Should I worry about my boyfriend liking another girl
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months. I have dated a lot of guys but never felt so in love until my current boyfriend. I have never thought about a future with any guy until my current boyfriend. I am attracted to him in every way. He has such ...
A. 19 September 2013: Whoa!!! This guy has done a wonderful job of convincing you that he finds cheating to be offensive... whilest, at the same time, he is partaking of it, himself.....
Take a couple more weeks, and see if you don't/haven't learned a lot more abo... (read in full...)
He says he no longer loves me-- how can I change his mind?
Q. This will be long, so bare with me.... I am 32, my boyfriend 35. We have been together for almost 4 years and live together. I have two children, both with special needs, from a previous relationship; they are not home on weekends. Our relationsh...
A. 19 September 2013: You CAN'T "change his mind".... and I can't - for the life of me - imagine WHY you would want to do so....
It "sounds" like you did everything you could to "grease the slide".... such that he pulled the trigger and told you that it was over bet... (read in full...)
What's a woman with all this new-found time on her hands to do?
Q. I suppose this isn't really a relationship question but more a guidance of career choices. I am unsure of what to do, however, so please read. Thank you. I've been in a loving, committed relationship with my partner for 15 years. She is the hard ...
A. 19 September 2013: There is no limit to what you might do in/with your "newfound" time... Heck, you're only in your 30's!!!
First, I suggest that you drop the "....I realize that the current economy is still in shambles. I've read online that English majors a... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex back? Or how do I move on? It's 70 days since our break-up
Q. Two months ago, The love of my life walked away because of my bad attitude. It's been about 70 days since I've seen or talked to him. How do I get him back? or How do I accept what has happened and move on? Its been a hard journey. All I d...
A. 18 September 2013: Let this one stay dumped... and see if you can find a guy who is OK with your peculiar style of life....
Good luck...... (read in full...)
Is it ok to be jealous when his ex-lovers call?
Q. I know this sounds ridiculously stupid and the answer is obviously "YES!" But, how do you guys feel about it? And what can I do to stop it. My boyfriend's ex-sex partners keep texting him. These girls are from, like, last year, and he keeps saying h...
A. 18 September 2013: The only way you can "stop it"... is to sit "boyfriend" down and say to him.... "Hunchy-buncy, I see that you have phone calls from your "ex".... and it makes me wonder if she really IS an "ex".... or just a girl who has stopped putting out for you ... (read in full...)
I don't want to nag my boyfriend and keep asking if everything is ok but something seems wrong!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. He's there for me when he is available, I can tell him anything and we are good at being level headed and not fighting with each other. I am concerned, he seems to be pulling away lately. ...
A. 18 September 2013: "Sounds" to me like he has silently dumped you... but not told you so.....
Let him go..... and, if he really gives a darn about you, perhaps he will contact you after that....
Good luck..... (read in full...)
My b/f of 6 years cheated on me with my friend and now I have trust issues!
Q. Hello, i am in a relation with my boy friend for about 6 years. We met in in college .He had an affair with my friend while we were together i came to know about that and told him i was disappointed because i believed him a lot, he said that he made ...
A. 18 September 2013: IF you dump this creep, THEN you won't have to spend any time/mental energy worrying about whether or not he will back-pedal and have yet another fling with your BFF.... or any other girl!!!!!!
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Would it be reasonable for me to ask him to limit the picture of his ex to the kid's bedroom?
Q. Hi everyone. I would like to know how other people feel about their husbands displaying pictures of their ex-wives in their new home with their new partner? My boyfriend and I are moving in to a new place together next month. He currently displays ...
A. 18 September 2013: Here's the easy and justifiable way to handle this.....
Tell the kid that he/she can have pics of his/her Mother IN HIS/HER ROOM.....
BUT!!!! ... that there can be NO pictures of that woman elsewhere in the house... since she is a WITCH and w... (read in full...)
How do we improve our sex life after 3 years and a child together?
