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*issrican90
writes:Ok, so here it is I have been in the same relationship with the same guy for over a year now and i get super wet im talkin like really wet drippin wet were if i stand up its drippin down my leg and he thinks its all sexya nd stuff and well it really bothers me cause i think im weird or somethin and i ahve to change the sheet and put a towel on the mattress after anyhthing sexual that involves my "no no" areas and well he's well not really gifted in his downstairs place and i cant really feel anything im tight to but i don't if i should tell him and well im ready to have some pleasurable sex for once!!!!!! please help me i dont know what to do!
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reader, missrican90 +, writes (1 February 2010):
missrican90 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you so much and yes i try enjoying myself but i just cant really because i keep trying to convince myself that i love the guy and i really don't but everytime i try breaking up or leave he crys and begs and it breaks my heart to see that and i go back i dunno what to do anymore.... but hey thinks for the other advice im sure that'll help me in the future!
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reader, pril +, writes (30 January 2010):
Men like when u tell them what to do in the bed room. Try telling him guideing him. He will love it and it will turn him on more.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (30 January 2010):
 I can't help but womder if using the term 'no no area' reflects some psychological (cultural of family influenced) conditioning against sex being a good thing that may be hampering your ability to properly enjoy yourself? Maybe not coz you at least seem to want to.
Anyway, ... Try experimenting with different positions coz diff angles can make a big diff to the pleasure factor. Also consider stopping for a moment and using a cloth to absorb some of the moisture and put a bit of friction back in to things.
Hope that helps :-)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (30 January 2010):
Firstly, there's nothing wrong with you.
Secondly, he, like all men, will need guiding to what you want. Which means you need to know what you want. Which means you need to experiment with yourself. Unless you know what you want and what you need for yourself, he won't be able to really pleasure you. Porn will let men believe that they just have to stand there thrusting. There is clearly more than that. So my advice is find out what you like, then guide him to do it.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (30 January 2010):
 Trust me, just guide him. He won't know he's doing something wrong unless you tell him. Instead of saying "hey this is awful, you're doing it wrong" try saying I just love when you do "blank." and guide his hands with yours. That won't seem like criticism and trust me, he'll love the opportunity and help to please you.
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