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male
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:About three months ago I moved from Cornwall where I had lived for all my life, to a town where everybody knew each other. My parents worked really hard to get me into the best school in the area and it just so happened a boy was leaving so I started in year 9. On my first day people were quite nice, the pretty popular girls seemed to like me because they kept asking lots of questions and talked with me constantly. There was one girl called Emma who seemed quite shy but was really nice, so I asked the boy showing me round about her . He told me she looked innocent but she really wasn't. The other day I was in a badminton tournament and she comes up out of nowhere smiling, apparently she got asked 5 mins before to play. She ended up losing to a year 7(we r in year9) so she asked me for a losing hug, I said okay and she gave me a really long hug. A bit later the guy from the opposite team started coming on to her. So for revenge for teasing me about me losing I ask Emma if she would pretend to be my girlfriend until the match was over. The guy then lost the rest of his matches and I won mine at the end she kissed me, like properly kissed me. The next day this guy asked me if I hugged her I said I had and he went on a bot bout how annoying she is. I found out later her and the boy have a love/hate relationship which they refuse to admit and also this popular quite pretty sporty girl who "I'm supposed to fancy" likes me and I really don't like her any ideas what to do???
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (23 November 2010):
 So young, so popular...you have pretty girls falling at your feet you lucky boy! Emma may like you, but then teen romance can be a fairly fickle thing so it may not last. I think you should just try to get to know her and decide about her on your own. Don't let other people influence your decision as gossip is a terrible thing. The boy who is criticising her is probably jealous that she likes you so don't let him deter you. As for the other sporty girl, let her down gently. If she approaches you about going out just say you are not interested (but nicely).
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