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Archived questions from: 23 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

Any ideas for a single 18 year old girl?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5763 days ago

23 November 2008 (?) - So I had left a question about my boyfriend (ex) and a friend of his if they both could 'play' with me -left him, now I'm single again... and have no idea what to do. I enjoy the fact that it's so quiet and I can do whatever without him telling me ...

I cant get through to my fiancé......he's upset with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (?) - Hello Cupids..... Days ago I had bought myself a..."toy". I haven't used it yet. Vincent saw it, and now he's upset because he thinks that he can't please me...mm;) he can. I had only bought it because he's going to his parent's house for about a ...

Does he want a relationship or is he just playing me around?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5829 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - ive met a guy who ive gone on about 4 dates with. he seems to like me..but my only problem is i cant really work him out. im always the one that has to initiate text conversations and ask him 0ut on dates..but when i do hes always really sw...

I told my GF that I've had a relationship before, but I lied. Should I tell her the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - hey this is the first time that i am asking a question on this so here goes.. In the beginning of my relationship, my girlfriend asked me how many previous girlfriends i have had and i answered by saying just the one. Now i dont know why i said ...

Does he just call me because he's worried that I won't tutor him anymore?

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23 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone, There is a guy in my class I really like, and he knows my feeling too. One month ago, when I said I liked him, he rejected me saying there were plenty fish in the sea- I should find someone better than him. He also let me know he h...

I can't seem to get my dream Aussie out of my mind! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Ello all, i know this isnt one of you run of the mill questions but im just curious if this has happened to anyone else as its a first for me and has left me confused all day!! well its about a dream really, ill explain... this dream involved a man ...

We fight so much - are we really meant to be, or too opposite?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend fight at least once a week. Its normally the same fight over and over again, about how I don't tell him things. But half the time I don't understand what I'm thinking and can't explain it to him. Since we fight so often are we ...

Should I start dating my ex-wife again even though we're divorced?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5788 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - Should I start dating my ex-wife again even though we're divorced? Divorced ended because of an affair. I will admit I still have feelings for her... But trust and honesty play and issue. I don't want to be played for a fool again or ever again ...

Should I go out with my best boy mate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - I am 16 years old and have a friend called Trey. We are really close and he always comes to mine every saturdaay. We have never kissed or anything and just see each other as mates but when we are together everything just seems perfect. We hold hands ...

He's a virgin????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - I love my bf and everything he does. Yeah the band teach! I got over the thing with him and Starla. He asked me if I ever wanted to have kids with him. I'm 21 and he is 38. I really want to but I am in college and he has band and all his other ...

He doesn't like me any more because I told him I was bi sexual, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - He doesn't like me any Iore because i told him I was bi sexual, what can I do? I was dating a guy for a while, and recently I told him I was bisexual and he said he hates bisexuals, and now he's ignoring me, what can I do?...

Does he love me or her...? I'm lost.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - I was dating a guy for 2 years and 2 months. We were having the usual relationship spatting nothing major. He decides we need a break. We broke up for 2 months. I found out he liked another girl who is married so they can't totally be with one ...

Is he taking things too far with his "interest" in his band?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is a band teacher. I love him with all of my heart but he ALWAYS talks about his students and how much he loves them. There is this one girl, she's a freshman in high school. He always says "She's so awesome!" he has pictures of her and ...

Why are we always arguing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and we argue a lot, we have finished like 3-4 times for like a week or two but we finished today well this morning and like when we finish he always says horrible stuff like he doesn't want to get ...

Something "special" for my birthday........

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend said she wanted to give me something "special" for my birthday which is in a week and when I went to her house she had left her computer on so I checked some websites and while on google I typed in the search bar and some searches said ...

I can't seem to get the rhythm going when I have sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Hey. I'm just getting to the point now with my boyfriend where we're probably gonna have sex. I've done it before but am nowhere near as experienced as he is. The first time I had sex, and another time since, whenever I've gone on top, it's bee...

