating if I hire a prostitute as my wife refuses to do this?
Q. Just something that I've been thinking about: My wife and I have been together for years. Like any other couple, we have boundaries and red flags in sex. Anal sex is a red flag for her. But I can't get it off of my mind! I don't want to die wit...
A. 22 February 2012: Let me put it to you this way. How would you feel if your wife was thinking about hiring some guy to do stuff to her. Would you be ok with it? First thing I would think is CHEATER! And I agree with the other posters. Why dont you talk to your wife ... (read in full...)
Do you believe in 'soul mates'?
Q. Do you believe in soulmates? I'm curious to know what you think. And by the way, i heard this the other day and thought it was adorable, and wanted to share it with you: In greek mythology, humans were born with 4 eyes, 4 arms, 4 legs, 2 mouths, ...
A. 28 January 2012: Honestly...Yes I do believe in Soul mates. I believe that their is someone for everyone and though it may take a moment or years to find them you will find them eventually. :)... (read in full...)
How can I find out if he is cheating on me?
Q. my boyfriend and i have known eachother for 10 years. we have been dateing for three.. and i think he is cheating on me. he hides his cell phone -i'm not alowed to touch it. he hides it at night so i cant find it and look at it. and i'm not alowed ...
A. 13 December 2011:
Well what struck me most was the girls online. Why haven't they heard about you? This would make me suspicious
He may not be cheating but if you want to find out for sure
there are two ways in which you can find out
1. Confront him ( and... (read in full...)
Girlfriend thinks I'm not manly enough
Q. I have an amazing wonderful girlfriend but it gets extremely annoying and upsetting because she can't see me as "manly". I don't like football and she thinks I'm not a man. I tend to show my emotions more and I'm a little sensitive and sh...
A. 21 November 2011: Most girls would like a sensitive guy. And not every guy likes football some may prefer boxing others may like tennis EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT!
She doesn't think your of Mexican decent because you don't like spicy food? Well I,m Irish and I don't li... (read in full...)
This mean girl in my class insulted my friend about her weight, and now my friend wants to starve herself to be able to lose 30 pounds by the end of the month!!
Q. Today's Halloween, and so my school had this contest on who could come to school in the best costume. Like 90% of the people in my school dressed up, including me, but that's besides the point. I have a friend who's a bit overweight, but ...
A. 1 November 2011: First off I know how that girl feels I was bullied in school because of my weight and glasses. But what you need to tell her and what this girl need to realise is that if this Bully sees that she's trying to lose weight really quickly the BULL... (read in full...)
Unofficial with one girl who wont have sex yet, and an offer on the table for sex with an old friend....should I go through with it?
Q. We've gone on a few dates and everything is sailing smoothly except one thing: She is just NOT ready to have sex. To me, it feels like she is chopping off my balls and making me her eunuch. I want to love her and show her a great passionate pleas...
A. 1 November 2011: NO! Make it official with the girl first then maybe when she sees that there IS COMMITMENT she will give herself to you. I,m in the same boat as your girl I,m with a guy but we're not official but it still hurts knowing that they did this to you and ... (read in full...)
I broke up with her when she demanded I propose, now she's emotionally blackmailing me!
Q. I've had a very turbulent relationship with my girlfriend of the last 2 years. We've been long distance for most of our relationship, and that's made things tougher. At the start, things were fantastic, we got along perfectly and we couldn't wait...
A. 26 October 2011: Sweetheart...This girl doesn't seem mentally stable I think she needs professional help especially if she's talking about suicide and self harm. I think you should have a serious talk with her about your relationship and how YOU feel about it and ... (read in full...)
Ideas for a romantic date?
Q. Hi :) I need to arrange a date for the guy im seeing and i to go on. Last week he took me out in the evening and set up a picnic by a lake with candles - it was so romantic! Now i feel its my turn to arrange something but i have no idea wha...
A. 24 October 2011: Its great how your guy is so thoughtful and romantic Most girls can't even get a thoughtful one :P
For a romantic date.
Main thing is Candles, I don't know why but candles are very romatic
A moonlit walk on the beach is always romantic or a... (read in full...)
I don't want to date her anymore. How do I get her to move out of my life?
Q. I have spent 9 months with this lady and now wana dump her . Well she hasn’t done anything wrong neither me but I have to dump her as I find someone else more attractive than her. She is my 8th girlfriends and I think there is nothing wrong ke...
A. 24 October 2011: I don't really approve of what your doing as it doesn't seem like a fair excuse to dump a girl. But the only thing I can suggest is that you talk to the girl. And at the very least don't tell the girl your dumping her for another girl! Its going to ... (read in full...)