Q. This is a bit of an embarrassing problem to ask but hopefully maybe one of you can help me. I have been with the bf for nearly 3 years. We have a child together who is nearly 2. Before the child, our sex life was normal and grand - no problems - no ...
A. 17 September 2013: Watizzit,... about you women (some of you... OP is one) that you will make yourself available for sex and for reproduction.... but YOU NEVER ASK THE MAN/SPERM DONOR to act as if he has any responsibility in anything????????
Guys love it that the... (read in full...)
Girls think I'm gay because its football season and I don't want to be involved
Q. all the girls at my school think im gay because they ask me out i say no because its football season theyd get in the way how do i prove im strait. or am i just to in to football and need to get girlfriend. ...
A. 16 September 2013: Are you saying that YOU are on the football team??? ... but that you don't have much desire to date the girls who are "hangers-on" to you football jocks?????
It's easy to imagine that - if that is so - then they think you MUST be gay.... 'cuz wha... (read in full...)
We've been dating for 10 months and its still a secret from everyone
Q. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 10 months now. In the beginning everything was going great. He seemed really into me and we were getting on so well. He asked me to be his girlfriend after about 4 months of dating, sex and spending ...
A. 16 September 2013: You ask: ".... Is he ashamed of me? ..."
I reckon: "Nope... he's not ashamed of you. BUT, he IS concerned that his wife - or "other" girlfriend - might find out if the two of you became more "open" and "public"....
Sorry to burst your bubbl... (read in full...)
Isn't it an actor's responsibility to keep her partner's psyche safe?
Q. How do actors' spouses feel about love scenes in play or Sensual Couple Dance? Recently I had this same experience as a partner to my performer girlfriend. This was first time I saw her doing this sensual piece on stage, slow routine half in ...
A. 16 September 2013: Imagine your G/F was the world's foremost mechanic of racing automobiles. She works the pits in some of the most-watched, most important races in the World. As it happens, she sometimes comes home with grease under her fingernails.
What ... (read in full...)
How do I keep this rude and obnoxious man away from my wedding, yet still have my close friend attend?
Q. Dear All, I am getting married next year and I'm really happy about it. We are planning a very small, intimate wedding of about 25 people. My problem is that a couple of years ago, one of my closest friends left her husband, and started li...
A. 16 September 2013: I consulted a volume which I have which is titled: "Writing invitations that you would rather not have to write"..... and it has just such a dilemma as you posed herein...
The suggested invitation reads thusly: "Dear Beloved Friend: I think yo... (read in full...)
Why does he say he feels no connection ?
Q. My Bf of 1 year says he feels no connection to me. he says he is not my BF. yet we go out, have sex. We started out wrong with sex. He had a cheating GF that lived with him and since then several years of not dating. Now me.. and he says no c...
A. 16 September 2013: IF you think you can run around this subject so fast that you actually go in to a time warp.... wherein everything that you now know about this guy becomes "moot".... then have at it....
You KNOW that he is using you for sex....and has no intentio... (read in full...)
Is there ever an instance when abuse and fear of your significant other is justified?
Q. I am wondering if there is ever an instance when abuse and fear of your significant other is justified. My boyfriend thinks I cheated on him even though he knows it's not true. He bases this on my ex still contacting me(my ex loves in another...
A. 16 September 2013: I think your B/F revealed a side of himself that is - by itself - sufficient reason for you to get away, and stay away, from him......
Regardless of what triggered his behaviour.... there is no justification for what he did.... Leave now...
... (read in full...)
Can a couple where the man is broke all the time can last. ?
Q. I've been dating my bf for the past 2 years. He was broke when I met him but he was still able to take me to dinner and pay for this and that. He was working hard and had lots of expenses due to school so there was a reason for not having money at ...
A. 16 September 2013: In the book "The Guy's guide to finances" there is a brief chapter about just this subject. IN TOTAL, the chapter reads:
"Lucky guy... if you can get your "girlfriend" to pay your way through life.... whilest you protest that you are trying y... (read in full...)
Why does he say he feels no connection ?
