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writes:Hi guys,Well i'm in that common situation, where i have very strong feelings for a guy friend (who i have only known since September). I told him a few weekes back, but he rejected me (apparently because he wants to get back together with his ex) However, to my friend he couldn't understand how i can 'love' him (my exact, yet exaggerated words were "I love you") when i barely know him, which i'm afraid to say is true. We just talk about things in general but nothing much of our personal lives. He'd also said, "I would go out with her though". And I feel that if we get to know each other more then he'll fall in love with me - well it's a possibilty! The thing is i don't know how to express myself to him, around each other we just laugh, none of us seem unhappy but everyone has their problems don't they? And i really want to become close to him, so we can support one another! Which could lead to something else... if you get me! I just need to know how i can get to know him more? Thanks x
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): Hi. Fifthquadrant here. I have my doubts about Pink's 'friend-ship' approach. If you have a hidden agenda then you're not really being his friend now, are you. You will surely leap at the first opportunity to become his girlfriend by looking for a chink in his emotional armoury. Being his friend can really hurt if he switches from one girlfriend to another and you are caught in the middle massaging his ego. I think the way to get him is not to be his friend. Play hard to get (but don't be immature or unfriendly). Your scarcity will increase your value to him - he will be interested in and curious about you - and he may start chasing you.
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