A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: We have been dating a year and some months. Lately, it feels like were separating... like he is always working now since he got a job in December. I am proud of him for having a job, but when he isn't working instead of hanging with me he stays home and plays his ps3? And while playing that he talks to other girls on there, which makes me feel like I’m not even his girl anymore.I have an ex who for some reason texts me like every two months which I don't get why he does that, but I feel like I want to text him. I know if I do it wouldn't be right because my boyfriend always gets mad when I text him... but I just want my boyfriend to pay attention to me! I need male attention, how do I get him to do this? Or should we just break up? I keep thinking maybe it would be better to break up because he has his own life now and seems like he doesn't have time for me. I have been sick for the past week and when I’m sick he will usually come over and make me feel better, but everyday he makes up lame excuses (really he is playing his stupid ps3), so I haven’t even seen him in like forever, when we use to hang out every day. Plus he will be leaving soon for basic training so I want to spend as much time with him as possible but he just isn’t into it? What should I do? Help please? I don't want to break up, but it feels like maybe that's best? Anyone out there who has gone through this before?
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