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Archived questions from: 7 November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

He says he cares about me but keeps doing strange things.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - i have been talking to this guys for about a year, we do not have an official title because he is scared of commitment, but whenever i decide to talk or just hang out with someone else he does not necessarily confront me, but then he act strange ...

He said when he ws single he'd date me... now he's single and staying that way!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - I really like this guy but he had a girlfriend and they broke up. well when they were together he said that if they ever broke up he would date me . they broke up and now he says he dosent think of me like that he just wants to be friends but i want ...

How does anal feel to a man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend are so in love. Lately she has wanted to try new things. She wants to DO Me with a strap on. How does anal feel to a man? ...

My Love Life (This really sucks)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - This is what I wrote from my hi5 blog: Well.... my love life has become my love death, so I'll start from the beginning. Please don't judge me on all of this because I never really had online relationships that much this year. So far this year I ...

Ex boyfriend has turned up again but I'm with someone else!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - My ex boyfriend with whom I was with for eight months, decided one day he would leave me without telling me and go back to his ex-wife. Since he left me I have met a really nice guy, the problem now is that my ex boyfriend has come back into the ...

Why does he not want me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - I know this is stupid. I want to know how can I talk to my boyfriend after we got into a fight. I felt that we were serious enough to let him have my cell phone until we got our house phone back on. everything went fine that day-- and we even talked ...

She's going to a new school so we won't be able to see each other as much...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for at least a year now and she is going to a new school. We can still see each other but not as much, we can really only go to the rec. Center in Fircrest. I Still like her and she still likes me that I know ...

Whatever happened to tradition or old fashioned dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3708 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - I can't help but realize that everyone around me seems to have a significant other. I can't help but realize that I want a relationship more than I should... the more I want it the more it seems impossible. Why is it all the women nowadays have to ...

My first true love after 5 years wants me back... but what to do, I'm soooo confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - Ok im 21 i've wrote to this a couple of times for a couple different reasons you might reconize my name.....anyways i have a new delima..the first girl i was ever with in high school when i was 15 the one i experimented on...i haven't spoke to in 5 ...

I really don't like begging him any more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - I'm 19 and I've been with my boyfriend who's 17 for slightly over 3 months. I kissed and made out with him while I was still with my ex about 5 months ago. When we first made out, I was tipsy and told him that I wasn't a virgin (I did it a few ...

I don't understand my boyfriend, please I need help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - hello I have a dilemma, my boyfriend is a very good guy, but very introverted and very close person. We have been together for almost 9 months. When we are together everything is perfect, he does everything to please me, he normally prefer to go to ...

My boyfriend is addicted to World Of War Craft

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5792 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - I have a problem It all started when my boyfriend's friend died. After he died my boyfriend has been trying to hack his world of war craft account to sell it because he owed him money (harsh I know) but whatever, he hasn't succeeded (a...

Am I right to want to spend more time with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - I have been engaged for one month now and my fiancee is already becoming distant. Her sex drive is very low and we seem to fight about it often. She has been diagnosed with vulvar vestibulitus wich makes sex very painful but everthing else has ...

Is it possible he's hiding something from me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - I am with a man that is 17 years older. We've been together four a 4 years and I still have not met his kids. His kids are grown now and they have a brother and sister that they have not met yet. He don't even talk to his kids as far as I know. ...

Does withdrawal, along with the pill, improve my odds of not getting pregnant compared to the pill on it's own?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - Odd birth control question here. Does withdrawal, along with the pill, improve my odds of not getting pregnant compared to the pill on it's own? I went on the pill so we wouldn't have to use condoms anymore, which I absolutely hate. The problem is, ...

My girlfriend doesn't know I used to be gay. I want to tell her but honestly have no idea of how.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5863 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for the best part of two years. We love each other to bits and we're going skiing in Canada over Christmas, just the two of us. But the thing is that before i met her i used to be openly gay. Not camp or ...

