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writes:I love my guyfriend who's 18 years older than me. He is very nice to me and very mature which surprises me that he's not already in a relationship. He seems to like me a lot. Last time he hugged me it felt a little romantic. I've known him for a half a year and see him about once a month since we don't live in the same city. We keep in contact while we are apart. I know he likes me but cannot tell if it's a little or a lot. Is there a way I can find this out subtly without outright asking? Is there something I can do to strengthen the relationship? I believe he's holding back because he's older and thinks he'll scare me away, but I'm afraid of doing the same to him. How can I find out where he stands? Reply to this Question
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reader, BabyPorsh  +, writes (25 November 2008):
 are you sure he's single, i mean you guys don't live in the same city. he might be in a relationship and thats why he's holding back.
if you're sure then...what you can do is tell him you'd like to be more close, in that way he'll see hes not gonna scare you away as you/he fears...hopefully no one will "hold back" then :)
all the best xxx
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