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Archived questions from: 25 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How to get him back?

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25 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a while, things got bumpy in the last little bit of it. So rough, that I lost trust in him due to something that I found on his computer. This lack of trust between him and I led us to fighting 2-3 times every time we ...

He disappeared on me with no warning or explanation...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Until 2 months ago I was dating a man for 1 1/2 years. Suddenly he disappeared on me without warning. He no longer called, wouldn't answer my calls etc, and I haven't spoken to him since then. I thought we were very close - we talked marriage - ...

He feels betrayed I dated others while we were on a break.

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25 November 2008 (F) - Hello, my long term boyfriend who sometimes has given me lots and lots of stress has finally confessed to me that he finds it hard to deal witht he fact that I was dating others before I dated him, and he is afraid I will one day leave him. He says ...

Does she really love me or is it an act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Well here's the thing my dad got with this new woman and she had kids me and one of the kids got along well..Really well. They kept having arguments and it ended up with my dad walking out on her so me and my dad's girlfriends Daughter (miss X...

Does this mean I'm with the wrong guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hello. This is a messy one! I'm going through a divorce right now. I've actually started living with a guy from work. Meanwhile, a different guy from work (who did not know about the first guy) started coming on to me. I rejected him *of course*. He ...

Is it okay to like someone who's older than you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - is it right for you to like someone thats older then u? i am 13 and i have been going out with an 16 year old guy. i dont see anything wrong with it we love each other is it right?...

I just wondered why this still upsets me after 9 months???

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25 November 2008 (F) - I was with my ex boyfriend for a year. We were very very much in love. None of us had ever been this in love before. There was a lot of physical attraction there. He was very romantic and did lots for me and vice versa. I thought we were going to ...

Told a few white lies in the beginning, feel guilty......

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Everything is going well, and we are in love. Just have a quick question. I told some very minor white lies in the very beginning of it. Nothing harmful, just small things to "pump" myself up I guess to make her like me. Just kind of slightly ...

Am I not seeing what everyone else does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Here I go again - I have been seeing this guy for 3 years - he has two girls I have one at home too. We get along fine when it is the two of us - days fly by - we giggle wrestle and just have a good time and do projects and such I help h...

How do I fix a relationship I screwed up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5807 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - I have been with my gf for about 3 years and I believe I have screwed up in that I grew complacent and began treating the relationship like a friendship and not a boyfriend/girlfriend thing. This is my first relationship of any kind and I really a...

For the past few weeks my fiance's refused to have sex with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - For the past few weeks my fiance's refused to have sex with me. No matter what I tried he wouldn't have sex with me. Even dressing up in sexy lingerie didn't work - he still wouldn't have sex. I asked him if he was stressed, but he said nothing ...

What can I do to become boyfriend material and not just friend material?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - I need help big time with this! Every time I start dating a woman, I get along very well and sometimes go for further dates. I had two short relationships, but no physical contact apart from kissing. I am very careful not to get physical too soo...

My boyfriend can go months without wanting to be touched

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend is 34 yrs old but doesnt really like romance,he can go months without touching me or been touched.wat culd b d cause?...

He says he 'has to think about things" before deciding if I am his girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - So, I've been kind of seeing this guy for about a month now. We hang out a lot, call each other and text. We haven't told anyone about our "seeing eachother" status, except a couple of my friends know. We haven't had "the talk" yet, where we confirm ...

He's giving mixed signals and I'm confused now, does he want me...??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - i just wanna ask for some peoples ad vise here, as im completley confuesed :$ i know this guy for along time but we only started talking this year through mutual friends, and i always though there was somethin about him, i didnt even think he cared...

Sick of past pictures with my boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with "Damian" for 2 years...we are like any other couple who has it's ups and downs....we are engaged to get married next year in the fall. We live in South Florida in the same city he lived for the past 10 years. I ...

He blew me out but gets all upset when I see other guys! What is going on with him??

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25 November 2008 (F) - I have a situation at work with this guy I have fancied for about a year and a half, we were suppose to meet up but he blew me out (he sent me a text saying we wanted different things), anyway just recently we have been gettng on really well, and he ...

Does it matter or not if a girl isn't a virgin?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Dear Cupid, i would like to know whether does matter if a girl is virgin or not...I had few relationship before and i did have sex with those people.My current girlfriend is not a virgin.She had one relationship with this person that she thought her ...

What is the best way to get close to this guy?? I really love him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi guys, Well i'm in that common situation, where i have very strong feelings for a guy friend (who i have only known since September). I told him a few weekes back, but he rejected me (apparently because he wants to get back together with hi...

How do I get older women to take me seriously?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Why are older women so reluctant do date young guys? I've been trying to get an older women for two months now I've gotten NOWHERE. I've never had problems getting girlfriends my own age, but whenever I hit on a woman in her 30's or 40's she doesn't ...