Ladies: describe your PERFECT date!
Q. This one is for the ladies - Just wondering, how would you describe your perfect date? Be as original or cliche as you want i'd just love to get some real life ideas! :) Thanks...
A. 19 October 2011: As cheesy as it sounds my perfect date would be a moonlit walk on the beach or even just going to the cinema as long as i was with that person I wouldn't care where we went on a date :) X... (read in full...)
She has my number but hasn't contacted me... Girls, how long before she might contact me?
Q. Im a 20 something guy and want to get female opinions on something. I know usually 'guy gets girl tel number and it goes from there' - but 3 days ago a situation happened - where I helped a girl in a tricky situation, and followed it up by writin d...
A. 12 October 2011: I think you should let her go hun :/ Plenty more fish in the sea. If you see her again just smile and say hello :) I agree with Red Athena next time ask a girl upfront for her number :)... (read in full...)
Where do I stand with this girl? Friend Zone? Or more if she re-thinks her stated intentions?
Q. The first few weeks of university have been a true whirlwind experience and yesterday, I went out with a girl who I really like. We had a few drinks and then headed back to her appartment where after a drink she told me that she "didn't want to ...
A. 7 October 2011: Personally I think you should ask her out. You want to ask her out, from what you say it seems she wants a relationship with someone also so ask her out whats the worst that can happen?
Good Luck :)
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I love this girl but she doesn't like me at all!
Q. So, this is what happened last year. Back then I was 16 and I fell in love with a girl. Oh she was beautiful! Then came a chance to express my feelings. It was a school party. The only problem was that I didn't have the skill to... "get girlfriends" ...
A. 7 October 2011: Perhaps you should talk to her about it like maybe ask her out for coffee or a walk in the park and talk about how you feel make sure your both alone as it can get very awkward if your crowded.
Good Luck :)
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If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested?
Q. If a girl is slow to reply to your messages, does this mean she isn't interested? I went out with a girl this week and we seemed to have a really nice night together. It started timidly, but then we relaxed and enjoyed our evening. It even ended ...
A. 7 October 2011: I,m pretty sure shes interested most girls are like that thats their way of playing hard to get don't worry just ask her out for a second date :)
Good Luck!
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What does it mean when your boyfriend texts you "I will always love you" after an argument?
Q. What does it mean when your boyfriend texts you "I will always love you _____ (my name)"? We had an argument on the phone last night about his hot and cold behavior with me which has been pretty consistent throughout our entire relationship (pr...
A. 7 October 2011: I think you should call him and ask him what it means... (read in full...)
My sister is trying to tell my father about the boyfriend he doesn't know about. I want her to be quiet!
Q. My boy friend is 24 years old and i'm 17. But my family don't know anything about us. And he is my mom's friend's son My dad is sombody who gets angry quickly because of that i don't like to tell this to them. Yesterday was my sister's B'day and we ...
A. 5 October 2011: It's going to come out eventually maybe your sister hasn't even picked up on that ask her what she heard. There is a bit of an age difference between you and your boyfriend thats the main thing that stands out. Personally I think you should tell ... (read in full...)
Ladies, which do you prefer - the cook or the dancer?
Q. Just out of curiosity to all the women out there, which do you prefer - a man who knows his way around the kitchen or a man who knows his way around the dance floor? And why? (I'm just taking a poll of sorts after an interesting discussion among...
A. 28 September 2011: Personally I,d prefer a cook but A bit of both would be nice to be honest. But it all comes down to personality at the end of the day :)
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18 and never been kissed! Any advice!
Q. I'm almost nineteen years old and I've never had a boyfriend. Not only that, I've never been kissed, on a date, or even asked out. How pathetic is that? I think I'm depressed right now because my brother has a girlfriend and they have such a ...
A. 12 September 2011: Everybody goes through this I had my first kiss when I was 18 and I was so embarrassed by it but once I kissed a guy I realised theres no big fuss over it. It's nothing exactly worth bragging about.
Why don't you get a friend to set you up with ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her why she's no longer my best friend, or just allow time and distance to do that naturally?
Q. In a couple days I am seeing someone who used to be my bestest friend, until she did something very unforgivable! (Too long to explain what happened). Anyways, I haven't spoken to her since this happened and she seems to think things are okay with ...
A. 1 September 2011: You and your friend are gonna have to talk eventually. You can't just let a friendship end like this because its cruel and you will always wonder in the future was it worth losing a friend over?. A lot of people make stupid really stupid mistakes ... (read in full...)
My pregnant Gf no longer wants to see me. How do I get her back? I was texting prostitutes
Q. My current girlfriend (whom I do want to marry) is 2 months pregnant and she looked through my phone only to discover text messages I had with other girls as well as prostitutes to set up dates. I have never cheated on her or gave her reason to thin...
