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writes:Do you think its possible for a relationship to be successful when in the first 4 months of the relationship the man has consistently lied and cheated through it? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone. There was a typo in the title. He was my ex for 4 1/2 years and had been seeing another woman with an 8 year old daughter for 4 months. I know because I busted him and told her about it. He told her that he never considered me his girlfriend which is b.s.! Because he was telling me the same thing about her. She said that she loves him. I told her well you know the truth, you make your own bed, but you can have him. I was just curious if they had a chance because she forgave him. I was just seeing if people thought it was me or if it was him!
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reader, FloridaCatGirl +, writes (23 November 2010):
 You have only been in a relationship for 4 months and he is already lying and cheating??? Not a good sign. Unless he experiences a life altering revelation, or has a brain transplant... he will never change. This man does not respect you and I would imagine he is only using you for sex. How much worse does it have to get before you realize this man is bad news? Please don’t waste another second of your life on this loser.
Let us know what you decide to do. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2010): When did you become an official couple? Have you talked about being exclusive with each other? or is he still on dating mode?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 November 2010):
It depends on what you expect from the relationship. If he was willing to lie and cheat within 4 months, then it's safe to say that he will do it again, and again. So, it depends what you want from the relationship and life. Are you happy being second best? Or do you think, like me, that you can dump him and find a better guy who won't cheat? If he failed you that quickly several times, then he WILL fail again.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Only if you don't care about being lied to or cheated on. I know I couldn't be in such a relationship, but in the hypothetical anything is possible. I honestly doubt you'd find any happiness with this person though. If that activity didn't bother you, then you wouldn't be here.
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reader, Adorskable  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 He is obliviously a liar and a cheat question is are you going to be with a person who you do not trust, a person who has violated and disrespected you time after time and again.
Every time he is not with you are you going to be paranoid going through a rage wondering where and with whom is he with, do you really want to live a life like this.
Its really up to you to decided if you can be with a cheat, because true be told some change and will be faithful but others will continue to cheat and lie.
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