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writes:I've been in a odd situation for the pass 2 months. I finally was able to see a good friend of mine in college. We talked about our lives and what was new. But this got alittle different we both had boyfriends/girlfriends so I didnt act on my attraction for him but since I'm single, I did. He's been doing the most sweetest things for me like taking me out on my birthday which he had to do a doubleshift so he wouldn't cancel on me, giving me massages, cuddling with me, even telling me his problems which makes me feel happy he could trust me with that. But recently on Tuesdays I went out to see him and it was the usually we cuddled and talked then after we went out, he always seems to be tired and sleepy so we left pretty early. After that day, he's been ignoring me. At first I thought it was just because he was exhausted but now I don't think it is. Sometimes I think he's mad but I don't think I ever said anything to piss him off. I just want to know whats going on.. This is my first situation and I'm alittle hurt from it. I can't help it. I'm not going to message him again because I'll seem to clingy.. Any ideas? btw he's alittle older then me (26) I would of thought that he would just straight out tell me if he doesn't want to speak. I guess I need closure...? I don't know. Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (23 November 2010):
 I do not think you would seem clingy if you messaged him about it, you are only worried about him and this relationship. It is quite reasonable and I think he will understand. Ask him how he is, ask him if he would like to spend some time with you soon. See what he says, out of care. A closeness like that does not simply disappear all of a sudden. It is worth asking about.
I hope that helps.
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