A. 25 August 2011: Apologize apologize and apologize. Beg if you have to. This girl is 2 months pregnant and finds out that you were texting other girls and Prostitutes??? She doesn't need that kinda stress when shes pregnant. If she tales you back make sure it never ... (read in full...)
How do I find girls who have the same interest as I do?
Q. Hello everyone, I am an 18 year old single male who just started college (Computer Science major). I really want to meet girls and get into a relationship. I been real lonely throughout the summer, not many people talk to me. I want to have someone ...
A. 23 August 2011: Ok as an agony aunt I don't normally say this but..Wow u sound amazing like a really nice guy! Any girl would be lucky to have you.
Firstly: I agree with annoynymus Your really mature for your age. You've just started collage in collage your gon... (read in full...)
How can I forget what happened so we can go forward? Is there hope?
Q. I've been with this guy for 4 months. Im completely crazy for him! But I made this huge mistake! I hung out with this guy for a week straight (another guy) After my boyfriend told me he didn't want me around him, because he knows what he is like. Sh...
A. 22 August 2011: Its very hard to forget things like this. But if you and him are willing to let your relationship progress you must learn to trust one and other again. This is all depending on teamwork between the two of you. Try for a month to see if you can trust ... (read in full...)
Why does being a "Nice Guy" get me nowhere?
Q. My virginity doesn't bother me that much, on most days at least, but I do feel a bit sad over the fact that I've never been in a relationship, NEVER. I'm 22 and nothing! I'm starting to feel that if I don't end up in relationship I'll never get ...
A. 22 August 2011: Firstly hun being the Nice guy can get you a girl like what sane girl would go for a lying cheater while she could have a nice sweet guy. NEVER EVER EVER be someone your not just be yourself :) And one thing I will strongly advice is don't put ... (read in full...)
What do I do about this gorgeous girl who is chasing me and I feel nothing for?
Q. There's this girl in my neigbourhood; pretty, intelligent and gorgeous. She's been like making passes at me (which i intentionally ignors). Of late, she's bin texting me love messages and even told me that i'm the guy she dreams of, she loves an...
A. 12 August 2011: Good Luck :) ... (read in full...)
Should I make out with my first cousin once removed?
Q. hi me and my first cousin once removed (girl) get a long great but she has never made out before. she has been asking me about the topic. should I make out with her and show her how...
A. 12 August 2011: Tell her that it just comes natural. Thats how it worked for me I didnt know how to make out. It really does come natural... (read in full...)
Should I make out with my first cousin once removed?
Q. hi me and my first cousin once removed (girl) get a long great but she has never made out before. she has been asking me about the topic. should I make out with her and show her how...
A. 7 August 2011: No. She is still related to you maybe introduce her to one of your friends depending on the age difference x... (read in full...)
What do I do about this gorgeous girl who is chasing me and I feel nothing for?
Q. There's this girl in my neigbourhood; pretty, intelligent and gorgeous. She's been like making passes at me (which i intentionally ignors). Of late, she's bin texting me love messages and even told me that i'm the guy she dreams of, she loves an...
A. 7 August 2011: It sounds to me your not ready for a relationship right now but tell her that. Tell her that you don't want to hurt her by leading her on to something that will never happen and tht you just want to stay good friends... (read in full...)
Fallen for my boyfriend's brother and having sex with him too! What should I do?
Q. im falling in love to my boyfriend's brother? we are having sex too..i can't help it anymore i love my boyfriend brother so much! what should i do?...
A. 4 August 2011: If you love the brother you should leave your boyfriend its not fair to keep this from him but honestly I think you should stay away from both of the brothers
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Pregnant during your period?
Q. Can I get pregnant during periods?...
A. 3 August 2011: Yes you can... (read in full...)
He's cheated on me 5 times, constantly lies and disrespects me but he has my heart and I want him back....
Q. Dear Cupid How can i get over a guy whom i've been with for over 2 years now who has cheated on me 5 times, who constantly lies to me, who disrespects me, who doesn't show any affection or that he cares, who ignores me, doesn't communicate whenever...
A. 30 July 2011: Sweetheart I know exactly how this feels this happened me before but at the end of the day and you know it you have to leave him. Like no offence he is walking all over you. you need to have confidence and make a stand and tell him either YOU change ... (read in full...)
Is my penis too big? WIll it ever stop growing?
Q. Why is my penis so big? so i am only 14 years old and my penis is already 7 inches when erect i wanted to know if it has stopped growing because it can be really embarrasing sometimes i dont think i could cope with anything bigger and because im ...
