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Archived questions from: 26 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How can I pleasure him without having sex with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Ok so me and my bf have been going out for about 2 months. I wanna get him excited or pleasure but i dont wanna have sex, so is there any thing i could do?...

Is it time I stopped going for bad boys and settle with a "perfect" guy (and do they exist)?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - This isn't really a question, I just wanted to know what other people think. I'm 30 and came out of a long relationship last January. I suppose I have always been guys who have been a bit "bad" or guys that don't know what they want, commitment ...

Do my dreams mean anything?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - hello =) this is probably going to sound like a really lame problem... but i keep having dreams about this guy. its some one ive never met before, but its the same guy in every dream. the situation changes, but we're still always dating...

When it all ends...God it hurts...But is there always light in the end of the tunnel?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hi! I think all of us, men and wemen, got thru the nightmare of ending a relationship, and surviving the weeks and months after. I´ve been trough this twice, and both times I felt I would die! I was the one to break up, for several reasons....

When She Feels Like It

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Okay, I am a young man and I am engaged to a woman who only wants to have sex when "she" wants to. I mean it's really frustrating and has become a burden and forcing me to consider calling off the wedding. We have had discussions about it and she ...

Urgent help required..... difficult, awkward and unreasonable boyfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hello all - I am a 34 year old women who has had a somewhat difficult relationship with a guy who is having councelling due to his upbringing (unloving parents) and he can be most unreasonable, thinks he is never at fault, stubborn and never lets ...

Do you think I'm wrong in telling her not to come to the club on new years eve?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Hi, I wonder if you guys can help me. I work in a busy nightclub in London's west end as a Bouncer. It's become a busy period now as christmas and new year is coming and I'll be working a lot over this period. I told my girlfriend that I can't spend ...

Long Distance Depression? Confused...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5839 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend and I have a long distance Relationship. That was love at first sigh! Feelings i never had before and that on!, Now, We have 6 months of know, and 3 and a half living together, Now we are away of each other again. He loves me and i...

Is he interested or just friendly?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Here's the story. Met this guy at a live music venue, 5 weeks ago. I was with someone else but we managed a quick excited chat (I liked what I saw, he surely seemed like he liked what he's seen too). Had to go earlier but we exchanged a pat on the ...

Why do I feel heartbroken over a guy who I might have not even liked?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I'm so confused. A few weeks ago this guy told me he really liked me - like really liked me. I told him I didn't know what to say because I had just broken up with his best friend. I enjoyed flirting but I really don't know if I liked him or not. ...

Feeling the same? Do you think we have something here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hi i know this is a weird questions I went on a date with this guy ,in april and i felt we hit it off straight away, He finished with me,cus he still felt sumthing for his ex, Anyway last week we started talking again, and slept together twice...

Men who lie about who they dated...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - So I have just recently got out of a relationship with a guy in the USA. He happens to lie about who he dated. And even now it continues to mess with my head. For instance, I am a part-time model, nothing major, we happened to be browsing through ...

Am I just being too anxious here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Well, I have been dating this girl for a month now, we hang out a lot, and we have a great time together. We are at the point where we will greet each other with a kiss and leave with a kiss, we give each other massages and fool around a little ...

Is this a good idea or is it a big NO NO?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - in reference to my post on http://www.dearcupid.org/question/rushed-into-bed-ont-he-first-date-and.html Well he is still kinda blunting me I don't know if he likes me giving him attention or is trying to avoid conversation with me, so I was thi...

Is kissing considered cheating?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5246 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Is kissing cheating? Just how bad is it to kiss (make out with) someone else when in a VERY serious relationship?...

How long should I leave it before I message him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, Please help im not sure what it means/am having trouble reading the signals. I went on a date on sat night with someone that i met online. The date seemed to go well, he said that he enjoyed it, walked me to the car and the end...

What should my boyfriend be doing to help me here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year, when we first started going out his friends would call me fat which I don't think I am not being big headed, it stopped after about three months and didn't start up again for ages except the odd ...

How to control my jealousy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year but for the last while I've been off with him like he does mess and I take it seriously, I take what he says when messing seriously and I now get jealous Very easily, stuff like that. He doesn't deserve ...

Going backwards.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I am 21 and have been with my boyfriend since I was 16. I have always been a jealous person, and a person who doesn't trust easily. My boyfriend has always been someone who didn't want to go out and liked to stay indoors, but it seems now we are ...

Why doesn't his ex leave me alone? You think he would go out with her again if we break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - hey well my question is.... me and my boyfriend have been 2gether for 2 months now and his ex well shes always txting me saying i heard u and s****n broke up and well we havent!!she claims she doesnt lyke him nomore but she always bringin him up a...

I feel like he is always playing this push away and then pull back game with me, what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Okay, I am really confused and I am not sure if I should be hurt or not, move on or keep sticking it out. All this started about 7 months ago when I meet what I have to say is the perfect guy for me and everything I ever wanted. Problem from the ...

Should I date her? She is as shy as I am and have the worse friends in history, still I like her!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Um, hey there. Recently there's this girl that I've developed a crush on. Well crush isn't really the best way to describe it. She's on my thoughts all of the time and I even dream about her. Unfortunately we have no classes together, and the only...