My girlfriend always keeps texting other guys when with me. But when she's out with her friends she tells me she can't text me! Why am I so low priority to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5726 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Hey, Recently my girlfriend and I went on a break, we've gotten back together and things are going great, however there's one thing that has really started getting annoying for me, she's constantly texting. Now she's pretty attractive, so over the...

How can I tell if she's truly in love? And how can I certain her about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - what are the sign i can derived or notice if my girlfriend is truely in love with me.and also,what are those things i can do to sertify her....

Why don't I want sex with my boyfriend any more??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4603 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 3 months now. He is the only guy I have had regular sex with. Every time he kisses me I get claustrophobic and when he tries it on with me I get annoyed and it does nothing for me at all. I am now only ...

My insecurities are looming again... help!

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25 November 2008 (F) - Hi there guys. I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 months now. I got with him just a week after spliting up with my ex boyfriend (he dumped me because of my insecurity and jealousy). I didn't really have time to get over my ex, but I liked th...

I'm ashamed that I went through his private conversations.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I have been in this relationship for about a year and a half. He is married but since the start he repeated that he is in hell and is trying to get out. He convinced me to start this relationship by saying that things will be ok soon and that we ...

Are there consequences to having sex 3 times a day?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Before me and my fiance got engaged he was never asking for sex, only when it was the right time, now we're going insane... sex three times a day? Are there consequences to doing it this much? Is there a reason we're in this phase? O_O even though ...

What can I do for my boyfriend who was molested as a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I have been together with my boyfriend going on 3 years now. We're both in college and have been together since high school. He admitted to me about a year ago that he was molested by his babysitter's son while in elementary school. This ...

My boyfriend's brother and I have become really close - what would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - ok i have a 23 year old bf and i'm 18, my bf has a 19yr old brother. The brother and I have become quite close ever since we were introduced, we spend a lot of time just talking But now i really feel something between us, like a spark or somethin...

Do you think what we have done is wrong?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been in love once when I was 2nd year college and we broke up after to years for the reasons we don't understand and it's hard for us because we are to far from each other and maybe we are not really meant to be... then after that I never ...

Should I leave him because he doesn't love me after 6 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I'd be really grateful for any advice you could give me as I'm not sure if I am overreacting. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 6 months. He is 39, I am 34. I told him I was falling in love with him recently and he replied that he was not ...

All three friends like me - should I go ahead or withdraw as to protect their friendship?

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25 November 2008 (F) - I have three friends who are all interested in me,at first i thought it was two of them interested in me but after having a chat with one of them,he opened up and told me they were three him inclusive but he had to withdraw bacause of wanting to ...

My work mate think I'm out of his league and can't get into a relationship at the moment - what's going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Something has started between myself and a work mate. Am now really confused. We haven't slept together, his said he thinks I'm out fo his league and has never been out with a girl like me. Says he's met me and all his barriers have been knocked ...

I want to make a move but I'm scared of rejection!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I have got this male friend for +- 8 months now and we’ve known each other for years but we only started to be close recently. We keep in touch regularly and I really enjoy his friendship. Now I am starting to have feelings for him, and suddenly he ...

Should I wait for him or should I stop hoping

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - There is this guy that I like and I'm afraid to tell him I like him. We had this date like night where we went to dinner and a movies. Honestly, it was suppose to be two friends hanging out, so thats why I don't know what to call it. It was normal ...

I'm not sure about being intimate with my long distance guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi, just need a bit of advice please if anyone can help. I met a guy on a chat site just over a year ago and have met each other twice since then. We live approximately 150 miles apart and both work shifts so meeting is quite a challenge. we talk ...

Back in the dating scene and confused: should I have called HIM?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Can anyone throw some light on my current situation please? I am new to the dating scene after ending a very long term relationship so I'm not good at this. I met a guy last Sunday that I thought was quite attractive. He is a close friend of ...

I don't want to be a dad!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - I don't want to become a dad at 15 years old but I what to have sex with my girlfriend, we both want to but we don't want kids yet, what do I do....

IS she no longer interested???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Well I've dated this girl the last week or so, she started being quite forward texting me every day asking how's my day going and stuff, this was before we actually dated, which I found a bit forward but thought nothing of it. This girl also suffers ...

Is this lust more than love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my bf foor 8-9 months now and we had sex in the 7th month of our relationship, I'm 19 and he's 23. Yes it was great and he said it was worth the wait. Now the thing is, ever since we slept together he seems to be full of lust rat...

Does he really mean that he loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend told me last night that i had the key to his heart and dat he really d0es love me and dat im da best gf he ever had i did really appreciate it and i love him alot but me and him had a deal about him not getting high and just found ...

