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Dating: Help and advice

Sex the first time really hurt for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 years (we're both 16 now) and after a party last weekend things got really hot.... he started playing with me and I played with him, it's not rare but then we started penetration and we're both virgins ...

Is she just using me to get whatever she isn't getting out her relationship with her boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - we're both freshmen at the same college, so i've only know her for a couple months. right now i just think of us as really good friends, but sometimes she makes me wonder if she likes me a little more than that. so in no particular order...

I'm with someone new, but I'm not positive I'm over my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - Me and my ex broke up about 8 months ago, it was a messy breakup, but it wouldn't work out anymore so it had to be done. We weren't in a healthy relationship, but she was my first girlfriend, and we also did our 'first times' together... We were ...

I'm straight but girls are dominating my fantasies. Am I normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I have a question. I have never considered myself homosexual, but all my life I have always fantasized of other girls when masturbating, not the guy I liked or had a crush on at the time. Even at a young age! I am in a wonderful relationship ...

He doesn't want to talk about it, am I just supposed to wait?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (?) - I’m still very young, so please bear with me. I have zero experience when it comes to love. I met this guy, let’s call him John. Me and john were good friends, and we met on a kind of educational visit. He really liked me and I really liked hi...

Two are in love?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - ok, so if you are here to call me a bitch or anything rude, you can just piss right off, i am not in the mood to be reading shit like that, i am in seek of some opinions or something... Lukasz [other guy] I kissed him and went to his place and we...

He wants to meet for sex, but I want a relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I have a problem. You see there is this guy who i have known for years. We were very close in school. But when I went off to college, we kind of grew apart, We didn't speak as much or see each other. I've always had a thing for him. Recently we ...

He's not mine - but I want him!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - He's not mine - but I want him!! I don't know what to do - I got on really well with this man who I thought liked me! I gave him my number but he said he had a partner! Nevertheless he does call me from time to time but not very regularly due to...

I'm completely torn and the feeling is torturing me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5855 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - Im 19yrs old and about 2 years ago I really liked this guy called Chris and I ended up telling him as I thought he felt the same way which was a big mistake.. We never knew each other properly and I guess that was one of the reasons why nothing ...

How do I let my girlfriend know I appreciate her gifts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5856 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - I have an amazing girlfriend who looks attractive and can hold interesting conversations. And she loves to spoil me! I'm 19 and she is a self titled "older broad." (I'm guessing 42-44 but I've never asked her.) I don't know if she's feeling se...

He's giving me mixed signals, does he like me or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - Look I am really confused just now. There is this guy who I like a lot. I have for about a year now and he is the nicest guy I have ever met. He is amazing, he is gorgeous and such a nice person.Everytime I am near him I can't help but smile. Just ...

She's secretly staring at her ex on facebook, but she says she hates him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - My partner has been lying about going on facebook to me and has kept many secrets about it from me. She deleted her ex's off 6 mths ago when we got engaged. We have since been married and I found out yesterday that she physically types the most ...

Can I, or should I date my students dad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - Okay so here is the deal.... I am a teacher... and I have a HUGE crush on one of my student's dads!! I am a single parent, as is he.... and we have spent a lot of time talking. He is great. I will only be his son's teacher for another month or...

Two friends with two probelms, will you help them both?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5860 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - -- this is two people -- so im sophie, this is long, ok so I used to like a boy in year 11 (15) my mates brother and i liked him for months but i could never get close to him so i decided his friends where awesome and i should get to know them bet...

I held his hand... does that mean our friendship is over?!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (?) - help! i held my guy friends hand. I didn't even realise i was. i texted him after but he didn't reply. Does this mean its the end of our friendship or what could it mean?...

What do you do with a woman who still has feelings for you, but dumped you for another man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - A little over a month ago, a recent friend of mine began coming on to me and I accepted her advances. By coming on, I mean we started making out at a couple of parties and started flirting heavily through texting. After a few days, we defined our ...