A. 11 August 2010: This used to happen one of my friends before and i will give u the same advice I gave him. Whenever you get an erection think unsexy thoughts when you get one.I'm sure it'll calm down when you get a little older and your hormones settle a bit but ... (read in full...)
Yikes!!! I think I may be pregnant! What do you guys reckon?
Q. Am i pregnant? My pill ran out around 7 weeks ago and i'm still yet to get it renewed. i've been sleeping with someone 2 or 3 times a week, for around 5 weeks now and each time he's came inside me. i'm still yet to come on since coming off my pill, ...
A. 24 April 2010: You might be pregnant I,m not sure but the best advice I can give u is to Take a pregnancy test straight away. Good Luck :) x... (read in full...)
What are the main signs of spotting a "player"?
Q. How do you spot a player? What are the main signs ?...
A. 1 April 2010: As soon as he dumps his girlfriend he has a new one instantly , Always texting on his phone , He lies a lot & He Has A Lot Of Female Friends. Well thats my own opinion as I dated one and those were the things I noticed about him.... (read in full...)
I want to ask her out but I am a coward. How can I conquer my fear?
Q. So there's this girl i really like, she's really beautiful and funny and smart and i really want to go out with her. the problem is this: basically, i'm a coward. I'm usually an outgoing person, i have loads of friends and i'm great at making people ...
A. 1 April 2010: Everyone goes through this at some stage =).But we all get through it you Just have to Bite the Bullet. Just go over to her and Ask her " can I talk to you " and if shes with her friends ask can you go somewere more private or mabye msn her start ... (read in full...)
Ideas for a sex bucket list?
Q. Me and my wife are looking for ideas for a sex "bucket list". We have tried sex on a beach, in a mall, a restraunt, parking garage, park , elevator , public restroom. We are looking for more things opposed to places but all ideas are welcome ...
A. 30 March 2010: Football pitch, In the ocean , Garden shed , On a pool table? ... (read in full...)
Don't tell me to get over her - how do I get her back?
Q. Met this girl online over 3 years ago and fell in love. She's perfect for me, the most wonderful girl I've ever met in my life and never have any of my physical relationships before her been as wonderful as my relationship with this girl. We would ...
A. 28 March 2010: Sweetheart its so sweet that you want to keep this relationship going. I know you dont really want to hear anytihng about getting over her but why don't you remain friends For a while and see how your relationship Goes. I,m sure she,s just trying to ... (read in full...)
She thinks she loves me but we've never met and I'm just not feeling it.
Q. There's this girl I'm friends with. We've been friends for a while now but never met because she lives in a different country from me. We talk on the phone alot and have become really close. She tells me that she loves me, I'm the first boy to treat ...
A. 22 December 2009: I know the feeling hun when you become friends with someone who lives in a different country and they say they love you. The best advice I can give you is to tell her the truth. tell her that you cant handle the distance. And you shouldn't really be ... (read in full...)
How long should we wait before having sex?
Q. Hi Im looking for some advice....Ive been going out with this boy for four weeks....he says he loves me at least once a day....and I love him 2....we are both virgins....how long should I wait before engaging in sex with him....IM 17 nd hes 19 ...
A. 14 October 2009: Whenever you both feel ready and when you know its right :)... (read in full...)
I'm head over heels in love! How do I muster up the courage to ask her out?
Q. I'm 17 and nuts, crazy over a girl a year below me but goes to my collage or sixthform if you live in England. I have a similar situation to a person you help about asking a girl out I dont know her at all, well i over heard her saying she w...
A. 10 October 2009: Good Luck :)
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My boyfriend and I had sex without protection, but I had my period. Could I be pregnant anyway?
Q. okay so me an my boyfriend had sex without a condom cuz we didnt have 1 like a week and a half ago. he pulled out wenever he was ganna cum and ive had my period already but cud i still b pregnant? because hes ben freakin out cuz ppl have made it ...
A. 10 October 2009: There is a chance but My advice would be to get a pregnancy test and use condom in future . Even if he Pulls it out before he ejaculates there is still a chance you could get pregnant. ... (read in full...)
I'm head over heels in love! How do I muster up the courage to ask her out?
Q. I'm 17 and nuts, crazy over a girl a year below me but goes to my collage or sixthform if you live in England. I have a similar situation to a person you help about asking a girl out I dont know her at all, well i over heard her saying she w...
A. 10 October 2009: Why don't you get one of your friends to ask for her number for you and start texting her or even add her on Bebo , FaceBook or MSN. once you,ve started texting ask her what kind of music she likes or what's her hobbies and over time it will be ... (read in full...)
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