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30-35,
anonymous
writes:This guy named COJ wants me to be with him but we have already been together 4 times and we broke up again. I love him and he told me he loves me but im not sure if its true. He is begging me to get back together with him but there is another guy in the picture who i love much more than Daniel. me and the guy are not together yet. What do u think i should do be with that guy or go back to COJ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): Sometimes at you age, a female has to use her head and not just her heart. Which one of the these two guys..respects you and treats you the best? Is Daniel the same person as COJ? You and COJ have split up and gotten back together 4 times! That sounds like some reoccuring 'relationship issues' have happened that have caused the two of you to bounce back and forth and frankly, you love life sounds a tad out of control, here. Before I can give you any more advice that could help you make a sound, sensible decision, would you be able to write back and tell me 'why' you and COJ broke up 4 times?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2008): I think you should trust your heart on this one. You say that you don't really love COJ anymore so don't get back with him. I know you think that you'll be hurting his feelings but in my opinion I think it's worse to pretend that you love someone when you don't. Besides it'll just hurt him more when you break up again.
If there's this new guy that you really like you should become really good friends with him. Take it slowly and don't rush into anything. He might be the right one, he might not. Who knows?!
Good luck x x x
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (23 January 2008):
 Hi
Probably not be with either of them. Especially not the guy you have broken up with so many times before. How many times do you have to try again before you call it a day completely? Ive got back with someone in the past and we split again recently, and there is no way i'm going down that road a third time, let alone a fourth, even though he wants to.
Sometimes you have to say enough is enough and call it quits. Especially at your age! way too young to be in rollercoaster relationships.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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