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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Is there a way to apologize for my stupidity?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I asked a guy friend to ask this girl for her number specifically telling him to tell her that it was for me. I didn't ask her myself because I had recently moved to a different part of the city and his was the only number I had. I called her and ...

Is this amount of sex bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5835 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Hi there. Me and my bf really really enjoy sex, and when he's back from uni we do it every opportunity we get. He satisfies me every time but I get worried that this amount of sex is bad. I think about sex a lot during the day and i'm always q...

He doesn't want to get back together whereas I do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I saw my ex for about 5 mins earlier on, I've not seen him since friday anyway when i saw him he gave me a hug then he said sorry i dont no why i needed to do that, He dumped me but we still talk every day, he doesnt want to get back together...

What gift should I give a girl on her birthday?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - I am clueless as to what gift i should give a girl i really like in school[university] on her birthday without letting her think i'm trying to hook up with her. Can you please help me out?...

Her aunt died just as I was about to break up with her. What do I do now?

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30 November 2008 (M) - I have a problem, my girlfriend's aunt died, right before I was going to break up with her. What should I do? ...

My girlfriend seems so cold towards me at times...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5815 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hi there, I'm new to the site but I just wanted to fire out this question and I hope Ii can get some responses back soon. I'm currently in a relationship, and am very much in love with the girl i am with, but there are times when i don't know how...

Is this guy being a jerk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for 7 mths now. He definatley told me that he's not ready for a long term relationship. Last night he told me jokingly "I own you" (which he says this often). And I said "No you dont". What gives? He doesnt want me seeing ...

How should I act when I meet his parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5837 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Well i have been with my boyfriend for over three months now and he has met both of my parents. The thing is he wants me to meet his parents and yes i want to but i dont think they will like me. The last bf i had i met his parents and they did not ...

My boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I'm increasingly noticing that my boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends. My best friend is unaware of this. However, I know and have come to realize it over some time due to our private dialogues with one another. Also, supposedly it was a ...

I'm truly in love with a guy I hardly know!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have a serious problem, its not like most problems posted here. I'm in love with a guy I hardly know. I think it is love at first sight. I know cheesy, but its true. I can never stop thinking about him. I miss him everyday I wake up. When I ...

Should I make a move and tell her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - basically in the short of things i really, really like this girl, and shes just finished with her boyfriend and shes had a bit of a rough time about it all! now while you may think im trying to make a move when shes upset, thats not my intention 1 ...

He claims to hate his ex but I suspect otherwise. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend claims to hate his ex-girlfriend, but I really dont think this is the case. He was with her for eight months, and she broke his heart by dumping him for another guy. She texts him quite a bit still, often while hes with me, and he ...

Can we make it until the end?

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30 November 2008 (M) - I am a third year college student studying in singapore. I been in love with this girl back home in india for about 2 years now. We got into the relationship knowing its going to be like this for quite a while (6 years totally, 3 years of education ...

I love my friend of 17 years

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5793 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hi Everyone i have been friendly with this lady for years, we go out for the rugby matches. But recently she has split with here husband, due to his drinking and Gambling, and the divorce proceedings are near the end, but i have fallen for here b...

He's backed off and become distant. Should I wait this out?

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30 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 months has backed off and gotten distant. Our kids are not getting along-he says he loves me but when we have our kids he wants to keep them apart for a little while. When I tried to tell him about my feelings and how I wasnt ...

My bestfriend became my lover and now he ignores me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have known this guy for years and over the summer we became great friends, then we became more than great friends and he became ever so lovy dovy and often said that he loved me. But recently he has become distant, he never says that he loves me ...

I'm in a loving relationship but I'm really falling for another girl...

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30 November 2008 (M) - Hi. I've been in a relationship with a girl I really love for a little over fourteen months now. We attend college in the same city as each other and met as a result of that. We know we'll be able to be together for at least the 2+ yea...

Is it fair to be with someone if you're not over your ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Do you think it is fair to be with someone if you are not over your ex, I realise that you havam in this situation and I have realised that I have to move on. Afterall, my ex had his chance! I have heard that you it is better to be with the one ...

