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writes:about a month ago i met this guy who is 20 and i am 17. we got really well, having the same intrests and all that. so we saw each other a few times but then last weekend he had something to do which i know was true. but since then our texting and stuff has become distant so i was thinking that i just couldnt really be bothered because its long distance. but then i found out he has a girlfriend who hes been with for about 2 years and dont know what to do? and yes i do know ive been taken advantage and used and all that but at least im in a better situation than the girlfriend. anyways now i want to know what to do defintley want to see him one more time and see if hell admit or if i should confront him? and the other side, a dark part of me wants to play him because i have trust issues but decieded that he was too nice and honest to be lying.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 September 2013): He has used you and abused you in a vulnerable state, and doesn't deserve the satisfaction of you giving him any more attention. What i would do is send him ONE message saying he's a worthless p***k for cheating on his gf and if he had any decency he would tell his gf the truth- as she deserves better. Hopefully thatll make him feel bad and be honest with his gf...Then have nothing more to do with him...
If you really wanted to you could see if you could message his gf and tell her yourself... She deserves to know not like it's your responsibility at all to tell her what a rat he is, but I would want to ensure she doesn't waste another minute with him.
Good luck xx :)
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (11 September 2013):
 I agree, I would not waste my time on this Joker either. I would however let him know, that you know he has a GF and you want nothing to do with him. Then cut all contact.
Don't stoop to "revenge". It makes you as bad as him.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (11 September 2013):
 Why waste your time with the ".... one more time... " thing, or "...see if he'll admit it, or confront him.."
You have far more productive things to do with your time that to waste it (your time) on this a$$hole.....
Good luck....
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