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26-29,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend told me last night that i had the key to his heart and dat he really d0es love me and dat im da best gf he ever had i did really appreciate it and i love him alot but me and him had a deal about him not getting high and just found out he did it today but he hasnt told me anything dat he usually does my question is do u guys think he really loves me?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Dream_Girl +, writes (25 November 2008):
 you're young. believe me when i was your age "love" was something that seemed to engulf me and in actuality i probably wasn't in it. now i'm not saying when you're young you're incapable of true romantic love, but it's very unlikely. if he's sneaking behind your back making promises ESPECIALLY about drugs you need to get on him about that. that is a sign of disrespect and if he develops bad habits like breaking promises right after you make them, what else will he try to get away with down the road?
at this age boys do not have the same emotional depth as girls, in fact they don't develop this until 23.
there is no way for me to answer whether or not he loves you.
but i can try and help.
would he do anything for you?
does he break promises?
does he flake out on you o blow you off?
does he make you do things you're uncomfortable with?
does he stand up for you?
does he make time for you?
does he not mind you meeting his friends?
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reader, Amy_89  +, writes (25 November 2008):
You accepting his bad habits makes him love you even more. If you dont like what hes doing - and express that to him all the time, he will eventually get annoyed and move on. Men dont express thier feelings as much as women, and he would have found it hard to tell you those things.
Trust him, and enjoy being in love. =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): well if he really loves you and you really love him you won't have any questions about it being there or not. and you can't control him. let him do what he wants to do and take him as he is. if you love him.
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