It ended before it even started!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - For a while I liked a guy in the pub. We ended up getting together a couple of weeks ago. Both said we like each other but are worried of getting involved because we both have children to think about. And he said he likes being single and wishes he ...

What can I do to make him happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (?) - My boyfriend got mad at me because I hugged my dad when he got me an ipod today for my birthday. My boyfriend said he doesn't want me hugging other guys. What can I do to make him happy? ...

He's in to me and doesn't want any one else - but he said the thought of us being bf/gf scares him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I guess you can say I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks now. I go to his house couple times a week. We always enjoy each others company. We kiss, hold hands (even in public..so its not an indoor thing), hug, cuddle, we are intimate. He has ...

He's come on so strong and said he loves me. Is this normal? is he desperate? Or just too good to be true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5832 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Ok I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months but only seeing him for the past month. Things have been amazing and I really see this going somewhere. The thing is he has come on very strong from the start. Things like he hasn't felt like this ...

I'm secretly bi and in love with a guy - will I ruin our friendship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5816 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Heres the story, Im Bi and not out,but a friend of mine i have always been attracted to him but i think im in love with him i cant stop thinking of him and really want to kiss his lips romanticly. I dont know whether to tell him because. 1. i...

I'm having a hard time understanding his intentions....should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Im having a hard time understanding his intentions This guy I had a past with but found out to be a player, is back in my life. Over the summer, he liked 2 girls but ended up dating one of them and then cheating on her after she moved away for s...

Why did he choose a woman similar to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - hi all,i got a problem that needs solving,i have a best friend who is a guy,he is also the best friend of my guy,thing is we were friends before my guy and i got together. i will call my best friend R. R and i are so close that i tell him everything ...

If he doesn't kiss you passionately, is he not interested?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - If a guy doesn't really kiss you passionately does it mean he is not interested? I have been out on a couple of dates with a guy who doesn't really show his emotions! - We talk a lot and get on well but not about how we feel for each other! ...

If anyone out there has any ideas or knows how to let go I would appreciate you sharing it with me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I have been married for 40 years and my husband passed away. Now I find myself in this relationship that is verbally abusive, I have no trust, he consistently lies to me, I let him walk all over me, I know this is wrong, it is not me to come across ...

Why would he not call me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5834 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Can anyone offer me any explanation for this please? I met a friend of a very good friend of mine a couple of weeks ago. This guy told my friend (also a guy) that he really liked me, asked him loads of questions about me such as am I single, wha...

Who should I be with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - M1's pluses are that he is gentlemanly, accommodating, accepting of my appearance, is an enjoyable company to be with, is loving and is patient. His minuses are that he has not-so-nice family members, lives faraway from me and speaks nonsensical ...

I cry every time we're apart and it's making me a wreck! Why am I like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - hi. i'm 18 this year unlike many of you here, my problem doesnt lie with my partner. it's my first relationship and i am enjoying every moment of it when i'm with my boyfriend. i love my boyfriend and i know he loves me alot as well. but fo...

Should I ring him or let him ring me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - last nite like i always do I rang my ex bf. we have been sleeping together for a few weeks, anyway he had his daughter stay over last nite and i no he doesnt go out when hes got her. anyway as he was board and so was i..anyway i rang him to see if ...

I want to add this guy I like to my facebook, but I'm afraid he'll think I'm stalking him! How do I do this in the best way?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4758 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - When I was on facebook I was doing a random search of people in my city and I saw a face i recognised. So I click on the profile and realised it was this guy who comes into my work all the time. He works right next door to me (we both work in retail ...

Should I call him even though I got his number from someone else?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I know this boy n he comes over n we huge out all the time, but I got his new number by someone else. Should i call him if his not the one that give me he's number? And should a girl get upset when a boy don't call as much as she does?...

How can I learn to trust him more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Im almost 17 my boyfriend is 19 and i've been with him almost 6 months. We get on really well and hardly ever argue. However recently he has been going away alot to manchester with a few guy mates and meeting girls that he met on holiday in ibiza. I ...

