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I switch between liking boys and girls... is this normal for being bisexual?

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Question - (25 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 November 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hello, although throughout my life I have definitely been sexually attracted to woman, my feelings towards men are starting to come out now. If i was completely gay this would be more of a problem for me but since I'm bisexual I feel like I can just ignore the homosexual feelings and go for girls. The only thing is that it is like every few days it switches of between being attracted to men and women. I just want to know if this is normal for being bisexual or if its something else. Btw im not even 100 percent sure im bi these feelings have been around for a month and its puberty so you never know :)

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A female reader, blackroses2989 United States +, writes (29 November 2008):

blackroses2989 agony auntwell not really. I kind of just love who I love really. Sometimes I find myself insanely attracted to certain girls then out of no where I fall for a guy. I'm guessing its just the chemical attraction my body feels for that person lol. Can you control feelings you have?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008):

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Thank you alot, that's what i needed. But question, now do you have control over the feelings?

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A female reader, blackroses2989 United States +, writes (25 November 2008):

blackroses2989 agony auntYes, I'm bisexual as well. My feelings used ot switch constantly between male and female. This was especially hard when I was younger, because I would like guys for months, then all of a sudden have a lust for women. so I would often question my sexuality lez or straight. Sometimes it would get so crazy I would switch between the two everyday much like you. It is completely normal. Now I have settled down, I'm with a man ( which surprised me) yet I always tell him he can always bring a woman home ot spice things up. Anyways dont fret its very normal lol. Good luck!! I hope that helped.

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