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writes:Ok so I was in an off/on relationship for about 7 yrs. and finally I cut all ties with him last year. I stopped answering his text and calls. I had to because it was becoming a habit..he knew how much I cared for him and we would stop talking for months then we'd start up again..it was becoming a routine. To the point that I already knew that he'd be calling or texting to see how I was doing during the time that we first got together..weird huh? It never failed..every year. But anyways he did it again, but this time it's different I didn't answer back because I was like 'I'm not going thru that again..I'm older and more mature now.' He either comes to stay for good or be gone for good.So, why is it that he keeps coming back into my life? Always around the same time...? The whole thing with him is he was not ready to settle down..now I'm not! Haha.
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reader, Myprince  +, writes (25 November 2008):
Great.... that was a very wise decision. It's about time that you put an end to this circus. He can't just walk in and out of your life as he pleases. You are not made for his convinience. You are worth far much more than that.I give you a hand of applause for gathering courage to say enough is enough. We all do feel like that in our relationships once in a while but we just dont run off. Move on and dont allow him to take you for a ride. Find someone that will love and respect you for who you are.My kind regards
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reader, kimberlylopez12 +, writes (25 November 2008):
same thing used to happen with me my me and my boyfriend would be good for a few months then he would stop talking to me because when we would get close he would get scared and back off and it sucks but theres not much to do like if u let him go for good girl then just forget about the guy and start dating different guys not just one but more than one
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