Q. My Bf of 1 year says he feels no connection to me. he says he is not my BF. yet we go out, have sex. We started out wrong with sex. He had a cheating GF that lived with him and since then several years of not dating. Now me.. and he says no c...
A. 16 September 2013: In the "Guy's book of things to say and do to keep your girl guessing" there is a chapter about just this subject.
In summary, it sez that the guy must say all the "right things" that will keep you having sex with him, whilest - at the same tim... (read in full...)
Due to religious differences, our friendship can go no further. Do I bring it up with her or let it remain unspoken?
Q. OK, I am wondering if you can help me. To make it short and simple, there is this young woman at my job who I have become friends with. I like her very much, as she is very smart, reflective, and has strong values, and we have a lot in common. ...
A. 16 September 2013: I read only the first four paragraphs of you submittal. Having done that, I knew that you were hopelessly lost... and both you and "G/F" were not sufficiently independent and adult to ask THE MOST IMPORTANT question of all. That is:
"Why ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend discusses our intimate details with his best friend. Should I not let this worry me so much?
Q. Hey, my bf likes to tell his best friend (male) all the intimate details of our relationship and I need advice on how to not let this worry me. I found out from the GF of his bestfriend who is told all about what my bf says. It kinda hurts as it's ...
A. 16 September 2013: Your "boyfriend" sounds like an immature 13-year-old.....(boasting about his sexual conquests) and you're considering MARRYING him??????
Think AT LEAST twice, about that....
Then, dump him....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Why did male friend delete and block me on social media?
Q. I befriended a prominent political figure on social media (Twitter first, then Facebook) and we seemed to get along very well. He started a political news organization and he invited me to work with him and I accepted. He's very, very conservative ...
A. 16 September 2013: "Sounds" to me like you are rid of a guy who was quite a jerk....
Excuse me... would you please repeat the question????
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Hard from seeing a naked woman?
Q. I have a question about erections.... My last two boyfriends could only get half boners from seeing me naked, one was heavily into porn. Is that because I look bad compared to the porn? Is it because they aren't really that interested in se...
A. 16 September 2013: Most of us guys "get hard" just knowing that there is SOME WOMAN.... somewhere, within 50 miles of us, who might be naked at that moment... or could, possibly, be naked within the next several years.....
IF you can determine what it is that mak... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my friend, who's in an unhappy marriage. Should I tell her my feelings?
Q. Hello, I have a female friend who seems to be in an unhappy marriage. Her husband constantly loses his temper for no reason whatsoever, causing her to cry. He's never hit her, just shouted at her. The other night, she phoned me in tears after he'd...
A. 16 September 2013: No, no, no..... Don't "...come clean about my feelings or at the very least help her get out of her awful marriage..."
All that can do is make a semi-clear situation in to a thoroughly turbid eddy of turmoil.... WHICH (eddy) will make lives mo... (read in full...)
Why can't I bring myself to be more flirty?
Q. Dear all, I am posting here because I am very confused and do not know where to turn to for some advice. After a relatively long dry spell (after a tough break-up), I have come to a point where I meet plenty of ladies. However, nothing ever ha...
A. 16 September 2013: Sounds to me like you need to get a copy of my pamphlet: "How to confirm that you are a man, with Y chromosomes and bubbling-over testosterone... and how to use that to get girls to remove their clothes and get in bed with you"
In it, you will... (read in full...)
How do I give up on finding love and meeting someone.
Q. Hi everyone, have you got any advice for me to give up on finding love and meeting someone because I couldn't care if I ever met anyone. I know that sounds stupid being I'm only 23 but it just upset me and destroys my confidence thinking about it. ...
A. 16 September 2013: Oaksi: You know what is a "marathon", no? It's 26+ miles (about 40 km).....
Your submittal "sounds" to me as if you have just passed the starting line of a marathon, but you have already concluded that you are not going to win.... no matter W... (read in full...)
I just moved in with my girlfriend and there is already conflict!
Q. Hi, Me and my gf, we moved in together 3 weeks ago. I got a new, very time-consuming job a week ago and her classes (she's a student) started at the same time. So we both come home tired, and I have to go to bed at 10 P.M. to wake up for work. ...
