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Dating: Help and advice

Stuck between the devil and the deep blue sea!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - Stuck between the devil and the deep blue sea. I have been with my partner for almost 2 years. My partner has a young son from a previous relationship who is 2 and has problems with his health one of which is we are waiting for a diagnosis becaus...

How can I look available but not desperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I was unsure how to proceed after talking to this cute guy who works in a cafe I recently went to. We talked a little bit about music and we found out we attended the same high school, but he graduated a year after I did. We had a nice convo ...

How can I can stay close to her, without seeming like I'm trying to steal her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - Well, I've never really ever had a real girl friend. I've just never been able to make that final step in asking a girl out. The only one I've ever had asked me out, but it didn't last very long. Over the past few years, I've gotten close to many ...

Is my boyfriend worth it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Is my boyfriend worth it ? He acts SO immature sometimes, and its annoying, He's sometimes nasty to me like, spreads around nasty things about me like, that i slept with my ex-boyfriend and got pergnant. And my whole class was going on about it...

Why did she do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - Hi. This happened some time ago, but I still try to figure out why, I hope you can help me. I was in love with a girl that admitted to love me too, but few days after, she lost her virginity to another guy and started a relationship wit...

I want my girlfriend back but she'll be hurt by what I've done on our break.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Basically, I had a girlfriend for a year and a half.. We were truly in love, i've cheated twice on her before with another girl though. Then things weren't working out and I broke up with her, hooked up with the girl i've been cheating on her ...

Why is he lying about going out with me if we're just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Hey there, I have a slight problem: A friend of a friend has asked me to go out with him tomorrow night. I presume this means as friends (he already had a long distance gf), and we will only ever be friends. But, the guy in question hasn't told our...

He thought my Halloween costume was too sexy to wear without him with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Need help my boyfriend travels out of town about every other month for a month at a time. When he leaves town I am very open and honest with him when I go out, he ask many details even down to how I did my hair. He is upset with me currently ...

I like a guy, but two of my friends have already "claimed" him!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Well i didnt like anybody alot alot. i went to a party from a bat mitzvah so i was all dolled up. so i was dancing and partying and i realized that one guy that i knew in 1st grade, but then he moved away, was there. he was putting his arms around ...

Confused as to where I stand.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm 21 this year and he's 22. We got to know each other through a particular class which required project work and we happened to be in the same group. Eventually, a month later or so, I started noticing him and liking him, which I have...

Is it too early to move in??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - I'm not sure what to do.I'm 18 and I've been with my boyfriend,whose turning 19, a year and a half [on and off] and he wants me to move in with him. The only thing is that he lives with his mom still. I'm not sure if I should move in with him.Any ...

OH GOD! been worrying about things turning physical with my new girlfriend and tonight they did!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - OH GOD! been worrying about things turning physical with my new girlfriend and tonight they did... but I couldn't get 'aroused'. I got aroused a little then went down and she assumed that I had finished but I just couldn't keep it up! help! ...

Am I being too pushy in wanting him to talk to me almost every day?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - I need some advice - I met this guy about a month or so ago, at first I thought he just wanted to be friends, so we got to know each other mostly through online chat (its easy since we both have office jobs). Then about two weeks ago we started d...

Don't know where I stand with her... is she testing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5858 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - Hi Everyone, I have been dating this girl (# 1) (28 years old) for 8 months. Months ago she basically said only friend status. Days later from that she went on vacation and I met another women. I dated her (lets call her # 2) for a couple months ...

Ejaculation problem!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - Hi all, A recent girlfriend commented one that day that I ejaculate quite a lot and that it probably isn't a good thing - she certainly didn't seem to like it! After reading a few posts on this site, I decided, in the name of science (!) to d...

Do I go for the new guy or give my relationship a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year. Recently things haven't been the same and I told him I wanted to break up with him. He said we could work through our problems and doesn't want to let me go so I agreed. The thing is I ...

Polyurethane condoms?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - This is mainly one for the guys, although ladies feel free to chime in too. I have a terrible problem using condoms. I thought I was weird, but after some research, I have discovered that I'm certainly not alone, about 25% of men have the sam...

My man of 8 years will not even try to have sex with me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid: What have I done? My man of 8 years will not even try to have sex with me. He won't even flirt, act interested or touch me. Since our daughter was born he has regularly slept in another room, and he likes it that way. I think it...

Any tips on how to do it or how to deal with my confidence??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a month now and we've done stuff together. The problem is, it's always him doing things to me and not the other way around. It's not his fault, it's mine, I just don't know how to do it. I'm sure he'd love ...

A huge task for anyone. Desperate situation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - My ex-partner and I do not live together. We seperated, not by choice, but by illness I suppose. I have epilepsy and my partner developed hyper-vigilence and post traumatic stress disorder over me having fits. The problem being I hadnt had any ...

Is she testiing me after 8 months of nonsense?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5844 days ago

My partner and I both share a really good male friend... who I think I'm falling in love with!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - I really need some ones advice as I'm going crazy. Basically I have a partner of 3 years who I do love. We both share a really good male friend but me and this guy seem closer, we are like soul mates. We both admitted there's something there be...

I really want to get back together with him as I do believe this was all just a stupid mistake.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5844 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend (17) and I (18) have been going out for just over a year and 10 months now, however we are going through a really rough patch at the moment. Since february of this year 2008, he and i have been planning a holiday to Paris, disneyland, ...

