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writes:is my boyfriend gay ? we're friends for about 6 years,we haven't seen each other for about 2 years...he became my boyfriend 3months ago we shared things and happy moments with my family and his family too, he's very sweet and very loving..he's a play boy before thats why i don't liked him when we're still friends and i noticed that he's gay right now because of the pictures i checked on his face book account he kept on traveling with the same person and that's the dentist i was talking about. i asked him if he has a gay partner on our first monthsary?he answered defensively and get mad. so we broke up , then i think they're together again because they used to travel and chill together all over again. he's parents don't want me to give him up because they think i'm the only person who will save him.the dentist lives near on his place, i don't know what to do anymore, his cousins told me that the dentist and my boyfriend been together for about one year before.is he gay?
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reader, Scotsrugby  +, writes (10 February 2011):
As aunt honesty said, its hard to tell from what you've said if he's gay or not. From my point of view I have a few close male friends. I go on holiday with them, I play rugby with them and go in the shower naked after matches, go on rugby tours where we all get drunk and get naked, and spend a lot of time with them in general. But I'm not gay. I'd say his reaction is probably quite standard for a regular straight guy being accused of being gay by his girlfriend. I must admit, if my girlfriend asked me if I was gay repeatedly I'd probably be a bit miffed too! You say he was a playboy before you were with him? If by this you mean he spent a lot of time chasing women then surely, unless he's very deeply closeted, that's your answer?Hope this helps x
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 Well it is very hard to come to a conclusion if he is gay or not from what you have said. Maybe this dentist is just a really good friend of his. It is possible for two men to go travelling together as friends. However if there are other signs and it turns out that he is gay well then you or no other girl is going to change his thoughts. I guess Sweetie that nobody is going to be able to answer your question except for him. My advice would be to just go with your gut instinct.
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reader, ashley187  +, writes (10 February 2011):
 First of all-- your wording is difficult to understand. Second, if he is gay.. you can't "save him" from that regardless of what his parents think. Someone doesn't choose to be gay, you either are or are not gay but you don't "save someone" from that. It seems like just from looking up photos on facebook-- you are assuming he's gay. You and his parents need to ask him about this instead of talking behind his back, and if he is you need to accept it. Not "save him".
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