I agreed just to be friends like he wanted... now he's not talking to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - I used to have my boy friend for a few months. We got along well but he limited our relationship and finally after 3 months being being togther, he asked me politely to stop being a bf and girl friend. I can guess some logical cultural reasons but ...

My girlfreind of 2 yrs doesn't like have sex anymore. I ask her why and she replies" because I'm tired of it !

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - my girlfreind of 2 yrs doesn't like have sex anymore. I ask her why and she replies" because im tired of it and its not my first priority". Ive asked her if she was cheating on me she always tell me no that she loves me but just doesn't want to have ...

Why would I wear a ring from a boy who promised me forever then left for college and lost feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - my boyfriend and i started dating our sophomore year in high school. everything was going great. our senior year, we experienced more problems as we both were leaving to attend different colleges come this fall. we were aware it was going to be a ...

He has told me that I am boring twice, I'm confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - how should one react if a guy tells you that you are boring? should one stop seeing the guy? this guy acts like he is into me but has said this to me twice. Confused...

I'm 14 and feel I am ready for sex. Advice ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5852 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - Hello, I am a 14 year old girl. You need to know that because my question is about being ready for sex. Its a long question even though it answers will probably be short. Well, I have been with my boyfriend for just over nine months. We are real...

Is she testing me? I receive mixed signals.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5853 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - Hi Everyone, I have been dating this girl (# 1) (28 years old) for 8 months. Months ago she basically said only friend status. Days later from that she went on vacation and I met another women. I dated her (lets call her # 2) for a couple months ...

I love him... But who and what does he want....????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5844 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - Ok...So where do I start... I ended things with my ex, about a year and a half ago, he wasn't happy, but he left me no choice, it broke my heart and I never wanted to do it, but I had to. He asked me not to, tried to stop it etc, but it happened....

Did his sister spill my secret?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - ok i have this guy friend and we have been friends 4 three years. one night i get a text from his sister asking if i would ever go out with him and i trusted her not to tell him. i dont know if she did so i missed school that day but when i got back ...

How can I let him know where I stand without scaring him off?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5864 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - Please advise me on what to do - I met this guy a couple of weeks ago who told me that he really liked me. I completely believed him and like him too so one night while drunk I slept with him way quicker than I normally would. Since then this ...

Do I go after girls my own age or girls the same age as I look?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - I'm 24 years old but I look like I'm 15. Never had a serious relationship. My question is, who am I supposed to be targeting as a potential partner here? Girls my own age aren't interested because I look like a kid. Girls who are my age but ...

Do you think he wants to be friends so we have a chance at getting back together ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5865 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - My ex recently dumped me after an off and on relationship of 3 years. We had been arguing about small things and it was making us both unhappy, but I didn't want him to end things. Anyway, he dumped me about a month ago, and after the breakup he ...

I asked her out a week ago and she hasn't answered yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5727 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - I broke up with my g/f 2 years ago and we both moved on. But recently I have started to want her again and whenever I hang out with her she acts like she likes me too. The only problem is that when I asked her out a week ago she didn't answer and ...

How do you know you are ready to take your relationship to the next step?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - How do you know you are ready to take your relationship to the next step?...

How can I test my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - Hey guys just want some help... I dont really trust my boyfriend and I just want some reassuarnce that he isn't cheating... I want to see what he is like when I'm not around and when he is with other girls... I know this is slightly an extreme way ...

Do you think I deserve an answer from him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of a year broke up with me. He said I did nothing wrong, but that we just needed time apart. I didn't get to talk to him for a week. Then he called me and said that he could never stop loving me. He always told me that I was the best ...

Anal Sex without lube

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - Hi. My boyfriend really wants to have anal sex without lube. I'm fine with this (I'm aware that it will hurt badly, and I'm ok with that), but we need to know if it is possible without seriously damaging me. I've never had anal sex before, let alone ...

I just don't know the right thing to do to make her feel secure.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - I am new here and I really need some advice. My gf and I had a break up a while back where I acted very mean and hurt her so badly. I kind of went crazy. She was in terrible pain and I refused to talk to her and just blew her off for over a week. ...