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I don't want to be a dad!

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Question - (25 November 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 25 November 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't want to become a dad at 15 years old but I what to have sex with my girlfriend, we both want to but we don't want kids yet, what do I do.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008):

First of all i advise you not to have sex.

Wait a little while longer, atleast until your 16.

But if you just cant wait, then use a condom. Thatz properly da easiest, use a brand name like durex. You can buy this from a chemist.

Have Fun..

XxX

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008):

what do you do to stop a girl getting pregnant?? you should know this being 15yrs old. i'm and i have lifeskills lessons about this. USE PROTECTION. look on the internet about different one!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008):

Kinky Boots is right in every respect except one.....

Expecting you to wait for sex until you are sixteen is like expecting money to fall from the sky! While her intention is admirable, it just isn't realistic.

Do like temptressofdreams tells you to do. Put the condom on BEFORE you have sex. (There are sperm in the lubricating semen). Visit the local Planned Parenthood office. They can give you instructions on proper fit of condoms and how to prevent pregnancy. They do this ALL the time. Do not be embarassed.

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A female reader, babewithbrains United Kingdom +, writes (25 November 2008):

babewithbrains agony auntHmmmm...

You seem to be mixed up between love and LUST...

Buy condoms. Choose a good well known brand, get your girlfriend on the pill... practice putting on a condom in the dark, one handed and whilst wet. She can get the pill from the docs, I think. Oh, and then wait until you're 16 so that you can have it without getting done. (Ie, if you have sex when shes 15 and youre 16 then you could still be classed as a sex offender and get locked up.)

Jelly

xxx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 November 2008):

USE PROTECTION!!!!

Condoms or female condoms (ALWAYS use one of these), the pill, the jab, spermicide, the patch, the coil, the cap... always use a condom and one other form of protection ideally.

http://www.sexinfo101.com/bc_index.shtml

Here's a big list of types of protection and how they work =]

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A female reader, katatonik United States +, writes (25 November 2008):

katatonik agony auntUse a condom every time you have sex. This will help prevent both pregnancy and the transmission of STDs. If you want to be extra safe, talk to your girlfriend and see how she feels about getting on birth control pills as well. As far as I know, you and she are both too young to buy these over the counter, but if there is a Planned Parenthood in your area she can make an appointment to get them prescribed to her. Whether she gets on the pill or not, though, make sure you always wear a condom--even if you don't "cum" or finish inside her. And good on you for wanting to be careful about this =] Good luck

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