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*imberlylopez12
writes:hi my name is kimberly and im 17 and me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 10 months and his 23 yr old sister hates me! shes really jealous of the girls her brother dates and she always tells me mean things and i answer nice back to her and it makes her more mad but her parents say im welcome over anytime what should i do????
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reader, Caseymariex3 +, writes (20 August 2009):
Ok so I am 17 and I have the same exact problem but I have fixed it. My boyfriends sister hates me, and she would always be so nasty to me. One day she said something mean to me in front of him, and I burst out crying. He became very protective of me, and told her she needs to stop. I then talked to my boyfriend and told him how I felt, and he talked to his sister. You just have to remember you are not dating his sister, you are dating him. If your boyfriend really cares about you he wont care what his sister thinks. I hope this helps.
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reader, gojira343 +, writes (25 November 2008):
have youve ever done anything to hurt her brother? that maybe it but it seems like shes being overly protective...i wouldnt worry about it too much you are in a relationship with HIM not her....dont let it bug you too much and keep being nice, but if she says something to harsh stand your ground and stand up for yourself....sounds like she is really imature.....talk to your boyfriend and see what he thinks about it!
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reader, Ms.wayne +, writes (25 November 2008):
Continue to kill her with kindness. Do not stoop to her level. If she wants to run off her brothers girlfriends then thats her problem. As long as your boyfriend still likes you and you have the ok with the parents then your fine. You just don't want to cause anymore tension than what it already is because if your brother and her are really close then you being mean to his sister can cause problems between you and him but then again it may not, all depends on the type of guy he is. But I would ignore her stupid comment, your dating him not her.
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