I suspect that my boyfriend is secretly taking heroin.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I suspect that my boyfriend is secretly taking heroin. He has done it before and I said if he took it again I would have to finish the relationship. He agreed and stopped but I fear it is happening again. I have asked him directly and he said No! ...

Very Confused!! Should I stay with this man?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5859 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I was married, but unfortunately that wasn't going too well. Then I met this man how for the first time made my heart sing. We got together and we fell madly in love, when I got a flat of my own with my kids, he moved in. My man has always h...

Loving a married man with children... please Help!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I'm in love with a married man. I'm in an 8 year relationship with the father of my 2 kids. We get along okay but I just don't have that passion for him any more. My son is 5 and any time me and his dad argue, my son says stop yelling, I thought we ...

Get together with this older woman and risk breaking my ex girlfriend's heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - I went away in May with my girlfriend and her Dad. I'm 18 and so is my girlfriend. Her Dad invited a 42 year old friend and her son and she brought along a 31 year old friend and her two kids. The friend with two kids is very attractive and talked ...

Why did he come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I've met this guy through a dating site. After a week, we decided to meet up. It was a great first date. He was completely my type; honest, handsome, intelligent. I honestly thought that he was the'one'. He liked me too, thought I was funny, smart, ...

Will she come back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - I have been going out with a girl for 3 years. We had planned to move out, have kids and spend the rest of our lives together. She has just broken up with me but says she still loves me, fancy's me and needs time for herself. She says she needs to ...

Does she just want him for his money or does she really love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5856 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - Dear all at cupid, My ex guy broke up with me (he's 5 years older then me) to get back with the mother of his child, they split many times before and this was the longest 6 months, anyway she was always texting him it just concently got more and ...

Had a fling with a guy. How do I act around him now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - A couple of months ago I got with a guy who I didn't really know that well but all my friends do, as a fun end of exams fling. He's really hot and a genuine nice guy. Anyway, not being gross but he went down on me, and it was good, yeah, but now I ...

Two friends are fighting for my attentions

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5843 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - i have a group of four friends who are all male,they have been very very good friends. now two of them want a personal affair with me or want to start up a relationship which could go as far as marriage. now those two are not very good friends as ...

My friend cant get past being friends with girls

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - My best friend has the worst case of being 'stuck in the friend zone' that I've ever seen. He's a very charismatic person, and has absolutely no problem chatting to people he doesn't know. Unfortunately, he doesn't know when to...

I am finding it increasingly difficult to stay on top of things.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I was made redundant nearly 8 months ago now, and despite applying for numerous jobs and attending many interviews I have been unable to find work. I had clinical depression many years ago and am worried that the constant rejection is going to tip ...

IS my ex bf keeping in contact with me because he knows that if he does ask me back I would definitely go back to him and he knows it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - IS my ex bf keeping in contact with me because he knows that if he does ask me back I would definitely go back to him and he knows it? Like friday night in are local pub he was there with his new girlfriend and i was there with some mates, the pub ...

My boyfriend said that if I don't do good in school then he will dump me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - hey, Well I had a problem with my boyfriend last night. He said that if I don't do good in school then he will dump me (plus I am trying really hard in school). At that moment I felt like nothing and I felt unsuccessful because it's enough that my ...

I want to have a baby but my partner wants to wait... and wait... and wait...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5844 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - My partner and I have been together for a year and half - which isn't long, but we have also been living together for just over a year. We get on very well and love each other enormously. Recently I have been thinking about having children ...

Why am I turned on by something which I should be VERY ANGRY about?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I'm a 26 year old girl. Me and my bf have been having a serious relationship for 4 years and we intend to get married. But he fancies other girls too. He looks at photos of other girls in internet (not only porn, even very normal girls)an...

Do you get used to the taste of cum, like getting used to the taste of beer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5848 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - A questions for the girls out there. My girlfriend was wondering if the taste of cum is something that you get used to? You know, like how you have a beer or liquor for the first time, and it just tastes absolutely horrible. But as time goes on, ...