Why does my boyfriend always comment negatively when he sees I'm wearing makeup?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Why does my boyfriend of 6 years always comment negatively when he sees I'm wearing makeup. He will comment here and there, stare at my face and ask if I'm wearing makeup. He makes me feel embarrassed and unattractive about wearing makeup. He says ...

Do you think I should end it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - Please read all!!!! I need help With this. Well i'm in my last year in school and I'm under a lot of stress with school and in my relationship. I haven't been perfectly happy in a long time in my relationship. I constantly switch between happiness ...

How to switch the excitement

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - Hey my girlfriend seems to have zero libido. She'll make out and rarely will do something involving below the waste. She claims to not be in the mood for that part but would be in the mood to just hangout kiss and all that? Anyway, any tips for ...

Guys - Are some men afraid of kissing passionately?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Guys - Are some men afraid of kissing passionately? I have been on a couple of dates with this guy I adore although I'm not sure if he is just with me for the sake of it! The first time we had a goodnight kiss I tried to kiss him passionately (ie...

Is he only using me, or what is going on here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Hiya, I met a lad a few weeks ago and we txt each other and talk on the phone quite alot. The week after we met we went to the cinema and the weekend after (last weekend) we met up again and had sex. This week when I asked if he wanted to meet up he ...

How can we get the "I love you" out??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - im 21 and ive been with my boyfriend whos 25 for 9 months and im completely and utterly in love with him. We are completely honest with each other and can talk about nearly everything. the only "problem" we have is that we've never said the "i love ...

We had a fine "overly friendly friendship", then all of a sudden he turned around and now says he wants nothing to do with me! What is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - in confused! so there is this guy and we had been good friends for a year, and for that whole year he tried his hardest not to like me. then one night everything happened and we ended up starting in what we call an overly friendly friendship. and ...

My boyfriend has adhd and is paranoid and controlling, what can I do to ease his mind?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5564 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Hey all those in dear cupid land. ive got a bit of a problem. im with a fantastic boyfriend he has got ADHD but he's so sweet and caring, but he is so paroinoid, he always askin me if im cheating on him, or who txts me everytime i get a txt. tha...

How do I get closure with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - I am a girl who has fallen in love with her first cousin. Of course, falling in love with him was totally unintentional. It started out with short text messaging, and as we got to know each other, I found that though we had different personalities, ...

How do I initiate the first kiss?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Hey there :) Im in a complicated situation with this guy I like, I dont know if he likes me, but he flirts loads, then other times he doesnt seem interessted. Also I find him realy boring when talking to him through msn or text compared to real ...

When is too soon to be committed to someone after a divorce..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Ok I've been separated from my husband that I was with for 10 years and have 2 children with for 6 months. It was my choice and I have never felt better since. I've been over it, since the day he walked out the door. I have dated 2 rebound guys ...

Is this guy interested in me - are my friends right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5833 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - OK, going from my questions about the guy i think likes me, heres what happened yesterday. I saw him yestreday morning and he asked what time i was on lunch, i told him and he told me to go meet him and we'd go together and he asked alot of qu...

After I met my bf I started feeling all needy, how can I regain some self-control and act less pathetic?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - seriously help! i have just realised that them rules women invented to play it cool and everything actually should have been stuck to or you just get messed around. right well my boyfriend ignored me for a couple days and i being totally in love ...

After our first date he said he'd text me - should I wait for his call or initiate it myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - hi i went out on a date with this guy it was our first date, but i've been left with a confused feeling i don't know how he feels maybe you could help! during the date he kept asking questions getting to know me better, he even said its abou...

Is she flattered or is she having second thoughts?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - Afternoon everyone! Recently I asked a woman out at work who unbeknownst to me at the time, was already seeing another guy (same place of work). In knocking me back she said in an e-mail that she 'must decline' my invitation. Is this different from ...

I want to tell her that I like her but I can't find the words! How to tell her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - Basically I have fallen completely head over heels in love with this one girl I've known for a number of months, we have been through a lot already. She has hinted quite a few times and it takes me like two hours before something happens or someone ...