A. 14 September 2013: Once I got to this: "...."Sorry is not good enough, you need to change your attitude" When I asked her, what was wrong, she told me that me constantly forgetting small things is driving her mad and "there's also other stuff".." I was able to see, ... (read in full...)
Sex is painful for me after having 2 children?
Q. Feeling hopeless. Hi aunts and uncles. Sex is painful for me. Im not a virgin, by any means, my husband and I have two children together. I have read that "tenting" will help, but you must have foreplay to acheive that. My husband is not a fan of ...
A. 13 September 2013: You write: "My husband is not a fan of foreplay or giving oral sex."
Perhaps you should get him a copy of my pamphlet, titled "The two things that EVERY GUY damn-well ought to learn if he expects to keep his girl interested in him for any leng... (read in full...)
People think my guy is so great but they don't see what I see!
Q. Has anybody ever gone through this, or at least seen it happening before? I have what I would call a normally very sweet guy. My family love him and my friends always tell me how lucky I am, and wish they could meet someone like him. They ask why we ...
A. 13 September 2013: So YOU know what an a$$hole this guy has been..... AND, he has scrupulously kept that fact - that "secret" - from everybody else.... those "everybody elses, incidentally, who you LISTEN TO!!!!
WHO's life are you living???? Theirs'?... (read in full...)
Should I reach out to my ex after several years of silence?
Q. I am not sure about something and wanted to get some opinions before I act. I have been separated/divorced from my ex for about three and a half years now. It was a bitter divorce, and up till now we have avoided contact except for emails and ...
A. 13 September 2013: You ask: "...should I keep it the way it has been for the past few years and leave things well enough alone, or should I reach out?"
My perspective is to "....should I keep it the way it has been for the past few years and leave things well eno... (read in full...)
Is he just looking for hookups?
Q. I have a question so I met a guy in a dating site three weeks ago we chatted through text for two days and have gone on three dates.. 1st date we went out to eat I picked the place and he paid then we went out for a few drinks near his house s...
A. 12 September 2013: It's amazing how "patient" we guys can be, once we've indentified a woman who we would like to bed... and who we think has exhibited enough interest such that we can "conclude" that just a bit more patience will be sufficient to get her to remove ... (read in full...)
Should I contact my ex? Please help!
Q. I left my ex last January. She moved to be with me from another province 2 years ago. Things were not working, but I loved her very much. After months of still spending time with her bc she had no friends or family here, and her crying and begging, ...
A. 12 September 2013: Let her continue to be your "ex-"....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
From breakup depression to gambling losses. Advice?
Q. Exactly a year ago, I broke up with the love of my life. Our relationship was very toxic due to her very rough past. The breakup was a total devastation for both of us. She took on drugs, I was very depressed n couldnt function properly. 3 months l...
A. 12 September 2013: I won't be as generous as IAHTHY, and Aunty Babbit.....
They suggest that you "work" on your depression AND (both) suggested that there would be some sort of medication that would "help" you..... To that, I say, "Hogwash".....
YOU know what... (read in full...)
How can you just not care if your partner had orgazm or not
Q. I am in my early thirties, met a guy in his late 30s. Went on a date several times and we had sex. It was so lousy that I am not sure that i want to see him again. I would understand if it was someone young and inexperienced, but he was married, now ...
A. 12 September 2013: I think it's fine that you will be giving this guy another chance....
Please note that, relative to this, that you wrote: "...and I will tell him something and direct him a little, and see how it goes. I am a little shy tellin about oral. So... (read in full...)
Boyfriend believes a threesome will bring us closer but I've heard horror stories about them
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for the past year and recently he's asked me about having a threesome. I'm secure with myself and my sexuality. I'm also confident in our relationship. I've just heard alot of horror stories that follow a threesome ...
A. 12 September 2013: That Aunts and Uncles probably won't give you an absolute "right" or "wrong" to you question.... since, who are we to pass that judgement???
