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Archived questions from: 4 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We've been going out for 8.5 months but he still hasn't said these 3 little words to me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 8 months in about 2 weeks. I care for him incredibly but we still haven't said those 3 words yet. I'm not one for rushing things and I enjoy taking things slow, but it does worry me and makes me wonder if he do...

I'm the other guy in the relationship but I want more than that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - I'm the other guy in the relationship but I want more than that. It tears me apart knowing that she is with someone else, and she has a daughter with him but she is not happy. What do I do?...

Do I have a real mental problem?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, this is going to be long, so bear with me. Its not a relationship question, more of a mental state question. I have never given much thought to this, but recently due to the change in my lifestyle the problem has become apparent....

A rock and a hard place, need some advice PLEASE!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I recently wrote about being miserable in my relationship and wanting to be with another woman... well my girlfriend just had a death in the family and her brother just got 130yrs in prison so.... I feel like she really needs me in her life right ...

I lost my boyfriend to another guy!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Hi guys! I'm really really confusedd at the moment, my boyfriend and I were together for 18 months, he was my second boyfriend, he was quite experienced with girls, I lost my virginity to him although he wasn't a virgin, we were in love and I though...

Would this be termed as cheating???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Question:- A man (who is in a relationship) secretly stays in touch with another woman who he knows loves him and is forever showering him with gifts (but doesn't ask her for anything more - ie sex). So would you say this man is cheating on his ...

Help Me! Need Advice on Boyfriends!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5817 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - help me!!! I have been going out with my boyfriend for a month and I really like him but a part of me doesn't like him. I don't know what to do, we don't have much in common but we have a great laugh when we are together, but I think we are more ...

I feel the distance is getting worse between us.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5851 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Hi, All this has happened since I started seeing my girlfriend, and have been seeing her for 10 months now. Basically suspicion started when she'd text her ex girlfriend say kath about kath's son whom she calls her own as well. At first i could cope ...

He blew me off the first time... should I give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - This is a bit long, but here goes, A guy at my work arranged to go out with me but he blew me out at the last minute, I have never asked why, I just pretended that it never happened because I thought it was easy, my mother thinks I should have had ...

Do you think she will be faithful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - I'm talking to my ex again. We aren't going out because we both just got out of relationships but we are bascially together.. we had a great night one day and the next day I asked her a few things and she tells me to stop questioning her, because ...

I think I only love my boyfriend as a friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I'm so confused! I've been going out with my boyfriend for going on 4 months now and we've said we love each other but thing is i think i only love him as a friend! we were good friends before we got together but i don't want to hurt him. i don't ...

I really don't want anyone else I just want him and I want to go back to the way it was!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Right, I met this guy in May. We kinda dated till the end of June then we drifted apart. While we were dating he asked me out 3 times and I said no. The reason I gave to him was that we should wait til we know each other a little better, but the ...

How do I know he loves me? I feel trapped!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - How do I know if my boyfriend that I have been living with for 3 years is still in love with me. he spends a lot of money on his ex and takes care of the house she lives in and is still filing taxes with her but has spent every night with me and is ...

Did he mean to kiss her or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Well, today my mate D told me that my boyfriend went to kiss her, but she backed away because she had a boyfriend too. ( me and my boyfriend's realationship is secret till we no wether it will work ). When she told me i was just shocked, i didn't ...

Do I dare telling him again that I really like him? Last time he didn't speak to me for a year!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Okay. 1st of all i'm 14 and their is this guy who i've liked for a few years now and he is 15. Last year he found out i liked him and he stopped talking to me and things were really difficult for a while. In September my year and his went to see ...

She is lying to her parents about my age! Should I tell them and if so, when would be a good time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - ok i like this girl and she really likes me, but she is lying about my age to her parents. what can i do? i am 18 and she is 15. do i have to know her parents first and tell them later? ...

Would he love me even if we wanted different things, or is he only looking for any homely girl to settle down with?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - hey guys just wondering something and was wanted some help coming to a conclusion... ive been with my guy for about a year now and we always talk about what we want in the future and where we want to be in 5years time... we both want similar things ...

What can I do to change her mind about him for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - the girl i like has a bf. and i dont think he is right for her. we have almost everything in commen, but she still wont break up with him. is there anything i can do to change her mind about him for me?...

I'm sure he will soon meet someone better than me, should I leave already now before everything goes wrong?

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4 November 2008 (F) - i am a pre-school teacher. my boyf has just started a job with a top company. im sure he will meet someone more attractive, much more intelligent and basically better than me. what should i do? i'm not sure i want to stick around and wait for things ...

Should I send him an e-mail letting him understand I'm interested, or do you have other suggestions on how to approach him further?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I like this guy at work and it seems he likes me as well b/c he uses alot of non-verbal techniques for flirting with me, e.g. he winks at me every time he sees me alot and touches my arm also (I wink back at him and touch his arm as well). Lately ...

Since we moved in together he is never "in the mood" anymore, why??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Hopefully somebody has an original answer!! I've been with my boyfriend for about 19 months now. We moved in together 2 months ago, and since that time our sex life has decreased pretty drastically. I find myself wanting sex fairly regularly...

I'm afraid he will cheat on me like he did on his ex gf with me, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - hey guys i need some help... rite this weekend i organised a romantic weekend away for me and my boyfriend ... i decorated the room with candles and petals and i know he really apprieciated the gesture... when we did get back to the hotel for this ...

Any other problems in our relationship we've had, we've always been able to talk about. But our sex life is a taboo subject. Any advice ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my fiance for over 2 years now. early in the relationship we had a great sex life, we were averaging twice a day. over the last six months there has hardly been anything. We have had sex once in the last three months. That's not ...