Improve Image Or Relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for eight months. We love eachother very much and have just finished school, and no, we haven't had sex, and we don't plan to for a very long time. This is my first relationship but this is her third because ...

He wants me, but without commitment...huh ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Sorry for this-its going to be long. My boyfriend broke up with me, and Im trying to make sense of this. He sent me this (after he broke up, I might add): “ok, this is the way i look at it, i dont want a relationship. period. but i do want somebo...

I have all these qualities and yet don't have a boyfriend... what am I doing wrong?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Confidence? Beauty? Personality? I have all of that, except confidence and I've never had a boyfriend....What am I doing wrong?...

Why do I always get my heart broken?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - dear cupid, i could really use your help. im 18 years old and in college, im attractive and funny. i have goals in life.i have an all in all good personality and am fun to be around. i get asked out alot. i go out every weekend and there are too ...

How do I "terminate" her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - hi everyone, i like this boy but i found him hugging another girl... they're dating. he doesn't know i like him. does anyone, i mean ANYONE know how i can "terminate" the girl so ill have a chance with him?ill take any advice. if anyone does reply ...

I am having major anxiety over this situation with a senior!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Dear readers: I am in alot of stress and anxiety over this senior thats has a huge crush on me, he would get red infront of me he would waite till i would look at him, sometimes i would look at him and smile, other times i would just not look at ...

Why don't girls want to talk to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5849 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - well, Im seventeen, and Ive never had a girlfriend. in fact, ive only had like two or three girls that were just friends. I dont know what it is about me that makes me feel so hopeless around them. all the other guys at my school can talk to any ...

What's a good present I can get him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - so, me and my boyfriend have been dating a while and its a really good relationship. christmas is coming and he won't tell me what he wants, and him and my best friend are trying to out do the other to get me a really nice present.. i want to get ...

I like my boyfriend but I like someone else too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - i have a boyfriend, and he's really sweet and i love him, but, i also think i might like someone else. i don't wanna do anything about it,cause it's pretty much just hugs and stuff like that, but my boyfriend is a little protective. we've been ...

I think about him every day and I can't move on....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - First let me appologise because this may be long but i really need advice because i don't know what to do anymore!i was in a relationship with guy i met in college, we were together for over a year and it was the best time of my life i really cared ...

Should we start anything sexual?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - Hi. I'm 17 and my girlfriend is 16, and I was wondering if we should start anything sexual. I would like to try oral sex, but would she? I'm not sure if she wants to or not, and I feel like if I mention this it will scare her away or make her think ...

I have no clue what to say to her! Any suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - I am recently in my freshman year in high school and have never really had a gf. However in the beginning of the school year i kind of dated this girl i didnt really like and well..... broke up with her after a week. Anyway it has been about a month ...

Am I crazy not to trust him 100%?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Hi My boyfriend kept a female pen pal he had secret from me. Only me finding a letter she had sent him, before we started going out, triggered the questions. Who is she? Why were you writing to each other? He said she is married and that there i...

I said the only reason I danced with her was because I felt sorry for her... how do I fix this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

23 November 2008 (?) - My friends and me went to a fancy school dance. One of my girl best friend (I think she likes me) she looked a disco ball. She ask me to dance (I did and she was awful). Long story short I talking to my friend and I said. Friend: So you...

I really like him, so what should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - So there's this guy that I like and he has told me he likes me too. He just got out of a relationship and we're talking. The problem is that we only email each other and see eachother on the bus, and he says he "confused as hell", yet he never has ...

Lately my GF has been really sexual and I'm not sure what to do next...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5849 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - lately my gf has been very sexual....always feeling my private area and im not sure what i should do should i ask her if she wants to see it? or do something to it? or is it just a tease....? lol im so confused and i wouldnt mind if she wants to do ...

I can't seem to find anyone because I'm just not good around new people.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5826 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - Hi, can anyone give me advice? im nearly 23 and iv never had a girl friend, i wouldn't say im a geek or anything, i socialise with my friends a lot and always go the clubs and pubs. But i cant seem to find anyone. im kind of shy around new people a...