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writes:my girlfriends birthday is coming up and we made plans to hang out on the weekend before it a month ago. Her friend invited her to go to the beach free of charge and they would be leaving the day before thanksgiving and coming back the sunday after. well i had already requested off at my job for the whole weekend so i could spend the weekend with her. Also if she goes i wont get to see her or our son on thanksgiving. She asked me if she could go and i dont want to say no, i want her to be happy. But i honestly want her to stay with me. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni wasnt invited to go and when i asked i was told that she didnt wanna ask cause she is lucky she is getting to.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (23 November 2010):
I would just go. At least you'll be with her and your son.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (23 November 2010):
 Why can't you go with them? I would remind her you guys made prior engagements a month ago..also you would like to spend time with them and your family on Thanksgiving. It's an important holiday that should be spent with family. Or you could let her go but ask if you can keep your son because of the holiday. It's her birthday so it's her call..I would ask her to compromise in terms of Thanksgiving and leaving your son with you.
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