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writes:ok so im just curious, trying to figure out what women like best during sex so I can the next one I have sex with be very attracted to me. I have heard that sex is better as a female, because of multiple orgasms, and the fact that their orgasms are like so much more intense and violent than male orgasms. I even read that if a male felt a female orgasm, it could kill him. I dunno if this is true but thats not the point.I thought of a few questions which I was wondering if anybody who had experience could answer?1. When women have these multiple orgasms, do you still feel tired and drained after an orgasm, or do you feel energetic and wanting to go again? 2. Is the man supposed to be able to feel the women's vagina contracting around his penis when she has an orgasm from penetration. Cuz I realized that one girl I made love to was moaning, yelling its hot its hot, sweating, and her eyes were like clenching shut. does this sound like faking to anyone.3. What are some ways to make a girl orgasm from penetration alone, or have a so called "vaginal orgasm"? thanks people
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2008): I'll take on numbers two and three.
2. They do contract, sometimes more like spasms, but I can't say that I've always been able to feel it with different ladies. Other times I can but its' fairly light. Some lady's contractions are quite powerful and obvious. I must admit that I'm usually a little busy at the time, if you know what I mean, and maybe I don't really notice because I'm not really looking for that. Some women can strongly tighten their lower pelvic muscles and clinch around a penis. And part two of two, a woman's powerful orgasm is very obvious to me, although almost every woman I've been with are different and unique.
3. There are actually few sensitive nerves within the vagina itself. They are concentrated within the clitoral complex, which includes the head (clitoral glans), but also throughout most of the vulva under the skin and in the lips. Even in a so-called "vaginal orgasm," the real stimulation would be caused by the action of the penis moving against the inner lips (labia) and stimulating much of the vulva with it's activity. The penis may also act upon the so-called G-spot, which is also an extension of the clitoral complex. It is located about two inches inside the vagina to the north (upwards toward her front).
If you really want to be a stud, though, oral stimulation of various parts of her vulva is the way to go and is most likely to let her achieve multiple orgasms, and her strongest orgasms. This should be done slowly, as k222cute says, with all kinds of maneuvers with your tongue and lips. Take your time, but I wouldn't start directly on the clitoris head. To most ladies, this is far too sensitive to attack directly at first.
I wrote about this in some detail a few days ago here, but I slowly begin by lightly tickling both her outer and inner lips with the tip of my tongue, from bottom almost to top. Sometimes I'll go up and over her clitoral hood and back down the other side, adding flicks of the tongue occasionally.
Gradually begin increasing the pressure of the licks of her lips, sometimes licking between them, and occasionally licking across her vaginal opening.
Sometimes use the tip of the tongue, but also begin using your tongue flatter against her with wide licks up and down, still rather slowly. I still keep away from the clit head directly for quite some time.
Begin adding kisses to the lips, up and down, and kiss the opening.
Keep all this up, gradually increasing pressure a little and varying the movements, flicking across the lips at times, and occasionally run the tip of the tongue into her opening. Lick the space between her anus and vulva (the perineum) at times.
Eventually, as her stimulation mounts (and you'll know it), I'll begin working up closer to the clit, first around it (the hood) and below it. Keep doing all this until your woman is obviously nearing her first orgasm, and lightly begin tickling the clitoris head directly, very gently. If her response to this is good (moaning or whatever), start flicking it gently and give it a light kiss.
Ask her what she's liking.
Flatten your tongue and gently press it against the clit, then take another tour around the whole vulva and run your tongue as deep as you can into her vagina a couple of times. She should be going wild at this point.
If so, eventually work back up to the clit, and in circular motions, begin increasing the pressure gradually and add more kisses. Lightly begin sucking it as well, but keep varying it. When you think she's reaching orgasm, or she tells you, plant a big wet kiss on her clitoris, a strong suck, then press your tongue firmly against it and hold it there. Let her come, it might last awhile.
She may want you to do it again. It won't take as long. That's a multiple.
You now know my secrets.
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (4 January 2008):
 1. When women have these multiple orgasms, do you still feel tired and drained after an orgasm, or do you feel energetic and wanting to go again? ......
Yes, tired and drained. But not for as long as males usually.
2. Is the man supposed to be able to feel the women's vagina contracting around his penis when she has an orgasm from penetration. Cuz I realized that one girl I made love to was moaning, yelling its hot its hot, sweating, and her eyes were like clenching shut. does this sound like faking to anyone.....
Slightly fake sounding yes. But she might not of been. Maybe her muscles werent as taught as other womens are. But generally you can feel the muscles conract. Some women even get a red rash on their chest. Rapid heart beat is a cert.
3. What are some ways to make a girl orgasm from penetration alone, or have a so called "vaginal orgasm"?...
In 7 out of 10 women, you wont be able to make her achieve orgasm through penetration alone. She will need clitoral stimulation. But apparently, her on top is a good way to try, or him on top legs straight with him kind of bouncing up and down is another good way.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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reader, k222cute +, writes (4 January 2008):
Ok Women we are tough, but love the fact you want to know most women have a hard time having an orgasm during intercourse, one way to assure multiple orgasms and it makes intercourse ten times better is go down on her first and i mean just on the clit, like literally make out with the clit like you would a mouth slow sensual, and sucking and dont be like most men and just keep jabbing your tongue on it be slow sensual and i am telling you whe will warn you she is about to cum and when she does you suck even harder she will have about six orgasms and then you just either flip her over and penetrate from behind or missionary but spread her and be deep and she will have energy like you wont beleive the contracting of the vaginal walls will contract and she will then have a gspot orgasm which it totally different and you will be a rock star she wont be able to get enough. and yes that girl sounds as if she if faking. you will know.
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