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writes:Something has started between myself and a work mate. Am now really confused. We haven't slept together, his said he thinks I'm out fo his league and has never been out with a girl like me. Says he's met me and all his barriers have been knocked down. Last night came out with.....I really like you, but I can't get into a relationship at the moment, but don't rule out it happening in the future!!! What is going on!!!! help xx Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): ...he must be at least half-serious then!
I know - us men are strange creatures aren't we? I'd probably be there like a rat up a drainpipe though!
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reader, j007skywalker +, writes (25 November 2008):
j007skywalker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionLOL cheers Phil, will do just that....slight issue with the face that we are in the same group of friends, but hey ho.....totally his loss! for the record he did say stuff sober as well!! Men huh!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): Well, you can't wait forever! He either wants to give you a go or he doesn't. The fact that he says 'this stuff' to you when drunk would personally make me a little cautious about the whole thing. You must have heard of 'beer goggles'. I'm not suggesting you're ugly or anything, but a few pints does tend to loosen the tongue a bit.
I'd suggest giving him a couple of weeks or you're off hunting for Mr Right - or even Mr Right Now.
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reader, j007skywalker +, writes (25 November 2008):
j007skywalker is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah I've done that (asked why!) his 27 and his longest relationship has been 6 months! He says all this stuff to me when his drunk, then when his sober his barriers go up. I've told him straight I like him. He said he doesn't know why.....he just can't yet! there is no other women!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008): Ask him "Why not?" - why can't he start a relationship? Does he have other irons in the fire?
Tell him you don't consider him out of your league, and also tell him that if he doesn't get a move on he'll blow his chances - unless he's married or something, in which case he's got no chance anyway.
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