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*ojira343
writes:ok so my boyfriend went to another state for thanksgiving with his family and he started acting weird he wouldnt call me and when I called, one night his brother answered and sang and hung up.... then I called back, he answered and I heard a girl in the background and laughter and I asked what he was doing then he hung up and turned off his phone....Then I hacked into his e-mail to see if he might have been trying to see other girls, or had invited another girl to stay with him while he was there.... nothing turned up, I know it was a psychoo thing to do and I don't know how to tell him (I ended up having to change his pass word) I feel really bad what should I do, how should I tell him? Reply to this Question
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reader, sexpert  +, writes (27 November 2008):
what a nasty thing to do to you! You deserve an explanation.is he taking u as trash from state to state?did he tell his bro to do that on phone?leave his sorry ass alone..he got another gal upstate.
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reader, gojira343 +, writes (25 November 2008):
gojira343 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI can't really change it back to the original password because I don't know it! Also he has cheacked my phone messages and e-mail... this is the first time I felt I had to snoop... but thanks for the answers!
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reader, SadieB  +, writes (25 November 2008):
Personally I wouldn't tell him - he won't know if you hacked into his email account beacuse when he goes to log on, it will just say that he doesn't recognise his password. Can't you hack into it again and change it back again ( if you did it once you must be able to do it again?) or maybe change it back to a very similar password if you can't get teh exact one. Then jsut don't mention it. Seriously, I would only tell him if he was definitely going to find out - but you must know a way of changing the password back again or even changing it to a similar one (that way, when he can't hack in and it has an additional letter on the password or something, he will just think there was something wrong with service provider?) Best of luck! x
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reader, katatonik +, writes (25 November 2008):
 I'd be honest with him. He's probably not going to like hearing it, but hopefully the knowledge that you are sincerely sorry about it will help him forgive you. Show him your post here if he doesn't believe that you feel bad about having done this.And as hard as the conversation may be, it might also be a good opportunity for the both of you to take a look at what in your relationship brought you to the point where you felt you couldn't trust him...because that part is a failure on his part too. Be brave and good luck =)
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