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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi, just need a bit of advice please if anyone can help. I met a guy on a chat site just over a year ago and have met each other twice since then. We live approximately 150 miles apart and both work shifts so meeting is quite a challenge. we talk and text regularly admittedly not every day (my choice) and now he says he wants to be intimate with me. I'm really not that sure about this because a we don't really know each other and b does he really want me or just the sex. please help
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (25 November 2008):
 Sweetie, even though you have chatted for a while and only met each other twice, it is still too early to get intimate. What do you really know about this guy? He has only told you what he wants you to know and what he knows you want to hear. Tell him that you are not ready to have sex with him, and he will either accept this explanation or move on to the next woman. Be strong, cos if he really is all he says he is, he will value your friendship and want to do things to please you!Honeygirl
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