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writes:I'm 45 shes 31 - dating a month. On every other level we have a blast - we click, but when it comes to sex lately I think there are some trust issues that arise. I'm use to doing the pleasing but I'm not seeing that in her, its more shes trying to please me and I her at the same time and we both end up just exhausted with nothing to show for it but sweat most of the time. I did talk to her about it, trust that is. But now I'm thinking I might just be getting older. I don't want to lose this one. I try to be as honest as I can with her and talk but too much of that can lead to ending what has just begun. I've been verbally thrashed by woman in the past with going from I love you's to the next day them saying goodbye. I seem to be the common denominator. However, I've always been the one seeking a long lasting real healthy relationship. I love having sex but something is stopping me from enjoying myself completely in the sex department. I dont know what to do about it short of talking it out.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (4 October 2012):
 YOu can talk about it all you want... I believe that is known as "oral sex...."
BUT, you and she need to figure out how your going to accomdate one-anothers' sexual preferences and intents....
Good luck....
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 October 2012):
 I suggest you should come up with some sort of plan. It is great that you both obviously love trying to please the other one. Suggest that you maybe take it in turns. One night you concentrate on pleasing her and vice versa.
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