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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, I've been in love once when I was 2nd year college and we broke up after to years for the reasons we don't understand and it's hard for us because we are to far from each other and maybe we are not really meant to be... then after that I never felt in love again for so long all I thought that I will never fall in love again but I was wrong because I feel in love with the guy which I do not know if it is right that I choose him and become part of my life... now I am in love again and more than I felt before with my ex... but I do not know if it is right that I chose him because he is a married man with 1 kid but separated with his wife because his wife had an extra marital affair... they are legally separated because his wife admits her fault but they are not yet annulled, it is still in the process... I know he loves me so much, I can really feel it and he cried for how many times when I'm trying to finish what we had just started. I love him so much he is my ideal guy.... He faced and talked to my parents courageously and let them know everything about his past and his intentions to me..... He is willing to do everything to make our relationship strong and lasting... My parents accept him because of his good intentions and I was also very welcome in their family.. His aunt told me that they are now happy to see him happy and smiling and that is because of me, he is now moving on from his past traumatic experience... but there are also other people who are against our relationship not related to our family but our friend, he is advising me to cut off our relationship if I have still respect to myself and to my family..... I know he is not yet annulled but we've done nothing wrong to our relationship for we know our limitations... we are living separated and we still don't have plans to be together unless he is annulled and we are already married... what we are right now is just for companionship a special relationship with limitations.... two persons willing to be there to comfort each other... Please help me think what is the best thing to do?... Do you think what we have done is wrong? Do I have the right love at a the wrong time in circumstance?? I am now 25 years old but don't have any plan yet to get married for I am still enjoying myself as single, I am one of the active youth leaders in the church and he is 35 years old.... a workaholic person but knows how to manage his time.... he is friendly, approachable, helpful, kind, responsible and a loving person and that's what makes me feel in love with him... I need your suggestion... thank you and God bless
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionas of now we are getting more stronger despite of the trials that comes our way... Trials?? we take it as a challenge to make our relationship strong we know there are people who think of our relationship wrong we will just don't mind them for we know we done nothing wrong... We are also blessed because we have a lot of friends who understand us and care for us, a family who think of our happiness we are surrounded by the people who love us and willing to protect us so we are confident enough to show to the people how much we love each other with respect for we also know in the eyes of God we done nothing wrong.. We just pray for those who are against our relationship and hope someday they will understand and be happy for us... With God in the center of our relationship we know we can just overcome all the trials that lies ahead of us.... His ex wife actually knows it already and ask me favor to love their son and be a good mother someday and a loving caring and responsible wife someday....Her wife is also happy for us because i accept him without hesitations and doubts and don't care of his past....
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your positive reactions it means a lot to me...God bless you always and shower you abundant blessings..
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