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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hello. This is a messy one! I'm going through a divorce right now. I've actually started living with a guy from work. Meanwhile, a different guy from work (who did not know about the first guy) started coming on to me. I rejected him *of course*. He is not married but has children. He's actually a very attractive man but I've made my decision to be with the other guy. Problem is, the Christmas party is coming up and I just know that this other guy is going to be there looking absolutely gorgeous and he'll be there with his partner, too. I imagine that I'll be super jealous of her whilst he'll be super jealous of the other guy from work - the one I'm now living with. I'm actually deeply flattered by the attention and cannot get this 'very attractive' guy off my mind, even though I'm living with the guy who arguably I got divorced to be with. I'm wondering what might happen at the party. Add a little alcohol into the equation and this could become an explosive night indeed! So, my question is, if I'm thinking so much about this other guy (i.e. the one I rejected), does this mean that deep down I might not be with the right guy?
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (25 November 2008):
 What ever you do - do not DRINK! You could possibly do something foolish and regret this. Also, bosses and management are always watching and it could work against you double! Better yet, don't go to the party and have him wonder where you are. But if he has a girlfriend, why would you even consider interfering with flirtations? That is not cool.
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