He doesn't want me to have sex with him if I don't really want to, but he also complains if he doesn't get any at all! I can't win! What am I supposed to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My question is whether you should have sex (in a relationship) when you don't really want to? In all my relationships, after the first few months my sex drive has gone down quite a bit (I hear this is fairly common), but my partner's hasn't. ...

If she's not interested, why doesn't she tell me so??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5827 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hi all, well i sent a question in last week regarding a girl i had dated a few times, and got some great advice on what to do. Well since then she has been in contact with her friend on a social networking site. Her friend asks her how shes doin, ...

I'm getting more and more paranoid and it is getting out of control! What can I do to stop feeling like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5836 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - ive been with my bf for 6 months and never had any problems with him before. last week while we were outside our flat a couple walked past us and i saw him look briefly in their direction and for no reason i instantly got paranoid and thought he was ...

He doesn't love or want me so why is he doing this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Hi there, I've been with my partner bout 11 years. Four years ago he had an affair which lasted on and off a year.. he eventually left but never admitting the affair saying he was working until he had no option but to tell the truth. After a bit ...

Have I been unreasonable here? Am I overreacting?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now, the latter 3 spent living 7 hours apart. Because of the length of the trip, we have seen each other once since the beginning of September, on Thanksgiving weekend, and the next ...

Lost in time and feeling confused! Will he ever let me into his heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5838 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I met this guy who ask me for a dance, we had a great time and seem to hit if off instantly. He walk me to my car and we continued to talk for some time, than he kiss me very respectfully. Since we had met its been six weeks now. We both just got ...

All of a sudden he is not interested in me or my pregnancy - we met online; what do I do now??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5840 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I really do not know where to begin. Its simple though I met an incredibly sweet man on the internet. We hit it off really well , we were always online or the phone. I even helped him with a few bills. Even went as far as even buying him a cell ...

She's out of the picture but the thoughts still haunt me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 13 years, but have been married for only 8 years. We lived together from almost the moment we met. We went through quite a bit in our lives together and this makes the story more and more sad. However, I ...

Is he lying about his feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - i am 16 years old and there is this guy i chat with and i know him i see him so one day well were chating and he ask me where is everyone and i told him the everyone is sleeping and he starting to telling me that long he had a crush on me he say i ...

Is there a way to break this cycle or am I just doomed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5842 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Why is it that the only women I seem to attract are the ones whose lives are a broken down mess, and who are needy, neurotic, insecure know-it-alls, who like me as long as I do what they wish, but the minute I think for myself or want to do ...

How can I make him feel the way he makes me feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend with every inch of my heart. He is so amazing to me and treats me like a princess. So why is it that every time he even just calls me I end up getting pissed off at him? I've been telling him for a while now that we have bad ...

Should I do something a little more special and sincere since we have been together for quite a while?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year now (in January it'll be a year) and he's really not into much so I don't know what to get him. He hates sports or anything to do with them, he loves music but he has every song and CD out ...

Whats wrong here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - This guy I know from Theater club asked me out for dinner on Facebook. I was excited... (his roommate is the guy that I like) so he takes me to dinner and we talk about music mostly. J is really musically talented and asked me if I could sing, I ...

What is the most honourable thing to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5842 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hello I just started college this fall, and have been having issues fitting in with both the people at my institute. I find nothing appealing in getting drunk or high, or hooking up with random girls, or playing video games or staying up all n...

I'm engaged and slept with someone else and now I'm pregant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My fiancee and I were having problems and I thought it was the end of our six year relationship, one night I got severley intoxicated and slept with someone else which has resulted in a unwanted pregnancy. I feel like I should tell him but my ...

She's amassed $70,000 in debt!!!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hello; I've asked a few other questions, so I don't want to overload the board, but I figured I'd try one more. I have been with my girlfriend for 6+ years, engaged for 2+ of those years. I don't believe we will ever have a wedding -- after I p...