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Archived questions from: 9 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

My boyfriend is being "off" with me... any ideas why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now and recently, he's been acting a little off. First off, his last relationship, which lasted 5 years, ended because his ex cheated on him with his best friend. So when I first hooked up with him, he ...

Any ideas for something sexy in the bedroom?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

9 November 2008 (?) - I'd love to dress up in something sexy for Vincent.....but I'm not quite sure in what. We been together for 7 months now, and I'm really wanting to give him something special..... Something sexy for the bedroom.... You know what mean? Anyone...

I certainly don't want to make a mistake and I don't want to lose him completely either.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I'm a 35 year old single female. I grew up in an abusive family that I just wanted escape. I ended "escaping" by moving in with a guy 9 years older than me right out of college. He was only about the fifth guy I ever dated and I was convinced no ...

Any interesting ideas that we could do to celebrate our 4th anniversary together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Hi I was just wondering if anyone had any ideas of something special or interesting I can do with my boyfriend tomorrow night! It's our 4 month anniversary and we always seem to do the same things such as going to a pub for a meal, going to th...

Does my girlfriend still like me or should I just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - I started hanging out with my friend from college and his friends over the past several months. I was still new, when I met my girlfriend for the first time. It was like we were the same person, at the time she had a boyfriend for the past 2 years. ...

I keep trying to move on, but I feel sabotaged.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I broke up weeks ago. I keep trying to move on, but I feel sabotaged. I mean when I talk to another man, the man will not call or he acts as if he does not know me. The other night, I dreamt of my ex and it felt so real. The drea...

Second date ideas seriously needed here!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5245 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - hi people at dearcupid, I'm 19 at uni 70 miles away from Manchester (uk) where my actual home is and I've been on a date with a girl who lives in the same area. Last Monday the 3rd November, (I tend to come home every 2/3weeks). I did not know her ...

I don't trust my boyfriend's ex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for a few months. and he has not given me any reason not to trust him. however, his ex is still in the picture. she still calls and texts him. he will tell me that she calls and texts but he always does it in a ...

My boyfriend cheated and had a one night stand!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I need some helps. Me and my boyfriend have recently been back in a relationship together. First time we were together for about a year and a half (first 3 months he cheated on me). We broke up for 5 months and in that time he had sex with a girl ...

It drives me crazy that my girlfriend tells her dad everything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend tells her dad everything. I feel like it is because she just doesn't want to disappoint him. (she really has issues with wanting not to disappoint people) I know she is great with what we have done such as, making out and kissing... ...

I have two problems and I just neeed to be helped out.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months nearly and I love him with all my heart but I still love the attention I get off other males, like when I go downtown other people flirt with me and I get a kick I haven't cheated on him before and I never ...

Why can't I just swallow my pride and say I'm sorry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months. Once in awhile, we'll get into these little arguments. Nothing serious. But, I have a lot of pride, which I know is a bad thing. But then, with him, I've learned to just swallow my pride and ...

I HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING BUT KISS A GIRL BEFORE, NOW IM GOING TO DO ORAL FOR THE FIRST TIME, I NEED ADVICE!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - ive been with my girlfriend over a couple of months now, and we are both ready to do oral sex. i've never done anything but kiss before. and im really nervous about showing my dick. im scared i might be too hairy, too small, and the main reason im ...

Is it possible for texts to "get lost"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Is it possible for texts to get lost because my boyfriend and a male friend of mine claimed to have sent me texts this week yet I haven't got either of them, even though I am receiving texts from other people? My boyfriend and I have been having...

Someone Pleeeeease help me, I'm lost and confused on 2 BIG topics. Thanks =]

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. I just want to start off by thanking everyone for their time on reading my questions. I've been thinking a lot about what's been going on between my boyfriend and I. My boyfriend and and I have been dating for about 7 months n...

He has already told me he does not have feelings towards me romantically, and I told him I feel the same. But the truth is that I love him! It's absolutly killing me !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I'm planning on moving out for the first time next summer with my Best Friend. Him and I have been Best Friends for four years now. We are so close and practically inseperable. We used to fool around, but now our relationship is completly ...

Should teenagers date before 16? What should they limit to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - So what do you think? Should people date before 16? And if they do, what do you think are the limits in a relationship? :) x...

Do you think my ex thinks of me as "Plan B"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - When talking on the phone today my ex was going on about his brother in law saying he thinks that my ex should stay single and enjoy himself, my ex is really in love with one of his old relationships and says that he knows what he wants and wishes ...

Is he a player or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Hi everone! This guy and I were "together" for a couple of months but didnt go out cause he told me he was too busy with school and work. I said that I wasnt going to do it anymore without a proper relationship and he asked me to be his girfriend. ...

What can I get my 16-year-old boyfriend for Christmas?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - hiya its almost christmas!!! and my boyfrind has already brought me a gift and i have no idea what to get him he's 16 and it so difficult on what to decide on what to get him its our 2nd christmas together weve been together for a lil ova a...

My boyfriend's grown daughter tries to spoil our relationship, should I stay with this man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - My friend of 1 and 1/2 years recently allowed his daughter to put pictures of just him and his deceased wife all around an entire room of his house. The daughter (47 years old, lives with father with her husband, neither have jobs) has done ...

Surely his memory's not that bad? He suggested going to the movies but forgot twice!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - What do you make of this? There is a guy I texts and chat too on MSN, althought I have met him but I dont see him much because he goes to bording school in the week. He told one of my friends that he fancied me. I dont realy feel the same way but ...

