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writes:Hi im erica and i have been with my boyfriend for about 4 years we have a little boy whos 2 when we first got together everything was good with us and after like 1 year he started acting wierd he would go out alone and leave me at home i was about 4 months pregnant and when i was about 6 months he left me i would cry and beg him to get back with me but he would ignore me then i said fine and i left him alone after i had my son he started beggin me to get back with him and i did then i found out he cheated on me and after we got back together he hit me a couple of times and i didnt know why and after a couple off months he said sorry for everything and he never did any of that again now hes in jail and he writes to me and i write back but i dont know if i still wanna be with him after everything he hit me cheated on me went out to get drunk while i stayed home with my son he would come back drunk and beat me and now he tells me that he wont ever treat me like that again should i believe him or call it quits?
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reader, erica20 +, writes (14 December 2010):
erica20 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for the replys thats what i plan on doing stay away from him to make mine and my sons life better i have one more question he recently wrote to me i didnt write back but he wrote that he was sorry for everything that he knows he messed up that hes taking classes for his temper and drinking and everything and tha being away from me made him realize how strong his feelings are for me and that if i would give him another chance hes gonna show me that he changed but if dont want to that hes gonna respect that and stay away like i asked him to. should i write back or just ignore it and move on i really need some advice plz
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Cheater, abusive, in jail. I wouldn't bother with a guy with one of those problems, let alone three. Unfortunately you made a bad decision have a baby with this guy so he is always going to be in your life. Doesn't mean you have to be with him that way, just telling you the truth. Stop messing around with him romantically and move to make your life better for you and your child.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Stop talking to him, stop writing to him, do not let him near you or your children. I am surprised you trusted him for this long. Now, you must know how hollow his promises are. Now go free to find real love, the kind of love that keeps you warm and safe instead of the icy mask of love that he holds to his heart. Keep safe.
I hope that helps.
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