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anonymous
writes:My girlfriend dumped me today after 6months by text message. what can i do to get her back?
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reader, roadman +, writes (2 January 2009):
 Tell her how much she means to you and you'll always be there for her and wait till the end of time..
Ask her what is the problem why she ended the connection.
Tell her you'll change to be the man she wants..
Through some money it the problem to some times helps..
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reader, knight08 +, writes (2 January 2009):
 Why you want her back after she dumped you? There is not much you can really do to get her back, if she ever comes back there is a big chance she’ll do it again to you. Once it’s over it’s really over, I know it’s painful to be dumped like that but don’t you think that you deserve much better? Think about that and move on let her it’s her lose ;-)
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): I know people get dumped by text all the time nowadays and it is not nice, it is such a cop out! All I would say is do not respond to her text, don't send any begging, whining or pleading texts and just ignore her completely. People don't like being ignored and it will get her thinking about you again. Don't engineer yourself into any situations where she will be but if you are in the same place as her by accident just act cool and say hi and stuff then move back to your friends. Treat her as if she is just someone you casually know and then move on as quickly as possible. I have had some luck getting people back this way, it is true the less interest you show the more they want you. The one who loves you the least has the greatest control in any relationship. Also if they see you out with someone else they often don't like it. You have to play a hard game to get someone back so good luck.
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reader, katatonik  +, writes (25 November 2008):
 Wow. "Ideally" break-ups take place face to face. But a text?!? If she didn't even make the effort to tell you over the phone (she obviously has a phone, after all), I'm not sure she is so very worth having back.
If you still want her to start thinking about you "in that way" again, I would ignore her completely. Not hearing from my exes, even ones I broke up with, used to provoke me into wondering what they were doing. In fairness, though, I need to tell you that I never tried or succeeded in getting back with any of them because of it. I think you are best served by moving on from this one and finding someone who appreciates you more.
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reader, Dream_Girl +, writes (25 November 2008):
 If she dumped you through a text, you don't want her back but I understand being in love, just let her come back to you. Don't stalk her, don't start conversations with her, and don't talk about her to people. Start trying to move on. Jealousy might get the best of her and she might come back.BUT if you seem desperate, she will use you or lead you on.
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