Whenever I end up liking a guy, he seems to be interested for only a few months! Why is this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I'm a 23 year old female, and I've never been in a relationship. I'm attractive: when I go out to classes, or restaurants, or the grocery store, or bars, guys frequently approach me. I'm intelligent: I am in law school on a full scholarship. I think ...

My girlfriend is acting weird, it seems like I am bothering her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - Dear cupid. I have been with my girlfriend for almost two months...but i think something is not working out for me.. she is korean..and came one year ago from there...of course we have different cultures..but i really try hard to understand h...

I'm super sad because the relationship is confusing...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I'm just super sad. This guy my brother set me up with and I dated for a little while. He told me sometime he gets into depressed moods... But i never imagined he would be so depressed that he didn't want to talk to anyone. Well, he called about 3 ...

Any advice for a first timer on fingering?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend just over a couple of months now, and we've talked about doing oral sex. she wants me to finger her, but I haven't done anything with a girl apart from kiss. Has anyone got any advice on fingering a girl for the first ...

Dating agencies in the UK?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - I really need help, I want to try out dating agencys in the UK, does anyone have any advice please? All help appreciated....

Anal sex question!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I had anal sex for the first time with my boyfriend, we didn't use a condom and I heard you're more likely to catch infections this way, is that true? Also I noticed I was bleeding a little bit after, is this normal? Thanx x...

How old do you have to be to have foreplay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfreind are so close its unreal, she says she'd have sex but I think it's a bit too soon, but I'd be up for anything else (blowjob, finger etc..). Does anyone know what the BRITISH age limit is for foreplay? Please reply. Thanks...

Why do I always orgasm so quickly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I'm 27 years old, and when me and my girlfriend are having sex I sometimes have orgasm too quickly, sometimes it doesn't even take a minute. I don't really mind this that much, and even my GF says it is ok, but it makes me feel that I am not ...

I just don't know how long I'm suppose to wait this out.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - Ok sooo... I have known this girl for over a year now... when we first met it was more on a flirty bases and friendly..then it got into..more hanging out about starting to like each other thing. Well we would hang out once a week at least and this ...

My partner is so unreliable, I can't believe a word he says.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Hey, Me and partner get on great a lot of the time but there is just one thing he does that really frustrates me. He's unreliable, he says he's going to do something and then when asked if he has, he has some reason or another as to why he has...

She is 19 and I am 57. I think she wants to go out with me. Is this wrong ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - Hi Dear Cupid; I'am a sigle man with no attachments. About 2 months ago a young lady at the job would say hi every morning in a very appealing sexy kind Away, well in the begining I didn't put to much mind to it, she continue with her sexy hello and ...

I simply cannot get over that he has a past and I do not.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I need help in order to deal with this. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. We live together and have for a while now. Our relationship has been phenominal from the beginning. We always get along, rarely have dragged out and ...

My boyfriend told her she'll always belong to him! Wot the.....????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 19 months now, we get alone very well and have a lot in common. I used to trust him until I found out he told a girl he used to "talk" to that she will always belong to him, when I talked to him about it, he ...

I'm in love with someone who is no good for me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

9 November 2008 (?) - We all fall in love. It happens . . . and when it happens there is nothing we can do about it. It's a sensation we cannot control. But what if you fall in love with somebody you're not allowed to fall in love with? What if you were secretly in love ...

Best friend room mate or undercover lovers?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - okay my question is - I am dating a woman that lives with her best friend but the kicker is this my girl waits on this waman, go everywhere together and the room mate comes home from work and ask my girl to go get her some beer. I am a little ...

What would REALLY put guys off a girl?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - A quick question, just out of interest :) Guys, what would really put you off a girl? ...

My and my ex bf have feelings again for one another... but he's engaged!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Me and my ex have a very odd past, he dumped me to go out with an old friend but we have still remained very good friends... now the thing is, he has feelings for me again and I think I have fallen for him again, after spending some time together... ...

My ex has had a major serious accident and I need to see him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I came out of a 3 year relationship about 6 months ago. Me and the guy remained friends. Thing is, now he's gone and had a serious accident!!! I mean major! He's in a critical state and I can't go see him:-( His family never acccepted me and...

Am I in denial and this relationship is going nowhere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - Been in a relationship for six years, engaged the last three years we had talked about marriage a few times and lately seems like the subject never comes around, we live in separate houses just 25 minutes away. He had mentioned that because I had se...

My mom walked in and caught us making out...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 1/2 months.. she came over today and we were laying on the couch side by side watching the movie "Disturbia" and we starting kissing and then we made out for 10 mins or so and it was very intimate. This was ...

Are there any ways of making my feelings clearer to myself...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - A couple of months ago my relationship with my girlfriend ended due to her thinkin that it was "too wierd" and that we were best just being friends. I was mostly ok with this but i did still have feelings for her even though i didnt want to. To t...

9 years together and he still hasn't proposed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - We've been together for 9 years now and have an 18 month old son. We are financially secure and have a fairly good relationship and even though we've discussed marriage he hasn't proposed? Should I just give up on the idea or keep dropping subtle ...

My boyfriend has 2 kids but doesn't want one with me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I read the post about hating my boyfriend's kids. I am beginning to feel the same way as all these other posters. My bf of 7 years has 2 kids and one lives with us full time the other comes every other weekend. I have been through lots of drama ...

Any tips on how to have sex so it doesn't hurt so much?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

9 November 2008 (F) - I tried having sex with my boyfriend, and I wasn't a virgin before hand, but I'm too tight and he's too big so it hurt me a lot and we stopped. The first time I had sex it didn't hurt at all and the guy wasn't that small but he wasn't huge like my ...