What you ARE seeing, in your replies, is that the odds of this 3-some destroying your relation... (read in full...)
Wasn't the sex good for her? Why did she have to start masturbating immediately after I had my orgasm?
Q. If I slept with a girl after our 2nd date and after a 10-minute intercourse where I orgasmed, she proceeded to immediately start masturbating and even asked me to do it for her the next 20 mins. Does it mean she didn't enjoy the intercourse or ...
A. 11 September 2013: What a coincidence. Just a few inquiries away from your's, is another, to which I submitted this reply:
"Unfortunately, you've encountered a guy who has never read my best-selling pamphlet titled "When you do nik-nik, it's all about HER, you... (read in full...)
I found out he has a girlfriend. Should I confront him or see if he'll admit to it?
Q. about a month ago i met this guy who is 20 and i am 17. we got really well, having the same intrests and all that. so we saw each other a few times but then last weekend he had something to do which i know was true. but since then our texting and ...
A. 11 September 2013: Why waste your time with the ".... one more time... " thing, or "...see if he'll admit it, or confront him.."
You have far more productive things to do with your time that to waste it (your time) on this a$$hole.....
Good luck....... (read in full...)
Funny dating story
Q. When I was in my twenties I went on quite a few dates. I had been meeting guys through the personal ads. I always tried to stay safe so I would take my own car to meet them. I met this guy in the mall and we never talked about what the other w...
A. 11 September 2013: Doesn't that just show to go you that we guys will do anything - nothing is too outlandish - to get your girls to remove your clothing and proceed to make yourselves available for our pleasure????
Good story....
... (read in full...)
How can you just not care if your partner had orgazm or not
Q. I am in my early thirties, met a guy in his late 30s. Went on a date several times and we had sex. It was so lousy that I am not sure that i want to see him again. I would understand if it was someone young and inexperienced, but he was married, now ...
A. 11 September 2013: Unfortunately, you've encountered a guy who has never read my best-selling pamphlet titled "When you do nik-nik, it's all about HER, you idiot!!!!"
If you'd like a copy, to give to him, please let me know...
Good luck with your NEXT guy friend.... (read in full...)
I am feeling very sexually frustrated!
Q. About 2 weeks ago my girlfriend gave me my first blow job. It was great and all but I find that now I am very sexually frustrated. I get turned on a lot and long for her to do it again. But this isn't like the normal horny where you can just go ...
A. 10 September 2013: Why aren't you masturbating?????
Good luck...... (read in full...)
What happened with this guy? What changed?
Q. Dear Cupid, i'd like to ask for an advice. There's this guy that i'm dating for a m0nth n0w. He's my co worker, same c0mpany but different department. I enjoyed his c0mpany and i fell in love with him without him kn0wing. I'm hurting right n0w coz ...
A. 10 September 2013: Were you ever intimate with this guy?? If "yes," then that is the "game changer"........ (read in full...)
I don't feel comfortable meeting my boyfriend's family because I'm bisexual
Q. I have always known I was bisexual since my early teens, and I have had two relationship with women. My parent's and I fell out due to this, so I haven't spoken to them in five year's. I'm currently seeing a really nice guy who I'm falling ...
A. 9 September 2013: Do you suppose that you will be required to wear a T-short or baseball hat that sez: "I'm bisexual" when you meet his family???????
WHAT business is it of theirs' if you are bi-sexual, tri-sexual or anything-else-sexual???????? Do you and "B/F... (read in full...)
Body dysmorphic disorder
Q. So my problem is I am ugly....I have spent lots of money on therapy for BDD (Body dysmorphic disorder), but it just seems that a duck is a duck. I am ugly and that's that, but I feel like I'm gorgeous. So I'm a duck that thinks its a swan...any ...
A. 9 September 2013: Go look at Lizzie Velazquez's Facebook page and/or web site,.... and see how SHE handled a situation which sounds much like your's....
SHE (Lizzie) has more beauty in either of her little fingers than many of the "hot, party" girls on this - a... (read in full...)
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