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writes:My gf and i got together its been a month. We got along great and all but something has been bothering her. She hinted that I "need more edge". What exactly does this mean? I guess you can say I'm a nice guy, I treat her super well. So when she told me this I couldn't help but wonder what does this mean?Also she said she was ready for sex. She never had sex before while I have had sex with my previous gf. I told her I wanted to wait a while until I could love her (yes I know coming from a guy this must seem strange - even though I would love to have sex with her (she is super attractive), I dont feel right unless I love someone). So I'm asking a response from the ladies, what does "edge" mean???? I am going to discuss this with her obviously, I just want to have a preconceived notion of it beforehand.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): also more individuality maybe. Who knows, ask her
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): more confidence
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 It could be you're not what she wants. Although at that age girls hardly know what they want. The bad boy looks so appealing but he's the one who breaks hearts and treats girls badly. Be yourself, women want the nice guy.
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reader, Lumous +, writes (23 November 2010):
Lumous is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you! Although it's helpful to know I've been told similar things in the past which cause concern.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 November 2010):
Sounds like she's asking you to be a bad boy, or take risks, be a little daring than playing it safe at all times.
I say stay as you are, don't try to be someone you're not. If you want to wait to have sex, then wait that's your choice. If you're not edgy enough for her then she can go find someone who is. This is who you are, she can't change that. In fact, you're the perfect guy!
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