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writes:I like a guy for almost 1 year and until now I still can't forget about him and the moment with him. Actually he already knew that I like him but he didn't say anything about it and we had went out for lots of times and it's just 2 of us watching movies, had dinner together and lots more. He's very friendly towards me but sometimes he acted quite weird, sometimes he just ignore me and talked with his friends and he likes to bring me along to his friends function. I really feel that we acted like couple, I even had slept at his house for couple of times. I also had met with his parents and they all okay with it. At 1st he denied that he already in a relationship but after he knew that one of my friend like him, he tell me that he's already in a relationship. It's just so sudden and he never tell me that he like anyone before but whenever we meet I never ask him this question because he don't like to talked about it. I don't what had happen to me I always wanted to see him and be with him all the time and my mind keep thinking about him. I had try to asked him about his feeling towards me but he just don't want talked about it. Did he hate me for being so sticky? Although he keep tell me that he in a relationship but my heart feel that he's lying. Even his mother tell me that I'm the 1st girl that he ever bring back and no other girl had ever stay at his house before. I'm really miserable and depressed over this matter. Lots of my friend tell me to forget about him but it's really hard to do it~ Now I only wanted to get rid of this feeling towards him and lead a happy life. Please help me..
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reader, incendia1990  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 Wow. Talk about stressful. I'm getting mixed signals just reading this! First, hugs. I'm sorry you're going through that. Second, I'm sorry to say this, but it sounds like he either just wants to remain friends or he doesn't know what he wants. Commonly, when someone isn't interested, the easiest way to avoid the situation altogether is the "I have a boyfriend/girlfriend. :( Since you know this to most likely be untrue, and he is avoiding the subject at all, my advice is to pull yourself away from him for a little bit, at least 2 weeks and see what happens. If he doesn't get upset or panic, then he just isn't interested. If he does get upset, then there's something more going on than what your seeing.
I hope this helps. Let me know what happens. You sound very sweet and deserve better than that kind of treatment. :/
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