I feel like we are together for the past rather than for the future but can't bring me to break up, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - hey.. me and my boyfriend have been going out for 14months.. and for the past few months it has been pretty rocky due to our exams.. for one we spend alot less time together and for two he gets really tempermental during. after the exams i thought ...

Internet cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of three and a half years has cheated on me over the internet before. Several times. I have asked that he absolutely not use Instant Messenger for that very reason. He promised that he wasn't using IM at all. Recently, I found out that ...

My girlfriend's parents found out that we've been having sex and want us to stop...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend's parents found out that we've been having sex and want us to stop, neither me or her want to stop and it's not like we have sex like crazy, it's just like once a week. Should we follow them? or continue to do it behind their backs? ...

Are secret phone calls from exes okay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Hey everyone, I just wondered what people's opinion was on a minor issue that has been bothering me. This is nothing big or dramatic, but it's the kind of thing that I know affects a lot of couples and I would value anyone's opinions or insi...

Realistically, what are the chances she could get pregnant from this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been having sex for 3 months, we try our best to be responsible and use condoms but occasionally in the heat of the moment we don't use one (but I always pull out and she's been fine).. Well the other night we wanted to have ...

How often should I talk to her...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - We broke off because of her family problems but this girl wants to be my close friend. She wanted me to maintain close levels of contacts with her perhaps was insecure about losing that charm after the breakup. We have had a hard time over accepting ...

Do I need to shave??????

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Ok so I have a bit of a personal question.. I'm concerned about whether or not I'm supposed to shave my vaginal area? My bf and I have been getting close, and he's tried several times to put his hand down/take off my pants and I haven't let him ...

Is it possible something more happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over a month and I know that isn't long but I really love her. She kissed her ex and on another day he showed himself to her (down below) now I'm wary that more happened, I mean I do have trust issues anyway through ...

Seems he prefers his friends instead of me...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for three years. We were engaged, but I broke it off when he started another job and started to drink with the people from work till all hours of the morning. We got back together three weeks later, after he...

Why does he never bring his kids round to our house?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Question; I have recently moved in with my boyfriend, we have been together for 10 months prior to this. I have one child who is 3 and he has two children, one is seven and one is 3 (2 weeks younger than my little one.) We have his children at ...

Dating someone... but falling for someone else.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - HELP!!! (Extremely long) I've gotten myself between a rock n a hard place here ppls. I've been with my g/f for over 9mts now. it has been graet except for the past 7 weeks or so. it's like just lately she gets on my nerves constantly. i hon...

Why won't he respond to any of my voicemails or text messages?

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26 November 2008 (F) - Hi everyone. Thanks for taking time to read my situation. My boy-friend and I have been dating for 7 months. He hates all my friends, except for about 1 or 2. I was at one of my friends' house earlier today and my boy-friend had called me fr...

My boyfriend flirts with girls in front of me and I can't even be mad at him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend flirts with girls in front of me and then he comes to me like nothing is wrong and i try to be mad at him but i can't and i want to break up with him but i cant i love him way too much to do that i need help ...

I like her a lot, but so does my best friend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5846 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - Ok well i really like this girl at school but i dont know if she likes me.The problem is that my best friend has liked her since the beginning of this year and i dont know what to do. I need tips on how to get her to notice me so we can get ...

I accidently dropped my towel and she took a picture with her phone!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - hi aunty,I am a 30 year old guy,stay alone now.. earlier my parents used to stay with me, but now they are gone on vacation and will return after 3-4 months.. recently I was having a bath, at that time my door bell rang, so I went to check, as I ...

Is our relationship healthy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - ok well I'm 14 turning 15 on January 3rd...my bf is 15 turning 16 on December 2nd...we have been going out for about a year and three months now since August 28,2007 but i want to know if I'm in a healthy relationship...i mean he loves me for who ...

If he liked me enough, he would've called right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I've known this guy for about 3 years now but we're not great friends or anything (we used to stay in the same apartment block and our friends know each other). If anything i have a small crush on him but he always plays coy and we have never been ...

Where do I start with finding a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - i haven't been with a women for about 5 years and want to get back in the dating scene. with my ex-girlfriends, i met them through friends. but how do i find a female these days without going to find them in nightclubs? for me, it's hard to find a ...

How can I find out if he loves me too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - ok i really love one of my best friends and i told him i like him but i didn't tell him i love him. I am at the stage where i can't stand to be away from him for more than a few days. I really want to date him but i am not good enough for him. i get ...

He gets mad very easily and makes up all these 'rules'!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5843 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Hi guys im 16 years old. i been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months now. Like every other couple we fight all the time over stupid things. Hes some one who needs attention 24/7. I am also not PDA and he gets mad about that. He basically gets ...

I love this girl... she says she loves me also, but she has a boyfriend who she has been with for nearly 2 years and won't decide immediately who she wants to be with. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - I started seeing this girl after I met her about 4 months ago. I got her number and we started texting. She said that she had just split up with her boyfriend of 1 and a half years and was really down in the dumps. I asked if she wanted to meet up ...

Am I overreacting for feeling violated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

26 November 2008 (?) - All right so I'm really upset, so please take into account that I can't really think straight right now. here goes... My ex and I recently got back together after a 3 month split. We decided we would keep it between us for a while until we can work...