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Three is NOT company...

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Question - (29 January 2010) 10 Answers - (Newest, 29 January 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I'm in a horrendous situation and I need help. I'm living in the same apartment as three of my exes, two of which live on the same floor. I'm not on speaking terms with one of them and she's doing everything she can to drive me crazy because I dumped her, knocking on my door in the middle of the night, etc. I still have feelings for the other two and hear them through the walls with their new bfs. It's making me really depressed. How am I gonna cope!!!???

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

Get yourself out of there!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

Its definitely time to make a move. Just a little free advice, next time dont sleep with all of the women in your complex. Either that or you could try to sell the rights to television. mal

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A male reader, redsox29 United States +, writes (29 January 2010):

CaringGuy is right, MOVE. You gotta get out of there, it's not good for you and not good for the crazy ex who's knocking on your door. Also, here's a tip I learned the hard way, do NOT date/hook up with anyone who lives in your building. They know where you live and know when you're home. That just invites the pop-in. Ick.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

You probably neeed to move. I am not sure how you ended up with 3 Exs in your apartment building unless you met them there but if that is the case use this as a caution - you should avoid dating people where you live and where you work for these very reasons.

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A female reader, shortone1 United States +, writes (29 January 2010):

shortone1 agony auntif i where in your situation i would move too.. thats the best advice there is..

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

Move. Or bring over a girl of your own. Preferrebly a new gf but if not just a friend who is a girl thy will pretend she's your gf.

That won't help you move on but at least it'll give you some satisfaction they'll be thinking the same thing.

But for you to move on you need to go out. Meet new people, etc...

Just think of it that those guys are getting your leftovers.

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A female reader, visione United States +, writes (29 January 2010):

visione agony auntWow how did you end up in such a predicament? :(

Did you already sign the lease and moved everything in and such? Any way you can go about finding someone to take your place so you can move elsewhere?

If moving is not an option whatsoever - be ready to spend lots of time out of your apartment...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

You definitely need to move...now. If you don't you will never move on.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2010):

You need to move! Please! Reading about you living with three ex's is enough to make me ill too! You won't be able to cope unless you move, so the best thing to do is move.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

I think you should look for a new place asap and leave your past behind you because where you are at the moment is not doing you any good at all.Too many memories

Good luck

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