Is it possible a guy could change his mind about whether he likes you or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Is it true that if a boy doesn't like you, he will never like you no matter how hard you try? ...

He says he cares, but am I just more into him than he is me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5825 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for 6 months, it's long distance, as we live about 90 miles from each other, or a 2 hour drive away. We see each other near enough every weekend now, and he admitted to me at the end of September that he likes me loads m...

I am 18, she is 15. Can I date her in Nevada?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - hi everyone, im am 18 years old guy and i like is 15 year old girl. is it right to have a girl this age? is it legal to be with her in nevada?...

I don't feel anything when my boyfriend kisses me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - so my boyfriend (arron) and i have been getting closer and closer lately and i thaught everything was great till last night when i relized that when we kiss i dont feel anything and that its really hard for him to turn me on. we have gone as far a...

Can my gay friend reallly be straight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - So my absolute best friend is gay...is it possible that a gay guy can turn straight? I mean he has told me he is in love with me and that he would be able to have sex with me if he had to. I can get him excited, if you get what I mean. Most people ...

I kept letting him down, now he doesn't want to know

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - hey I wonder if you could help please. I was in a relationship for 2 yrs before we split up in february. A few months after that i met another man. then after 2 weeks of seein him my ex came and asked for me bk. I was so inlove with my ex at th...

Is this legal in the state of Florida?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - Alright, I know a guy who is 18. He is dating a 14 year old girl. The mom knows his age and knows where they are at all times, they are only allowed to see each other in a public setting and have never been alone! They are both Christian and ha...

I just feel so used, hurt and basically broken.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I am having a very hard time, two days ago something happened to me, which I just never imagined would happen. I had been with my boyfriend for only about six months. We got pretty serious straight away- not sexually but emotionally. He seemed to ...

Why won't my ex leave me alone and move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5056 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I dated my ex for about a little over 3 months. It's been well over a year since we dated. A lot of things went wrong, as he was manipulative, emotionally damaging, and incredibly selfish. Drama went on after I broke up with him. He continued to ...

Any tips on sexy underware ... I want to suprise my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - hey. im a size 16-18 with really big boobs. i want to surprise my boyfriend with sexy lingrey (sorry bout the spelling) x but i know not many things will be flattering on me. any suggestions??? thanks x x x x...

Are we really not right for each other or do I have too high expectations?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - Ok, here is my dilemma. I have just signed a year’s lease for apartment to rent with my boyfriend. We have been together 4 years, however had one years break, getting back together 4 months ago. We had a years break for a range of reasons, but ...

I'm not afraid of marriage, I swear! How to make her realise I just want to take things one step at a time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for about 2 years now (I'm 31 and shes 24). I love her but we definatley have our ups and downs. We have openly talked about getting married and I assure her I want that in our future. The thing is she will often ask ...

The girls love me... what should I do? I need a pimp! (Joke!)

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5866 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - Well I have a bit of a problem, I have a girlfriend but she has 2 close friends and one of them likes me and I kinda like her. Now I love my girlfriend but she is about to find out that I am kinda flirty with her friend and I know I have to make a ...

She likes me more than she likes her boyfriend but won't leave him, how to win her over?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - i really like this girl, and she really likes me. but she is going out with this guy and he treats her like crap. and then she gets p.o. and the next day she forgets about it. He also ditches her for weed. any advice? anything i can do? i want to ...

How come she really likes me, but is dating someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - I really like this girl and she is dating someone else, and she really likes me too. So how come she says she really likes me when she only likes him?...

He told me he didn't like me anymore but I think it was him being shy. What now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5847 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - okay, so there's this boy and he told my his best friend who's also my guy best friend that he liked me and at first i didnt like him at all and then i we started talking on the computer and hanging out. we hooked up whenever we saw eachother or ...

I only date males because I'm afraid of what people might say!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I am bisexual, but no one knows it yet. I hear people all the time saying that being bisexual is nasty, and I am afraid to say it. I like females and males but only date males because I'm afraid of what people might say, even tho I really want to d...

He wants to settle down soon, where as I just want to go crazy for a bit.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my guy for almost a year. I love him very much but we argue so often, mainly due to my lifestyle. I am a student and really want to spend my time with my mates doing work or at my job. He has a full time job with sporadic hour...

Should I ask this girl out, just focus on study, or do both?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - Hey Fellows ! I hope everyone is doing great. I've come here to seek help, and which I greatly appreciate. So my story begins. I'm a 17 year old student who is doing final year of school, this year, at my new school, I've seen a sweet girl. Well, sh...

How can I learn to trust him? Can you help, please?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - There's this guy i met at a concert in july. But when we first met it was kinda like love at first sight. It was like i known him all my life. Well we began talking more and more, and one day my parents read all my text messages of me and him joking ...

I want to have sex with him because I know he's leaving in 8 months.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I am 14 years old dating a foreign exchange student who will be leaving in 8 months. We've been only dating exactly a month and I want to have sex with him because I know hes leaving and I need to fast forward... I know it's too soon and I'm too ...

How should I give her my gift?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - Hey, I have this romantic kind of way of asking a girl to be with me. I plan to draw a picture of her and writing on it "Be mine?". But I don't know how to give it to her? Any suggestions would be appreciated....

Are we incompatible or am I just running away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5868 days ago

4 November 2008 (M) - A few days ago me and a girl made things official, she's my first girlfriend even though i'm mid twenties, so i'm very nervous about things but we have been getting on so well and chatting everyday for the last three months. She has been through ...