Boyfriend downloads Spyware and constantly accuses of cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has always insisted I'm cheating. We will make love and he rolls over and asks who I'm sleeping with. He has spyware on the computer, and daily interviews me about who I spent time with. He confronts me constantly with items of ...

I am 18 and want to date a 23 year old girl that I work with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - Ive been working in virgin megastores for over a year now, started when I was 17 and am now 18. Ive also worked with a girl for that year as well...at first there was no attraction physically, but as ive gotten to know her ive become mad about her! ...

I need to help my cousin avoid this trap!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - My cousin is currently separated from wife and is at a weak point in life. He knows a "lady" who helps him out financially (they have been friends for awhile and she has told him that she has feelings for him). I have a feeling she is going to ask ...

I want to date other guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend for 3yrs. he was my first and i love him dearly but latley i've been feeling like i dont want to be with him anymore. hes had many other girls that hes dated and i feel like i haven't dated enough guys to see exactly what ...

I'm starting to like his cousin...I'm so confused!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5855 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - I really need some help i've been with my partner for five years and i love him, i really do. Recently i've started talking to his cousin online and i really like him we talk and text alot and i like him. I pretty sure he doesn't like me like him ...

Is she testing me after 8 months of nonsense?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

Does she want me to Love her already? Its only been 2 weeks!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - there is a girl who works behind the bar in my local pub. i liked her but never really spoke to her as I didn't know what to say. 2weeks ago she came after me and told me she liked me and wanted to go out with me. we have gone out a few times and ...

Trying to love the alpha male...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - I have been involved with a successful and driven alpha male for about six months. I am crazy about him but there is something lacking. Being that he is a workaholic, our time together is limited to one lunch during the week and then Saturday ...

Why has he put me permanently offline on his chat ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I haven't chatted in years and we didn't have chat installed. He recently installed his chat and I did too. The thing is I was looking at my profile from his machine as he was logged into chat and then I right clicked on my na...

Having an affair with a married man, but met a nice divorced guy. What shall I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Am having an affair with a married man. im single. its only just started. it wasnt ment to happen. he said he has been with his wife for 4 years and they have a baby. they dont sleep together anymore and she is having an affair said he was planning...

How can we break this cycle?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - My b/f and I view certain things in our relationship differently and I don't know how to get around these differences. For one thing, sex is expendable to him when he's got other things on his mind. After a week or more of going without, I don't ...

Why is it that my b/f is so quick to lose interest in sex just because he's having a busy week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Why is it that my b/f is so quick to lose interest in sex just because he's having a busy week? To me, it's the greatest escape from work!!! A chance to re-connect with the person who is there for you, and loves you. Yet he pushes away and makes ...

How will I explain my deception?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - i started dating this other guy in my school but i used false identity because at the beginning i did not want him to know who i really was due to the fact that i had a crush on his friend and i did not want him to know who i was either because i ...

Is this is the end? Does she will back to me? And if she returns to me should I forgive her? If she doesn’t return to me what should I do to keep saying my baby and take care of him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend with my baby left me, she said that she wants to live for her own children from now on, therefore she needs to leave me alone, and because we live in conserved society, its forbidden to have relation with girls outside of marriage, but ...

Tired of crying & lying to the world & myself...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Hi, Six years ago I dated a this guy, and the relationship ended very badly. He went into our relationship knowing that his ex was expecting his child, after a short 3 month relationship he finally confessed as she had a miscarriage. The thing...

Why does he do romantic things for me if he doesn't want a relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - This guy I just started seeing usually contacts me every couple of days and we have seen each other a couple of times. He basically told me that he doesn't want to be in a relationship, but if that is true, then why does he do romantic things for me ...

How often should a guy you just started dating call or text you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - How often should a guy you just started seeing text you/contact you? Once a week? twice a week? every couple of days? Just curious because this guy I have been seeing usually contacts me every 2-4 days and I was just wondering what you all think a ...

My boyfriend is a super genius and I can't measure up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - I met my boyfriend at mathmatics lecture. I doing it to get some extra credit in class, but he was going for fun! That's how nerdy my boyfriend is! But he's not one of those dorky nerds you see in cartoons, he's one of those sexy geeks if you know ...

Should I just forget about him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5866 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - I have an issue that is really bothering me....There is this guy, him and me were super tight nearly going out...then i met the guy that i have been with for nearly a year so we went through a stage were he hated me and we fought heaps..I know i ...

What is up with me? I'm so great at scaring men off.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5866 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Or so I worry. I'm generally considered very sweet, attractive, and smart. But I constantly worry about scaring men off or sending them running for the hills at every turn. Most recently, I met a great man. He's moving a little quickly, but I a...

Does it sound like he is being for real with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5852 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Hi! I am in an intersting situation at the moment and I was just wondering if anyone had some advice. Ok so this is a kind of complicated situation, so ill make it as clear and concise as possible. so back track 3 years ago-senior year ...

I need some advice on this girl I like, I want to know whether she likes me and if I should make a move and ask her out..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - I need some advice on this girl I like, I want to know whether she likes me and if I should make a move and ask her out. We have known each other for a little while; she used to go out with one of my friends, but they recently broke up under some ...

How can I get over this crippling lack of confidence and start dating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - I am a 36 year old virgin and I am starting to get truly depressed about my situation. I still live with my parents and the only sexual contact I have had was a brief hand-job whilst I was a student at college. My only relief now is masturbation. ...