I don't know about this relationship any more.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I don't know about this relationship any more. Sometimes I love my boyfriend so much, somtimes I feel like I don't want to see him and if I never do I'll be fine, and sometimes its so awkward seeing him, and sometimes I love seeing him. It's ...

Why does it bother me to know that my boyfriend has had sex in public places...?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - Why does it bother me to know that my boyfriend has had sex in public places and done kinky stuff before, more than knowing he's had sex?...

My bi-sexual boyfriend, wants to go back to his ex, can't seem to let go, how do I deal with this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5851 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a bisexual older man for three years. We got a long well, but we do have arguments and usually I'm the one that started them. In the beginning, I did have a trust issue with him so that's how most of our arguments were. ...

We are in loving relationship, he moved away for a while, but will be back, do you think this will last until marriage?

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10 November 2008 (F) - I am 17 years old and have been with my boyfriend since we were 15. He moved about 1 months into the relationship and we have not seen each other much since then. I am completely in love with him as I am sure he is with me. Things are great, with ...

We have dated, I like him, but he is leaving for a three year stint overseas, should I get involved?

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10 November 2008 (F) - Hi, some simple questions 1. This guy has been asking me out 2-3 times for meals followed by nice long walks/talks. I've met his friends as well. Do you think he's interested in something more than friends? 2. However, he's going overseas next ye...

Should I wait for her or just give up now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5857 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - I met this girl that I like a lot and we were flirting all the time until I finally asked her out. And everything was fine for the first few DAYS. She had broken up with her last bf a few days before that because she was planning on asking me out. ...

Should we talk about it, forget about it or break up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5861 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - So me and my gf have been going out for around five months. It started in the summer where it was all doing fine. Then school started and we go to different ones so we couldnt see each other that much which made it kind of hard but we still talked ...

What can I do to help myself develop an interest in someone other than my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - Does anyone have any advice for things I can do to help myself develop an interest in someone other than my ex? We dated off-and-on for about two and a half years. I was sure I wanted to marry him. There were times when I think he was definitel...

Was he playing with me, or does he think that we should take our time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - i'm actually thinking about starting a relationship with someone. but i don't know if he really cares or not. when i was talking to him as a friend for a while he really didn't show any interest. my phone was turned off for five days. when he found ...

I need good tips on how to get your ex back.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - hey everyone:) i am here to ask you if anyone has any good tips on how to get your ex back... i know he loves me, but now he's with some other girl,does anyone have any idea on how to get him back :S ? i swear it will help me alot :)...

Do I need to do something to help mend whats been broken?

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10 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years. We are currently in two different cities, in two different states for school. We have broken up and gotten back together 3 times. It sounds crazy but we were very much in love... well recently ...

I can't sleep until I know... did he like her more than me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5862 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I need some clarification so I can sleep. Did he like her more than me? A guy I've known for a while and had a brief 'relationship' with is a player. He recently was dating this girl, however who sent her some presents, texted all the time, planne...

Is it normal that my boyfriend is still a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5014 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - The guy that I am currently dating is 22 years old and is a virgin. I asked him why but he just said that he doesn't know. He told me that he has three girls before. I am wondering if he lied to me about that. Is it normal for him to still be a ...

I told my mom we were in a relationship when we weren't. Now she wants to talk to him. Help!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I made the mistake of saying that this guy and I were in a relationship when we're really just friends (with benefits, but my mom doesn't know that), and now my mom wants to talk to him! He was really sweet about the whole thing and agreed to ta...

Do you have any input on what I should do, or if you think she likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5862 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - So there's this girl I really like, and I think she likes me back, and one of her best friends thinks she does, but I don't want to ruin our friendship, by making things awkward. We talk a lot, and when I see there, or she looks at me it looks l...

Is he gay? Or is it something else? I'm ready to give up!!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

10 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a few months now. Everytime we shedule a date something happens and we have to cancel. I'm beginning to think that maybe he's gay and he's just going through the motions of dating me but doesn't really want to do ...