Going from relationship to friends and how to get it back...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - How do I tell my best friend I am in love with him after I limited our relationship to friendship over a year ago when my ex passed away?he is the one who got me through it and I realize finally he is the one but he has a personal crisis going on ...

I hacked into his email account... how do I tell him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - ok so my boyfriend went to another state for thanksgiving with his family and he started acting weird he wouldnt call me and when I called, one night his brother answered and sang and hung up.... then I called back, he answered and I heard a girl in ...

Have I been dumped?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - i want to know what i should do about my boyfriend that hasn't called or texted me in 2 days. he has never done anything like this before. i dont understand what is wrong with him plz write back ...

Her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly. How can I reassure her I will be gentle ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - my gf has been giving me blowjobs in replace for sex since shes not ready but is prefectly fine with that but i know shes afraid because her first time with her ex he was really rough and hurt her very badly she soon broke up with him and fell for ...

What's the right Christmas gift?

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25 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating a guy for 2 months now, everything is going well. The problem is i don't know what to get him for Christmas. He has everything he needs, and i want to get him something special. Any Ideas??...

I want to break up with my girlfriend. she doesn't cook, doesn't clean, is messy...I want her out !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - i want to break up with my girlfriend. she lives with me and has no where really to go if i break up with her. she is a sweet girl. we lived together for about three months and things just aren't goin the way i thought they would. she doesn't cook, ...

Is there something I can do to strengthen the relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I love my guyfriend who's 18 years older than me. He is very nice to me and very mature which surprises me that he's not already in a relationship. He seems to like me a lot. Last time he hugged me it felt a little romantic. I've known him for a ...

She dumped me via text, can I get her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5808 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend dumped me today after 6months by text message. what can i do to get her back?...

I switch between liking boys and girls... is this normal for being bisexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Hello, although throughout my life I have definitely been sexually attracted to woman, my feelings towards men are starting to come out now. If i was completely gay this would be more of a problem for me but since I'm bisexual I feel like I can ...

Confused... does he love me? or her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - hey guys, quite new to this but really need help on this one! I have asked everyone I know for their opinion and now I am asking you! please help!! When I was at college 2 years ago I had a best friend there who just also happened to be my "friend ...

He lost his sex-drive. How do get it back ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I am so confused... and need some help. I have been with the same man for 4 years. (He is 21 I am 20) We were sexually active soon after we got serious, we would fool around a lot, but not much sexual intercourse would happen because I wasn't on ...

His sister hates me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - hi my name is kimberly and im 17 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 10 months and his 23 yr old sister hates me! shes really jealous of the girls her brother dates and she always tells me mean things and i answer nice back to her and ...

She's mean to me, but people still tell me she likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - i liked this girl, she is flirty with me sometimes and treats me very mean most of time. she is usually very nice to other people (even those who tease her). her friends tease her about me saying she likes me(?) She is mean to me, but she nags me ...

Girlfriend having thoughts of her past relationship that was bad.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - I have been dating the same woman for about 3 months now and everything at the time appeared to be going great until today she said we needed to talk. Granted we have been talking for about 3 months and started talking a little over 2 months after ...

He always gets me the best gifts so what can I get HIM for Christmas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Ok so here's the deal, I'm 18 and me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 years. He is 18 also and he is not into sports, has no hobbies, does not wear jewellery, and thinks I have bad taste in guys clothes. So what on earth do I get ...

Should I allow him to date a girl whose mother may or may not approve?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My 16 year old son (junior in high school) is dating a very nice 16 year old girl. The problem is her mother does not know. Quick history: during their freshman year, Kevin and Lindy, dated briefly. The mother was aware of the relationship and very ...

My boyfriend's libido has decreased...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. We are very much in love with one another. When we were first getting to know each other and the topic of porn came up, I let him know that I was not fond of it as I believe it is degrading to ...

Female advice wanted please

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - So, I recently got back together with an ex-girlfriend. This has only been going for about a month though. We have been dating on and off for the past year and a half. In that time, she got back with her another ex-boyfriend for a very short period ...

Are there a lot of open marriages out there?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Are there a lot of open marrages out there? I should be more clear married couples that don't want to divorce but stay together as friends, parents, and partners ... but not romance or sexual partner. I'm in a relationship like that, I'm divorced ...

Why does he keep coming back into my life?

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25 November 2008 (F) - Ok so I was in an off/on relationship for about 7 yrs. and finally I cut all ties with him last year. I stopped answering his text and calls. I had to because it was becoming a habit..he knew how much I cared for him and we would stop talking for ...

Is he really imposing his views on me and making me change my view on certain things...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - hey people I'm just wondering why my boyfriend is soo demanding... i know it sounds weird but my boyfriend kinda changed me in many ways that I didn't even relise how much I was changing... I gave up a lot for him as in i was planning to save...