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Girls think I'm gay because its football season and I don't want to be involved

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Question - (16 September 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2013)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

all the girls at my school think im gay because they ask me out i say no because its football season theyd get in the way how do i prove im strait. or am i just to in to football and need to get girlfriend.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (16 September 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntso are you questioning your sexuality?

because my husband goes to work on Monday and they say "did your WIFE watch the game?" because I like sports and he does not.

being on the football team means nothing other than you are on the football team...

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (16 September 2013):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntAre you saying that YOU are on the football team??? ... but that you don't have much desire to date the girls who are "hangers-on" to you football jocks?????

It's easy to imagine that - if that is so - then they think you MUST be gay.... 'cuz what red-blooded American guy can resist an estrogen wielding cheerleader?????

The "answer" is that you can - and will - hang with them when and where you wish to do... and - by the way - if you ("I") AM gay.... SO F**king WHAT??????

Damn! I think that stereotypes are beginning to make our lives a complicated cornucopia of who/what/when/where we ARE.... and - regardless if anyone else's business - they are craving to put a label on you!!!!!

Keep pluggin' with the football... and I hope you get a scholarship to one of our high-flying American schools (where the football players really ARE professional athletes.... except they can't be PAID)!!!!

Good luck....

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (16 September 2013):

Honeypie agony auntYou don't PROVE you are straight.

Liking or not liking football has NOTHING to do with a person's sexual orientation.

I know gay guy who LOVE football/rugby/hokey and I know straight guys who rather not participate or watch sports.

I SERIOUSLY doubt ALL the girls think you are gay because you are currently more focused about football.

But what I don't get is that you say you NEED to get a GF, yet you don't want to be involved.. that makes no sense at all.

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