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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi there guys.I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 9 months now. I got with him just a week after spliting up with my ex boyfriend (he dumped me because of my insecurity and jealousy). I didn't really have time to get over my ex, but I liked this guy as soon as I met him so I thought why not?? I went on holiday a week after I met him and slept with a random guy.I think I needed to do this to make sure my current bf wasn't just a rebound from my ex. It made me realise how much I liked my boyfriend so I came back from holiday and didn't think I should tell him. We had an amazing summer together in Spain and fell very much in love. Now we are back at university and live about 10 minutes from each other. Lately things have begun to change. He found out about me cheating on him back in April and now he treats me really badly. He talks to me completely differently and doesn't have respect for me any more.He has started working with a very very pretty girl who has recently split up with her boyfriend and now I'm starting to feel very insecure and jealous again. I told him how I feel and he said 'I won't cheat on you, not all people cheat like you Tammy, I love you'He mentions her quite often and I think he does it to wind me up and he's going on a staff night out with her soon. I feel sick at the thought of them being together. I love him a lot and know he loves me but we've been arguing so much lately and I've been feeling really down. I'm so scared of being dumped again cos I think it will bring back being finished by my ex too so it will be twice as painful. My self esteem is so low at the moment. I feel that these guys really love me but dump me because of my insecurity and jealousy. They think I'm 'weird' as they put it.I've had counselling but it didn't really help (can I just say my dad had lots of affairs when I was little which may have something to do with how I am.)What do I do???? :0( x x x
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